ASK MOMMY ANSWERS ARCHIVE                     PAGE 6
Question Asked By: Leigh-Jay Kendall
Age: 24

Q:

Can I use either a sippy cup (toddler training cup) or a baby bottle or both (e.g. baby bottle during the day and sippy cup at night or vice versa)


A:

    Hello Leigh,

    There are no rules saying when to use each one. Most children/babies use sippy cups during the day and baby bottles at night. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: chris
Age: Unknown

Q:

how can i get my mom to let my buy and wear diapers?


A:

Hello Chris,

     Only you know how your mother is. If your mom seems open minded try asking her about it. If you know your mother wouldn’t be open about don’t go to her about it. As far as the diapers, recycle cans, do a paper route, do odd jobs. There are ways to make the money. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Markie
Age: 44

Q:

   Dear Mommy,

   I have been a sissy for a long time, and my question is. when I was
twelve my mom started to put me into little training panties for
wetting the bed it wasn't till later when I still had accidents did she put me back into diapers. why do you think she first put me into training panties instead of diapers, and do you think she knew deep down I was a sissy?????


A:

Hello Markie,

     I can’t suggest the reason for use of training panties before using diapers. As far as knowing deep down you were a sissy, I can’t answer that either without knowing the person. It’s possible. The only way to know for sure is to ask her yourself about it. Sorry I can’t help more.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kyle
Age: 13

Q:

Kyle,

Hi Mommy, how do I tell my mom and dad that I was to wear diapers? And where do I buy/get them? THANKS


A:

    Hello Kyle,

    If your mom and dad are open minded people you can do some research on the internet to find what explains about why you want to wear diapers. If they are not open minded then it might be best to wait till your older to explore this part of your life with the use of diapers.

    As far as getting diapers you can buy them at most pharmacies/drug stores, supermarkets and places like walmart and kmart. For getting money for them can recycle cans, do odd jobs or do a paper route. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: GLENNIE
Age: 39

Q:

Dear Stanley and Sandra.  My father has terminal cancer and recently he got to the stage in his life that he now needs diapers.  My step mother puts him in depends pull up. (which we all know suck very very badly). 

How do I get her to understand there is much better diapers on the
market with out pulling down my pants in their living room and showing them what a real diaper is. I don't want them to know I wear diapers, but I feel very badly for my Father in his cheap, leaky diapers  I always wanted to submit a good question for you and Sandra.  hugs and take care


A:

     Hello GLENNIE,

     We recommend the eurobriefs. The person may be dieing, but there is no need to be uncomfortable. A wet leaky diaper is not comfortable. If you need a way to tell them you can say you have a friend that had a terminal disease that affected the bladder and they used eurobriefs. That way the attention about diapers doesn’t come on you. Hope this helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: To Scared To Say
Age: 14

Q:

I want to make my parents make me wear diapers. I have never talked to them about it and I don’t know if I should. I am becoming very desperate to wear. Should I wet the bed on purpose? Or do you got another tip on how to make them make me wear diapers. And don’t put my email on this site please.. :)


A:

Hello Too Scared To Say,

     First off you don’t want to make the situation out of your control. You should not fake a wetting problem, the meds to treat a real bladder problem can actually make you have a problem. If you really want to wear diapers I suggest you save up your allowance or recycle cans or do odd jobs for the money and not bring your parents into it at this point. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Matthew
Age: 18

Q:

I am take medication for my Epilepsy the medication I’m been taking it since I was a baby. The medication has a side of effect that make me pee a lot like every 15 or 20 min. I think this medication has weaken my bladder over the year so I was think about go back to diapers 24/7 again because of this reason. When I try to hold it really hard I  feel like I’m go to pee my pant. Can you please help me?


A:

Hello Matthew,

     If you are having trouble holding it, you might want to look into using diapers. Cloth is good for at home and disposables for going out works the best it seems. Life can be difficult always looking for the bathroom. Do keep using the bathroom when you can to retain as much control as possible, just wear the diapers for just in case. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Zooey
Age: 40

Q:

Where can I go on line find missing love ones for free living in LA. But looking for them in Texas. Thank you.


A:

Hello Zooey,

     I don’t know of any free services. Best I can suggest is go to yahoo search engine and put in “Find loved ones”. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra   

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 31

Q:

I would like to first thank you mommy for your diaper advice you gave me. I started wearing Abena Abri X Plus. They are great and good night time diapers(very thick). I got the large 40 to 60 inch waist. My waist is around 38 to 40. Is a diaper suppose to cover my navel?


A:

Hello Embarrassed,

    Some like it to, some don’t. If it feels right then go for it. It won’t do any harm to cover it. Most diaper do cover the navel, it’s just the ones that don’t like it to just fold the diaper down. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 31

Q:

Last two mornings I had accidents which involved pee and poop. This is my first time in dealing with a poopy diaper. I used baby wipes to clean my self and shook off excess poop in the toilet. I then rolled up the diaper and threw it away. Is this the correct disposal method? Also it I pee and pooping accidents should I get a diaper pail?


A:

Hello Embarrassed,

     Yes, that is the correct way to dispose of the diapers contents. A diaper pail is a excellent tool in control smell from wet and messy diapers. So yes, a diaper pail would be a good investment. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra     

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Question Asked By: Kim
Age: 14

Q:

Should I where diapers?


A:

Hello Kim,

     If you want to wear diapers there is nothing wrong with that. What ever makes you comfortable. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Grecu Fanica
Age: 36

Q:

How can I wet the diaper at night incontrollable, I try but  don't work. I drink lots of water before bed but I am awake when I got pee and I am not pee when I am lay down. Thanks.


A:

Hello Grecu,

     Don’t wish for things you may not like. I recommend you keep what control you do have. There are times when it would be very inconvenient to have to say “hold on a minute, I have to go change”. Just enjoy wearing the diapers the way you are right now. It’s good to be able to have the control when you want it. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: big baby Leigh
Age: 24

Q:

I am a 24 year old AB. Would like to use either a baby bottle or sippy cup (toddler trainer cup) or both (e.g. sippy cup in the morning and the baby bottle at night). Should I use full cream or skimmed milk?


A:

Hello Leigh,

     It’s up to you. Which ever you prefer. Everyone has something they like. Which ever you prefer. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra 

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Question Asked By: Bill
Age: 32


Q:

    DEAR MOMMY,

    I FEEL BLESSED THAT I HAVE FOUND A MOMMY, AND SHE WANTS ME TO BE A BABY IN EVERY SENSE. SHE WILL DO DIAPERS, FORMULA, BABY FOOD, BABY CLOTHES, SHE UNDERSTANDS THE NEED I HAVE FOR A MOMMY, AND HOW MUCH OF MY LIFE MOMMY WILL CONTROL. I DO HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS. I LIKE DISPOSABLE DIAPERS, SHE IS LEANING TOWARD CLOTH, IS THERE A BIG
DIFFERENCE. HOW LONG SHOULD IT TAKE TO ADAPT TO BABY FOOD/FORMULA. AS FAR AS FORMULA GOES, IS LOW IRON OK, I HAVE BEEN LOOKING HARD AND CANNOT FIND NO IRON FORMULA. SHE WANTS INGREDIANTS OF MOTHERS MILK IN ME, SEEING THAT SHE PROBABLY CANNOT PRODUCE BREAST MILK..
THANK YOU


A:

   Hello Bill,

   You have a few questions, so let’s take them one at a time. Your first question is, is there a difference between cloth and disposable. The answer is yes, Cloth diapers are a big investment in the start, but will save your money in the long run and people find them very comfortable. Also you have to deal the storage of wet cloth diapers till wash day which can become a smelly experience. Disposables are about convenience. Expensive in the long run, but they don’t require several loads of laundry to wash them. With disposables you get what you pay for. If you want disposables with close to the same absorbency of cloth we recommend Molicare or Eurobriefs.
  
    Your next question was about hold long is takes to adapt to baby food/formula. Nutritionally that’s not the best choice. Baby food is made for babies. The best idea would be to also have adult food too. Baby food does not provide the vitamins and nutrients adult need.

     Your next question was about if low iron formula was ok for adults. And adult should not drink iron fortified formula at all. It throws of their electrolytes. At the most, once a week low iron would be the most formula you can drink safely. Too much will do damage to your body. Hope that helps.

   -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Matthew
Age: 19


Q:

     Hi I write to you be for about my Epilepsy with my pills weaken my bladder thank you for the help. But now I what to know what I need to go back to diaper 24/7 in diaper again like to know how  many diaper I'm going to need and. I go through about 4 or 5 diaper a day depending if I have to go poop then 6. Am I going to need the stuff like mommy would have for her baby like a change pad or other thing?


A:
   Hello Matthew,

   You are already answering your own question. You say you use 4-5 a day unless you poop, then you need 6. That would be about 40-50 diapers per week to be in them 24/7. As far as baby needs for 24/7 diapering, you would need wipes, powder, diaper rash cream and a changing pad. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jimmy
Age: 28


Q:

    What do you think of tranquility diapers?


A:

    Hello Jimmy,

   We hear they are a good product, but we have not met anyone that has tried them and told us about it personally. Sorry we could not help more.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Anonymous
Age: 14


Q:

    Dear mommy,

    I want to wear diapers but I’m to embarrassed it ask my dad, and I can't ask my mum because she died from cancer. Can you help?



A:

   Hello Anonymous,

   I would suggest to only bring it up if you believe he would be accepting of it. Only you know your parent. Is there perhaps another relative you can speak to about this and give you advice on how to approach your dad? In the end sometimes it’s been best not to mention it and wait till your 18. Sorry we could not help more.

   -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Cody
Age: 17


Q:

    Do you know of any place that I can buy adult size baby stuff in the Dallas Texas area?


A:

    Hello Cody,

    We don’t know of anything in your area. There are several places online to order AB things. Diaper connection is one place that has other things besides diapers. Diaper Station is another good site. But both require credit cards to buy things. Sorry we do not know of any stores to buy things in person.

    -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kelly
Age: 15


Q:

    Hi I like pooping my pants so I was wanted to be treated like a baby and put into diapers but how should I tell my mom this?


A:

   Hello Kelly,

   I would not mention that till you are 18. Most parents do not understand the AB/TB/DL lifestyle. Many will put you into therapy, have you admitted and other methods. The best advice I can tell you is to keep it to yourself till you are 18. Sorry we could not help more.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: JAMES MILLER
Age: 28


Q:

   HOW DO I GET IN CONTACT WITH OTHERS IN MY AREA? I LIVE IN SUNDERLAND MA RIGHTOUT SIDE OF U MASS.


A:

    Hello James,

    Go online and post on message boards is the best advice I can give you. There isn’t a phone book with AB/DL names and address out there. Sorry I can’t help more.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Mark [melissa] tomas
Age: 45


Q:

    I am a adult baby who lives here in Annapolis Maryland and I also had a mommy and her name was Mommy Anne. I am still looking for her but I seem cant find her. She ripped me off by asking for a lot of money from me, so which she was coming to my house to see me and now I am trying to get that money back from her. Also it was $2,500.00 so I want to see if you can help me in any way.
                           Mark [melissa]


A:

   Hello Mark,

   There are a lot out there who call themselves mommy’s but are not mommy-like. It sounds like the mommy you had was just out there for the mommy. Unless you have some proof of you giving her this money and a letter saying she would pay you back, there is nothing you can really do. Especially since you don’t know where she is. Unfortunately the old saying “buyer beware” applies even to mommy’s.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Merlyn Doyle Brindley Jr
Age: 33


Q:

     This is about Diaper Rash? I have read the info on the diaper rash, and does it really work because I have extremely blistering sore diaper rash, for about 15 years. I have itched it. I am thinking that I need to see a doctor. I have used female cream, Vaseline, baby powder, baby lotion, A&d Ointment, Destin and corona ointment for animals too. I am starting to cry for some help on this. If need to see a doctor then kind of doctor and should I go to see the doc in a diaper or not? I do have trouble talking to a doc about this. And what do I say to the doc about this lifestyle of mine? It isn't sexual, this is really my lifestyle, but without a mommy to treat me as a baby for life. I want to be spanked, cornered, timeout. Mommy will you please help me get this diaper rash cleaned up?


A:

   Hello Merlyn,

   First of all if nothing else have been working and it’s blistering you need to see a doctor. You can see your regular doctor about it. As far as going in diapers you probably should go wearing diapers since you belive the rash is coming from it. The doctor would need to see the type of diaper your wearing because you could be having an allergic reaction to the diaper. Or if it’s cloth diapers it could be laundry soap among other things. He might ask you how you clean yourself. If he can’t find the answer he might send you to a dermatologist. I hope everything goes well.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarassed
Age: 31


Q:

     I have read before on other sites that if you wear diapers you should shave your diaper area of any hair including pubic hair.  Is this true? If this is true should I use a razor or cream? What creams are safe?


A:

   Hello Embarassed,

   It’s a matter of preference. Many AB’s prefer short hair or no hair just because it’s easier to clean. You don’t have to. That’s up to you. As far as razor or cream, that again is up to you. Here is a article about it.

http://p206.ezboard.com/fbedwettingabdlfrm48.showMessage ?topicID=123.topic

  Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tom
Age: 19


Q:

      How can I accidentally wet/mess myself without having to try?  Like it just happening without thinking or trying and without using hypnotics. Please respond thank you.
-tom


A:

  Hello Tom,

  Eat and drink a lot and wait for the magic to happen. That’s all I can suggest.

  -Sandra
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