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Question Asked By: Diaperboy
Age: 14

Q:

What is the best way to tell my mom?


A:

Dear Diaperboy,

I get this question very often. I always say the same thing. First- Do you really need to tell your mom? If you feel compelled to. okay. Next is- Is your mom a open-minded person and accepting of new ideas? If yes, you might have a chance. If the answer is no- it might be in your interest to keep quiet. We have had members tell their parents- one father put his child in therapy because she was disturbed but then again another parent listened and asked questions and actually let them wear diapers on the weekends at home. It can go either way. Only you know how your mom's mind set is. There are no magic words to say. All you can do is gather your info and try to tell her (if you decide to tell her) as calmly as possible why you want this. Say it helps calm you and offer to only do it on the weekends or some sort of arrangement. I hope all goes well for you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tien/ Ariel
Age: 13 going on 3

Q:

Hello mommy I'm a diaper lover that has a double personality. My first one is me that everyone knows. The second is baby Ariel, she is a toddler that I want to free, but I don't want my parents to know help!!!!!


A:

Dear Tien,

I am sorry you have the problem you do. It is like living two separate lives huh? Unfortunately you are in a tough bind. You are under 18 and is considered the ward of your parents. They have control over what happens to you. Is this something you think they would understand and accept? If not you will need to keep your second personality under wraps for now. Until your parents will accept Ariel or until you are 18, you will just have to do what you can. I wish you luck.

  -Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Etienne
Age: 12

Q:

Thanks mommy I tried it out and it was amazing, but I want to find a way to get baby items such as bottles and toys (bath toys are not a problem). Also I have another personality named Ann, say hi Ann "hewwo mommy". She wants a pretty dress but I'm a dude and share my room ,help .( I am currently using long shirts but she really wants a real one) HELP!!!!


A:

Dear Etienne,

Your timing is perfect. Ask your parents to buy you a dress and shoes and socks...No I am not crazy. You tell them it is for Halloween. You can get to wear it openly and keep it to wear when everyone out of the house. You might be only able to indulge once in a while but at least this way you can have something. Hope this helps.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Libby
Age: 23

Q:

How can I make myself wet in my diapers easily no mess though! I just want to wet when I'm alone and doing activities like walking or laying down? I don't want to do it all the time I just want to know what I can do to relax and let go. Thanks
-Libby


A:

Dear Libby,

There are really only two ways to do this. One is to use a hypnosis tape. One specifically targeted towards AB's-the tape tells you to perceive yourself as a baby with no control and so on. The only drawback is not everyone is susceptible. Some are immune. The other way is the old fashioned way- drink lots of water and just let go when you feel the urge. At least that way you have control over when you wet. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jerry
Age: 23

Q:

I live at home with my mother and brother who is 15 and sister who is 11. I also have an older sister who is 26. I wear Goodnites to bed and undies (briefs) during the day. My pull-up is wet every morning and I also wet and poop in my pants during the day sometimes.

I wore Huggies and Pampers until I was about 5 and then mom started putting me in cotton training pants. I wore them until I was 10 or 11 and then started wearing underwear.

I am very small, so I can still wear L/XL Goodnites. I would like to wear cotton training pants instead of underwear, but can't find any in my size. Do you know where we can find training pants in my size?

Also, my little brother and sister can be pretty mean to me. How can I get them to stop teasing me?


A:

Dear Jerry,

You seem to have a good handle on your wetting. It can sometimes make life interesting. I have heard of a few sites you can try to find the briefs you want. The first is http://www.northshorecare.com/pullonsyouth1.html and the other is Bedwettingstore.com/Briefs/briefs_youth_group.html. They seem to have some good items that might be up your alley. So happy pants hunting.

-Hugs Sandra