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Question Asked By: Beachboy
Age: 49

Q:

I've tried almost everything.... at night, while sleeping, I still leak my diaper / plastic pants, and end up wetting the bed. What can I do better to stop leaks? My live in girlfriend is getting mad. Please reply ASAP. Back injury started it.


A:

Dear Beachboy,

I do have a few suggestions for you. First, make sure you have the correct size diaper and that it is snugly on. You might want to consider 'stuffers'. These are inserts that go inside of the diaper to absorb more. They sell them at medical supply stores or you can use an actual child's diaper. To use a child's diaper, you open up the diaper and cut several slits through the plastic outer cover. Then lay the cut baby diaper, absorbent side up, inside of your diaper and put on as normal. The purpose is the urine hits the baby diaper first and once full will trickle through it before it hits your diaper- a sort of absorbency booster. It works great. Another option is to get a package of toddler size cloth diapers. Wal-mart carries some. Based on how much you wet, fold 1-4 (or more if needed) cloth diapers into 3rds and place in your diaper. Yea you will have to wash cloth diapers, but it will save you not having to wash the sheets every morning too. Continue to use the mattress protector and ask your girlfriend to be a little patient for a little longer. I wish you luck!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Vickster
Age: 20

Q:

I live in a single dorm room, and want to make a poopie in my diapers, would it be noticeable to others? How do I change a poopie diaper myself? Thanks!!! <3


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Dear Vickster,

There is nothing wrong with you wanting to poop your diapers. The problem arises after you do. Depending on the size of said poop, it just might very well show in the back and of course there is the odor. My suggestion is to poop when no one else is around, enjoy it and then clean up. Remember to not sit in the poop for too long. Even the most hardiest of skin can develop a rash. For odor I recommend double bag the dirty diaper and spray some "Oust" air freshener. Take care and be happy.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jess
Age: 45

Q:

How do I stop peeing almost every second?


A:

Dear Jess,

The first thing I always suggest is to see your doctor. Make sure there are no medical reasons for the wetting. If there are any problems your doctor can help you with perhaps meds or other treatments. In the meantime you can reduce your liquid intake, be sure you are still getting your 8 glasses of water. Limit caffeine- it makes you go. Make frequent bathroom stops to eliminate any accidents. Hope these tips help. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrasses Mommy
Age: 37

Q:

Thanks for all the help. Sometimes taking care of an AB boy is tough. His inner child has to be 2 or 3 years of age. He was being difficult this morning. So after I cleaned up his nightly accidents, I bathed him and diapered him again. I told him him since he wasn't acting like big boy he must want to be one for the day. I dressed him and told him we were going shopping for the day. You can imagine the tantrum he put up since he was concerned about his diaper under his clothes. I took back to his room, and explained he could either go shopping with a sore bum and diapered, or put up with just a diaper under his clothes. After calming down we went off to the mall. He was scared needless to say, and kept close. I noticed one time he was looking at the bathrooms, so I grabbed his hand and led him away. After eating lunch I found a quiet spot to do I diaper check to find a warm swollen diaper. The problem is I couldn't change him in the men's room or even the women's room. I felt confident his diaper would hold so we shopped a little more. He was happy to get to the car since he had a BM accident in the parking lot. At that point I praised him for being a good boy today. He was not happy. I got him home cleaned him up re-diapered him and put him down for a nap. He had a busy day. The only problem is how do you change your baby when your out in public. If he were an actual baby, I would have changed him in the ladies room? Does he have to suffer being in a soiled diaper?


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Dear Embarrassed mommy,

He certainly was a good boy that day. They have their good days and then others...well you want to strangle them! My suggestion for the changing problem is to have changing supplies in the car. A waterproof mat to lay on across the seat and of course the wipes, diapers, powder etc. and don't forget a few grocery bags to put the soiled diapers inside of. Whether you use cloth or disposable the bags are great- for disposable just throw away, for cloth keeps smell and wetness in bag till you get home to launder them. So take all the trips you want and know you have the supplies nearby just in case.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Max English
Age: 19

Q:

What makes a good diaper story? Which gender is better being diapered in the story? Male or female? I am asking this question because I have an idea for what I want to write about just no gender. So my question I think when you or anyone else you know reads a story which gender getting diapered is the better story?


A:

Dear Max,

As many different readers there are, there are as many different stories they want to read. I will tell you this, the majority of readers like a story that is believable or totally not, to a point. In other words be true to life or go all out fantasy. It is 50/50 with the gender, it depends on the story. In certain scenarios a female would be better and in other storylines a male. Take your story idea and think, would you rather see a male or female playing out the story? In the end there is no right or wrong. Write from your heart and it'll be great. Can't wait to read it!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Christina
Age: 30 (or 3)

Q:

I am a female, born female. I have been looking for a mommy for years now! I'm not gay but I'd be more comfortable being cared for and having a woman diaper me than a man. I get a lot of people who want to talk online and then nothing!  Is there anything else I can do?  I love being an adult baby and wearing my diapers but don't want to have to give it up because it's unrealistic to find someone to take care of me.


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Dear Christina,

It is so difficult to find a AB mommy in the best of situations. My only suggestion is to go to the online mommies/daddies you know and ask for referrals to anyone they know in your area. It might be a long tedious process but when you do find someone it will all be worth it. And you can also check out your "Mommy Finder" and see if there is anyone in your area. Hang in there and stay strong. To ease the longing you could also contact others AB's in your area and have a 'playdate'. Okay no mommy is involved but at least you can still enjoy who you are and have your baby time with a friend. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Joshua
Age: 15

Q:

Why won't my mom understand and accept me, any idea's please.


A:

Dear Joshua,

It can be hard when someone you love doesn't understand and accept you. All you want to do is share what you love with them, but some only want to know and see what they want. My mother was the same way and never accepted me. Sometimes they come around and sometimes they don't given enough information. There are no magic words to say to make them understand. Don't give up hope though. My mother passed away a few years ago, but before she died she finally understood. Maybe your Mom will also one day be able to understand. In the mean time, remember you do have someone who thinks you are perfect just as you are- US.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Cass
Age: 14

Q:

Ok, uh.. I have no idea how to really ask this cause like I'm pretty embarrassed about asking it.. but uh I'm too young to have an AB parent in real life.. do you know where I can find like a role play AB TB parent who's just online not in real life..? Also.. I don't even know if I really like this stuff... I just kinda like feel like I do.. how do I figure out if I really do?


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Dear Cass,

You are that age when you are starting to get a sense of who you are. If being a TB is your 'cup of tea' as they say you'll find out pretty quick. My suggestion would be to go to our mommies page and see if you can arrange e-mail sessions with someone. There might be a charge but it shouldn't be much. Being under 18, you wouldn't find anyone willing to take you on in person- laws and stuff, but online should be okay. When you find someone, like I said, it should be clear to you very quickly if this is something you wish to keep doing. I wish you luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Takashi
Age: 18

Q:

Hello.... Okay I've been DL as far back as I can remember and I still enjoy it today..but here's my problem...I need to grow up and get over this...I like it but I want to stop doing it and wanting to wear diapers...so my question is, how do I stop being DL?


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Dear Takashi,

You are asking the leopard to lose his spots. If your love of being DL is so strong, why do you need to stop doing it? You can be grown up and still a DL. I know a very well respected professional, he works in a very prestigious job and he wears diapers on the weekends. For him it's a stress reliever. If being a DL is that strong with you the only way to get rid of the feeling is to replace it with another activity/desire. Be who you are and be proud. Why change, we think you're perfect just the way you are! If you are dead set on trying to stop, I recommend seeing a behavioral therapist. But it won't be fast. It takes time to change such ingrained behaviors/desires.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Nick
Age: 18

Q:

How easily is a pull-up diaper spotted when covered up by pants? How strong is the scent of urine? Is there any diaper wearing tips? Can adults look at someone and instantly know if they are wearing diapers?


A:

Dear Nick,

It all depends on the pants. If the pants are on the loose side, no one will notice. To minimize the crinkle of the plastic (if there is any noise) you can pull a regular cotton brief over the pull-up, it will 'hold' the pull up snug and lessen the sound and a side benefit if the top of the BVD's are showing no one will realize pull ups are under them. Just a little tip. Most people are so caught up in their own lives that they will not notice if you have a diaper on under you clothes. And the ones that do happen to notice 99% of the time won't even say anything to you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Daniel Clay
Age: 29

Q:

My mommy is looking for some tips on how to treat her new baby. If you could give her some new mommy help on how to treat a baby she would like it. Mommy is asking for a step by step plan on how to take care of her baby and how to check his diaper and just all around mommy tips. Please help


A:

Dear Daniel,

Your mommy just needs to treat you as if you were a real baby. There are books written on the subject and too much info to put here. Basically just check the baby every few hours for a wet/soiled diaper. See if baby is hungry, play with baby and of course the most inportant...LOVE the baby. Enjoy your mommy and baby time!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: James
Age: 21

Q:

Dear Mommy, I come to you once again with a unique problem. I am a part of my college's Mock Trial team. Over the course of the year, we will compete in various courtroom trials. The problem is, it's a long, long process, with no bathroom breaks. I'm considering just wearing a diaper, but it needs to be discreet. Therefore, I ask my question: What is a good diaper that shows no bulge (I wear a fairly loose pair of suit pants), makes no noise, and conceals odors. This is a competition, and I do not want to risk anybody even so much as noticing it. Is there a discrete diaper that meets these criteria, or am I just going have to hold it throughout the whole trial?


A:

Dear James,

I recommend Unique wellness briefs or Dry24/7. They are both excellent- good absorbency and have staying power. I know the Unique Wellness can last up to 10-12 hours or just shy of 3 liters of urine before needing a change. The Dry 24/7 diapers are similar but can only hold about 2 liters of urine. They are both very quiet as they are made of a thicker plastic and have no bulk. To further silence them, wear regular briefs over them. The briefs keeps it snug to you so no noise and if anything shows above your waist band, all that will be seen is the BVD logo etc. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Quinn
Age: 14

Q:

How can I get diapers without my parents fining out one of them works but the other got laid off this summer. And I was also what type and or size of diaper would you recommend for me I am 5' 4'' and 93 lbs


A:

Dear Quinn,

I think the best product for you would be the Goodnites. To get the money to purchase them is another story. If you don't get an allowance perhaps you can do odd jobs for cash. Do errands, offer to wash cars, rake leaves, recycle cans or plastic bottles and so on. To purchase the diaper you can either go to a store or order them online. If going to a store, try using a store not very close to your home. If ordering online have them delivered to a trusted family member/friend. And to order online you will have to have a credit card or debit card. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Sammy
Age: 12

Q:

How do I get diapers without my brothers knowing and my mom. I don't have any money either.


A:

Dear Sammy,

There are a few things you can do. Unfortunately no one gives diapers away for free. For money you can use your allowance. If you don't get an allowance perhaps offer to do odd job for cash. Walk dogs, babysit, if you live in the right area-rake fall leaves etc. Or you can recycle cans or plastic bottles. Most dollar stores sell small packs/travel packs of diapers. They are small and don't cost much money. Typically they are 4 for $1.00 in many dollar stores. You could perhaps purchase one of those. If anyone asks in the store, you are buying them for a younger brother/sister. But I don't think they will ask. Be sure you have a good hiding spot picked out and bring them home and enjoy. Hope this helps.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed's Mommy
Age: 37

Q:

Good afternoon mommy. It was a good day today. My ABDL toddler didn't give me any trouble when he got home today. I stripped off his clothes in a hurry, prepared his diaper area, and diapered him. Left him in just the diaper, and sent him off to watch T.V. I was shocked to find out I forgot to buy him this months diaper supplies. He has only 4 diapers left. I quickly ordered a case, I just hope they get here quickly. I will try to ration the 4 which means I will have to let some accidents go longer. Worse case is I'll have to get a store brand, but he will throw a tantrum if it doesn't have something cute on the front. Last time this happened he got the paddle. I have 2 questions. First is it ok to let a few accidents go before a change? If it's soaking I figure I'll let the diaper swell close to flooding before changing. These diapers can hold a lot! If he messes his diaper before bedtime I will need to change him. My second question is waist size. I order waist 45-60 waist even though his waist is 40-41. He likes the large diapers more than mediums. He says mediums are two tight. Is this common or should I try mediums again? Large works for him I just tighten it up for him. I just hope the new stretchy tapes on the diapers don't make them to big. Got to go, thanks mommy!


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Dear Embarrassed mommy,

While it's okay to wear a soiled diaper for a short amount of time, you have to be sure to not do it often and clean well when you change and use some sort of protection. I recommend no longer than 1 hour in a wet diaper. Another option is to let the baby 'air out' for a while. Seat the baby on a waterproof pad with no diaper and let the skin get an air bath- nice treat for the skin. It is always a good idea to get a larger size diaper. As you have found it is more comfortable for baby. And is good for nighttime for those who use booster pads- more room more comfort. I wish you both well, take care.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Babyfloyd
Age: 46

Q:

My question is, is it ok for an adult to wear a baby diapers if it fits him/her? I tried adult diapers and they fall off and give me a diaper rash when I use them all adults diapers. Should I do the baby fits me?


A:

Dear Babyfloyd,

The first rule is to be comfortable and to have a diaper that absorbs well. If in your case a baby diaper fits the bill then by all means wear it. Why keep wearing the adult diaper that gives you rashes when you can be comfy? Don't forget to powder.. :)

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Sean
Age: 25-5yo


Q:

Hi I am, a baby boy who is going on 5yo I am trying to wet the bed but can't seem to I wet during the day with no problem I am so relaxed I can wet and walk but for the life of me I can't pee while asleep or sitting down I want to but can't please please help I have tried the water before bed and hypnosis before nothing works I just keep waking up..


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Dear Sean,

We have a program that will help you to un-potty train. I must caution you, be sure this is what you want. This program works. It says it's a year program but members have begun wetting within 2 weeks. Another caution is that the wetting will be 24/7. Not just at night, but also during the day. Your body can't e selective and say incontinent from 9 AM to 3 PM and potty trained the rest of the time. So again be sure it's is what you want. If so the link is http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/12_Month_
Diaper_Training_Program_For_Becoming_incontinent.html I wish you luck!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 37

Q:

Mommy just looked at my diapee and it looks like someone needs changed. I think she means me. She asked me if I need to go poo poo, and I said NO! She just laughed and said my poor little guy. Then she told me I still have a few hours before bed time so I can watch some cartoons. She didn't change me diapee. Why? Why does she also take all my clothes off during a diapee change? Mommy told me these are mommy things that baby doesn't need to worry about. She says I wouldn't understand.


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Dear Embarrassed,

There are things that little boys and girls don't need to know...at least not until they are older. Just know that your mommy has a reason for everything she does. As for the taking off the clothes, it is easier to clean you and not get the clothes you are wearing dirty. Be happy that you have a good mommy who cares about you. Be good.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jacobdade
Age: 13

Q:

I've liked diapers for awhile (2 years) and am afraid to tell anybody because of scorn or humiliation. do you have any idea how to break the ice, or how to start the topic for an easy chat with them?
Thanks, Jacobdade


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Dear Jacobade,

One great way to break the ice about the subject is to just talk about it. Here's how, You say "I just read the most amazing thing online. It seems there are people who like to wear diapers....what do you think about that?" You not only get the topic out there you can safely gauge how receptive the person is to the idea. If they respond with how disgusting and so on, obviously this is someone you do not share your info with. However if they say how interesting that sounds, then there might be hope with that one. Try your own version of this and see if it works. I wish you luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Nate
Age: 13

Q:

I have recently started to wet the bed and I don't know why. I have never had this problem before and I can't tell my parents because they will laugh at me... Should I buy myself some Goodnites or something? I am completely healthy and am VERY confused (YES it is urine). Thank you for helping.


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Dear Nate,

Your story sounds just like my son's. In his case it was an immature bladder. Simply, he had a growth spurt and his bladder didn't. So his 8 year old bladder was trying to do the work for a 12 year old body....it just couldn't do it. The result was wetting. If this is the case then you will grow out of it. Your bladder will catch up. For many kids the wetting stops by around age 15-17.  In the meantime if you feel you need to wear something then by all means do so. You might also try just getting a waterproof barrier for your bed- get 2 that way you can have one while the other is being washed. If not a actual plastic sheet, you can get a shower curtain from a dollar store or store like Wal-mart as they are cheaper. I wish you luck. You are not alone, remember that. We're here if you need to talk or rant to.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Katy
Age: 13

Q:

Hi, recently my dad found my stash and I found a new hiding place...but now my room smells like dried pee...any tips on removing the smell?


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Dear Katy,

There are many wonderful products on the market that deal with that. First off you need an airtight container for your used diapers, so the odor can be contained. And any bags not in a container, double bag them. One of Stanley and I's favorite products is Oust surface and air. It deodorizes the surfaces and when sprayed in the air eliminates any smells. "Febreze extra strength fabric refresher" is another good products for things like carpets, mattress and bed sheets. Hope this helps.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ryan
Age: 16

Q:

I hope this isn't considered inappropriate but I need advice. When I wear a diaper I get excited and my penis ends up getting erect. I feel guilty for this. How do I stop feeling guilty and is it normal?


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Dear Ryan,

What you are describing is actually quite common and yes normal.  Even infant boys can sometimes get erect when being changed. It is a muscle spasm of sorts and nothing to feel guilty about. so relax, take a deep breath....you're normal! But because your penis would be pointing up when erect, if you wet with it in this position your diaper will leak. For dealing with it you have two options. The first is to "relieve yourself" so to speak. Or the second option is to just ignore it for about 20-30 minutes till it goes away and then just reach down and point it back down. Hope this helps, Take care.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Donald
Age: 34

Q:

Hi I'm a 34 yo and I've been a bed wetter for the last 8 years and lately I began wetting myself during the day. I been wearing diapers since I began wetting the bed and now I wear diapers 24/7. What will cause this to happen to me? If you can please supply me with some answers. Why at 34 will I wet the bed and wet myself during the day? 34yo who wets himself 24/7.
Thanks, Donald          


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Dear Donald,

The only way to know for certain is to see a doctor but it sounds like stress incontinence to me. It can start as bedtime wetting due to the loss of bladder muscle tone. Over time that loss can worsen and then daytime wetting can also occur. There are medications and/or absorbent products that you can use. To be clear on all your options check with your doctor. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: BabySwimFin
Age: 61

Q:

Should BabySwimFin keep playing with diapers and plastic pants? I like to do it, but should I buy more diapers and plastic pants or should I stop this kind of play. Thank you for your help BabySwimFin.


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Dear BabySwinFin,

Last time I checked we still lived in a free country. You break no laws and hurt no one, so if you want to keep wearing and playing by all means go for it! This life can be hard an if you find something that relaxes you or brings joy to your every day- stick with it. So diaper up and be happy.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Amanda
Age: 20

Q:

I am catholic and being baptized soon and I want to wear a cute poofy short white baby girl type dress with a bonnet, lace socks and white shoes. I have seen many teen girls in these outfits and they look adorable. Should I wear a disposable diaper or cloth diaper and rubber pants under the dress?


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Dear Amanda,

If you desire to wear diapers then by all means wear them. Just a few tips. If you want their to be no noise either wear tights over the diapers or wear regular undies. They will hold the material flush to your body and have no movement and therefore no sound. I know you mentioned the lace socks but I have seen cute embroidered tights. In either case wearing something over the diaper will stifle the noise. I wish you luck on your special day.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 37

Q:

From Embarrassed:

Mommy, my mommy told me to post this. I need my diapees cause I am a baby. I need them for potty time. My mommy knows best when to change me. I am still a baby who needs be told when he needs to be changed.

From Embarrassed's Mommy:

Sorry mommy, but sometimes it reinforces a lesson when I have him write it out. He came up to me this morning saying he thought he needed changing. I knew he needed changing, a lot earlier than he did. It's little hard to hide a wet diaper when that's all your wearing, especially when your baby soaks the front of it instead of the crotch. I wanted to see if he had to poop yet, which is why I let it go. I have to admit he also looks cute running around with teddy bears on the front of his diaper. These are new diapers we're trying, and have to admit the taping area could be better, but they do their job. Since there little bigger than the prescribed waist size that add a nice BM pocket on the backside. I'm trying to determine if the diaper is too big. When I pull it between his legs it barely covers his belly button. It hasn't leaked yet at night or during the day. Is there another test I can do to determine if it's to big on him? Well time to change him. We have some errands to run today, but not as a baby today, since he was a good boy today for the most part. Thanks mommy!


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Dear Embarrassed mommy,

I think you pretty much covered all the major features you need to check out. As long as it holds a good amount, it's a winner in my book. He must look cute with the teddy bears on it. Let us know how those diapers work out. Good times for both of you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 37

Q:

Mommy I am so sad because mommy tells me I made poo poo in my diapee. Do big boys sometimes have poo poo accidents? Mommy still calls me baby, but I'm a big boy! Why does mommy wait for my changing. She told me baby needs breakfast first then she change me? She told me to eat first, and I said NO! She put me in time out, but snuck here to send message. Why don't she change me? Got to go she wants me to go down and eat?


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Dear Embarrassed,

Mommies always have reasons for the things they do. When my babies were little I would wait till after breakfast to change them too. Eating their breakfast made them go (they have been holding it in all night if you think about it) and waiting to clean them up after so I can wash them and put their clothes on for the day just made sense. I suspect your mommy has a reason similar to that. But you know to be a big boy you need to listen to your mommy. Like I said she has a reason for everything she does. You have a good mommy who loves you and cares about you. You are one of the lucky ones. So try to be good and make her proud. Take care.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Mark
Age: 44

Q:

Can I use FDS spray on my diaper rash? I get very sweaty, stinky even after bathing.


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Dear Mark,

You can use the FDS spray as long as you have no rashes or open wounds. It is good for general hygiene. Since you said you have a rash I would recommend you using Balmex or similar diaper rash product and corn starch powder. Balmex is excellent for any minor skin irritation and usually works in a day or two. The corn starch powder absorbs wetness and helps keep you comfortable and dry between changing's. Also using the Balmex as a light coating will help prevent future rashes. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Age: 3

Q:

Is it ok for a baby boy to wear rhumba panties or to want to wear little girl stuff? Mommy says NO, but I like to wear my sisters dresses and rhumba panties a lot and Mommy has caught me with them on and I've gotten a spanking for it. So is it ok for me to wear them? Thanks. Baby Billy


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Dear Baby Billy,

There is nothing wrong with a 'sissy' baby wearing the panties and frills. The question is, are you a sissy baby (a boy who dresses as a little girl)? The other issue is your AB mommy. She said no and no is no. All babies have to listen to their mommies. My suggestion to you is to try and talk to your AB mom and see if she would consider letting you try it for a while. Remember though, whatever she says goes. I wish you luck in your quest.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Aleshia
Age: 25

Q:

Is it normal for me to sometimes get a little spurt in my panties during the nightime. Has this happened to you? Have you ever gotten a poop stain or pee stain on your panties as a mom?


A:

Dear Aleshia,

What you are describing happens to a lot of women. Childbirth and certain forms of exercising can weaken muscles. So an occasional drip here and there is normal. I used my sanitary pads to catch any wayward leakage that occured. So if you are having this problem talk to a doctor and make sure there is nothing seriously wrong and just hang in there. Good luck.

-Hugs Sanda

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Question Asked By: Tristan Harrison
Age: 27

Q:

I want a daddy to change me when I poop in them. If I poop in nappies, how do I become nappied for life?


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Dear Tristan,

It can be a difficult job trying to find a mommy/daddy.  We do have a mommy/daddy finder page which is located at: http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/Mommys.html. It is a good base to start looking. As far as the wearing 'poopy' nappies for life- all you can do is when you feel the urge, ignore it and use the nappy. Eventually your body will get the idea and just use the nappy. It might take a little while but be patient. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kirstie
Age: 15

Q:

Hi, so I love to role play. It is the only real time I get to feel like a baby. As babying myself isn't that great as I really want to be held and cared for. I also have a few friends who feel the same way about this and was wondering what site you would recommend for role play or maybe just to be talked to like a baby or be able to talk to carers. Most site don't have any mommys and daddys on them. Hope to hear from you soon.
Kirstie


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Dear Kirstie,

I have heard of one site that has role playing in chat called Daily Diapers. It has gotten good reviews and has a chat room as well. However it's a adults only website. But there are countless others out there, and more opening every day. I would suggest trying a search using the cue words "adult baby role playing chat" and see what comes up. That might bring up some other sites to check out. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra
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