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Question Asked By: David
Age: 12

Q:

How do I tell my mom I want to wear diapers? I don't bed wet


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Dear David,

I get this question a lot and I always say the same thing. There are no magic words to say, if your parents are not open to it they will never accept it. Is your mom open-mided? Will she be understanding about this? If you know she is not, then she will never accept it. But if she is understanding perhaps with some facts and discussion she might accept it. Only you know your Mom, so you need to make the decision as to whether or not to tell her. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Masaru
Age: 20

Q:

Dear Mommy,

For the past year and a half, I have become incontinent by excessive diaper use. I have enjoyed it, but now the circumstances of my life have changed, and I wish to re-potty train myself. How should I go about it?


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Dear Masuru,

It is not uncommon for people who use diapers 24/7 to become incontinent. But now that you wish be trained again, you will need to start from scratch. With a toddler you have an idea when the child goes- that is when you put them on the potty. For example my oldest would go after eating breakfast, so after breakfast- on the potty she would go. Eventually the idea grows in the brain- not in the diaper but in the potty. As long as you stay committed you will be potty trained again. Good luck

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: "G-String"
Age: 18

Q:

I have a question.

Having been around the 'furry' community, I've seen many people say that they are 'littlefurs'. Basically, this means that in addition to being a furry, they ... I guess 'roleplay' would be the proper term? ... somewhere in the age of 5-12. This obviously wouldn't make them a 'teen', but also it wouldn't qualify them as an AB. So, what would be the non-furry term for this age range?


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Dear G-string,

As with humans calling their young babies or infants, so also does the animal world have its nicknames. A baby fox is a kit, baby dog is a puppy and so on. In the animal world the young animal term would apply until adulthood. So whether you say you are a baby animal or a teen animal, the name would be the same. So just enjoy being a furry, baby or not be sure you have a good time.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Double J
Age: 27

Q:

I want to know why I want to wear diapers. All my life I wanted them. I mainly wear baby diapers. I mainly wet them. When I wear them I feel more calm and more relax in them. I mainly wear them at night and to bed and sometimes all day long. I just wanted to know why I feel the need to wear baby diapers.


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Dear Double J,

The answer is simple. The one time in life that we are loved and accepted for no other reason than just being alive is when you are a baby. Who wouldn't want to relive that? To just be you and it be perfect for someone. It's all about love and caring. That's why you are so calm and relaxed. That sense of belonging is there. Just enjoy and let the good feelings fill you up.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Joe
Age: 15

Q:

I currently live with my cousin who is 19 I wear diapers and she knows this but she does not need to change me I am a sissy boy I love wearing diapers and girly stuff how do I tell her this and try to get her to be my mommy.


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Dear Joe,

You didn't mention why you are with your cousin and not your parents. Is your cousin your guardian? If she is then she has a say in what happens to you. If your cousin is an understanding person you might be able to sit her down and explain to her how you feel. Only do this if you know that she would be open to you being a sissy. If she is your guardian and is not open to the idea she could make things very difficult for you. So think real long and hard as to whether you even want her to know at this time. When you are 18 no one can have control over what you do, but until then you are under someone's influence. Wish you luck

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Nicole
Age: 14

Q:

Dear Mommy,

I am fairly sure I'm a DL, however when I told my mom what a DL was (I haven't told her I'm one) she said that it was extremely perverted. Now I know that isn't true, but I don't want to feel wrong about my likes. What should I do?


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Dear Nicole,

Most people dislike what they don't understand. Your Mom probably never heard of it before so she thinks it's 'weird'. You have to do nothing. You feel what you feel. Never let anyone tell you that what you feel is wrong- it isn't. Just keep trying to give your Mom little bits of info once in a while and one day she might get it.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Bob
Age: Unknown

Q:

Why do people wear diapers?


A:

Dear Bob,

There are many reasons why people wear diapers. Some wear out of need- they have a condition and/or problem with wetting and need some kind of protection. Others wear because they like the feel of the diapers or they like the way the diapers make them feel. The diapers give them a sense of well-being or comfort. In others they can relive their baby years and experience all the love over again. Bottom line though is for whatever reason you wear diapers- if it makes you feel good then it is good.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Adr
Age: Unknown

Q:

Should I waste the money to buy disposable diapers or should I keep using the homemade cloth diapers I use sometimes?


A:

Dear adr,

It is really a matter of choice. Homemade are economical and easy on the wallet. They do however come with the added work of cleaning. Disposables are great for convenience- no washing- just use and throw away. But there is the added cost of repeated buying of the product. So the question is which suits you more- cloth or disposable?

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jack
Age: 17

Q:

Hi mommy! Ok I need your opinion on something. Ok well last month I was staying with my girlfriend who usually treats me like her little baby. Well my step-mom had come over, and my girlfriend asked her to tell me to get some pants on over my diapers, well my step did so, but she also just walked up to me and checked my diaper, and yes I was wet, but she gave me a diaper change, I was shocked. The funny things was she didn't even pay me no mind, she kept talking to my girlfriend didn't even give me the slightest recognition that I wasn't there it was like I was just a baby to her. Well my question is that me and my step mom are super close, she pretty much took me in when my mom didn't want me. But she didn't know me until after I was potty trained when I was little, so do you think that she feels as though this some way of making up for missing that. She does change me when given the chance now. 


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Dear Jack,

You are a very lucky guy. It might be that your step mom is trying to connect with you by babying you. Perhaps she does feel like she missed out being there when you were young. For whatever reason be glad that she is on your side. There are so many people who wish for some family member to be accepting. So just enjoy your relationship with your step mom and be happy.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Baby Nick
Age: 20

Q:

Dear mommy I saw on phoneamommy.com that one of the mommy's had made a "special punch" that gave you a complete loss of bladder control and loss of speech, even loss of walking. I was wondering A)is this possible? B)do you know how to make it and C) would it be dangerous? Thanks and lots of love
Baby Nick


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Dear Baby Nick,

There are drugs that can make you totally incoherent. They are serious drugs and not to be played with. The average person would not be able to 'make' it. If you go into business making these types of med's there could be problems with the authorities. As with all drugs there are dangers. I personally do not recommend any drug use of any kind. You can just be natural and use your diaper without resorting to drugs to make you go. Be safe.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Marcus
Age: 32

Q:

Hello, I have been in diapers for 24/7 for almost 2 years now trying to achieve total bladder and bowel incontinence. I have tried almost every hypnosis cd I can find. Even tried contacting (to no success) hypnotherapists for live sessions. During the day I am fairly incontinent but still consciously notice when I am wetting and messing.  How can I make this stop? I don't want to know it's happening I don't even want to know if my diaper is wet or messy until I check it or it leaks/smells.

My bladder is much smaller than it use to be but not small enough.  I still can't wet or mess at night. I think if I could just get bed wetting down I can shrink my bladder even more and make my wetting impossible to control. Fecal messing is much harder. I try to ignore it as much as I can but can't help but know its happening. When I have to wet I don't push I just let it happen no matter what. I can wet in any position comfortably but still know it's happening to much frustration. When I have to mess I try to do much the same but find my body stopping mid movement and end up pushing the rest out.

When I was younger I wet the bed until I was around 14 I thought I would have been able to start wetting again much easier by now.  I'm getting frustrated I don't want to do anything to damage myself but have thought about catheterizing myself to shrink my bladder and achieve atrophy and have no choice other than to wet the bed without waking...but the side effects of catheters are ... bad.

I want to be totally incontinent in every way. I want to wet and mess helplessly at all times in all places day and night with no perception of it happening or even that it happened. I have lived as an incontinent for some time now and have even told those that need to know.

To summarize my questions: How can I become a bed wetter again? How can I become a bed messer? How can I become totally incontinent both bowels and bladder day and night with no control what so ever? What more can I do or change about what I'm doing? I am willing to travel and spend money is there a hypnotherapists that would give me live sessions to achieve my goals? And finally what can I tell people that I don't want to tell I'm a DL that caused my incontinence?

I have done countless internet searches and read everything I can find I just cant get the results I'm looking for please is there any more advice you can give?


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Dear Marcus,

I usually say be sure this is what you want. I can tell you have given this a lot of thought. What you need is to unpotty train yourself. I always go with a non-invasive method that is reversible. No harm to you and it can be undone in the future if you desire. The program I recommend say it is a year program. However one of our members was incontinent within 2 weeks. First loss of bladder and then bowels follow. Try it. The link is: http://www.deeker.com/Articles/twelve_month_diaper_training_
program.pdf  Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Krystal
Age: 25

Q:

I have been wearing diapers 24/7 for the last 2 weeks. My question is: I still cannot wet my diapers while sleeping, which is what I want. I drink a-lot water before going to sleep, and still no luck! Can you give me some ideas of what I can do, so I can start wetting my diapers while I am sleeping? Sincerely, Krystal Rainne


A:

Dear Krystal,

You are doing the first thing- drink lots of fluids. Drink caffeinated beverages. Do not use the bathroom before bed. If you feel like you need to go- ignore the urge to get up and use the bathroom and use the diaper. Your mind will eventually get the message and stop trying to wake you and hold in the urine. It may take a little while but keep at it and the message will be received.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Shawn
Age: 25

Q:

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A:

Dear Shawn,

I am not sure what your question is. If you are looking for a mommy then please put your info on our 'Find a mommy' section. Give a little more info about yourself and what you are looking for. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Cvalle
Age: 14

Q:

I live with my parents so I can't buy diapers. But they have started to teach how to drive so I'm going to be driving to the supermarket a lot. And I wanted to know if I will fit in the XL Goodnites. I'm 14 almost 15 years and my weight is almost 115 lbs.


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Dear cvalle,

Different diapers fit everyone differently. Not only does weight matter but also how slim you are. 115 might be pushing the weight limit on those diapers. You might have to try the adult sizes. There are quite a few online companies that offer sample packs- so at least you can try the different brands. If you wish to try some go to our main site to the products page and check out some of the companies listed. good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Todd
Age: 15

Q:

Hi mommy I wear my diapers maybe 2 times every month and they are usually really wet and soiled. Well lately I have noticed some little red bumps on my butt and they itch like crazy and I want to know if it is diaper rash. And if it is can you give me any way of getting rid of it without buying any special brand of cream that gets rid of it, because I can't let my parents find out. Thank you so much.


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Dear Todd,

It does sound a lot like diaper rash. To prevent rashes you need to cleanse well, rinse well and dry well. Also important is 'air' time. Give your posterior a breather and let it go diaperless for awhile just for skin health. As for the cream- you need to get one- we recommend Balmex. It is an excellent skin care cream- for rashes, abrasions and even good to ward off infections. A small tube is good to have around for any skin irritations.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Coral
Age: 25

Q:

What does a diaper feel like and could you send me some?


A:

Dear Coral,

A diaper feels like you are wearing several pairs of underwear. We are only 2 people running this site out of our home. We are not a corporation and have no funds to accommodate every request for diapers. You could request a sample pack from some online companies, the cost is usually around $5.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jeremiah Johnston
Age: 29

Q:

My question is I've been wearing for a while and I have no control of my bladder or bowels. What do I do when I can't wear diapers and have to wear undies what do I do?


A:

Dear Jeremiah,

You really don't have too many options. For the wetting you could wear a sheath urinal'. It is a hose/bag that is attached to your privates and then to your leg and the urine collects in it. Your bowel movements are another story. There are no products besides a diaper to contain that. So as I said your options are few. Perhaps wear the sheath urinal when you are reasonably sure you will not be defecating. I wish you luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Bryon
Age: 19yrs/ 9month

Q:

First some simple background for the question: I have very horrible nightmares, they keep me up and when I wake from them I start crying and call out for my 'mama'.  I have an online friend that noticed I wasn't getting much sleep and she felt sorry. She started to baby talk me and coo to me on messenger. She treated me like a baby. She went through changing me, feeding me a bottle, burping me, etc.  I slept. . . well like a baby lol. Now for my question: Why did that work to help me get a good night sleep?


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Dear Bryon,

I believe it worked for you because it took you back to a time in your life when all you knew was love. As an infant any discomfort is immediately taken care of. You were hungry, wet or just bored all you had to do was cry or even just whimper and someone was there attending to you and in a loving way. Instant relief and a sense of love and caring surrounded you. We don't get that as adults. So to be able to get a little of that back is magical. My advice to you is simple- enjoy the little things that make you happy. Be thankful for your friend and smile.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Geoffry
Age: 13

Q:

How can I make myself poop myself?


A:

Dear Geoffrey,

There are no magic tricks. You need to unpotty-train yourself. There is a program that is not harmful and can be reversed. Now this program will also make you urine incontinent. if all you are interested in is to poop, then all you need to do is just go when you get the urge. The link is:  http://www.deeker.com/Articles/twelve_month_diaper_
training_program.pdf. I wish you luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked by: Hawk
Age: 19

Q:

Dear Mommy,

I asked you last month about drinking milk/baby formula 24/7. You said I had to eat some 'grown-up food' occasionally. How often do I have to eat grown-up food? And if I do puree is into a liquid/mush (to simulate milk, or baby food), what would you most recommend I use? And, are there any other tips you can give me about being a baby 24/7? I've got the diapers, a onesie, a pacifier, bottle, rattle, stuffed animals, cartoons, and toys, and I'm planning on making a crib, but is there anything else you can recommend, short of getting a mommy (and any advice on that would be helpful as well)?


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Dear Hawk,

You seem to have a good start on everything. As far as the food goes, anything you like can be chopped or pureed. If you are looking for plans on making your own crib- Stanley sells plans. It is very easy to follow and you can have a crib constructed using your twin mattress (or larger). The link to the crib plans is : http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/CRIB.html. If you do want to get a mommy go to our mommy finder section and search through our list. The list is: http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/Mommys.html Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Anon
Age: 18

Q:

Dear Mommy,

I want to start using diapers 24/7, but I don't want to become dependent in case I get into a situation where I need my continence, or in case I decide I don't want to wear diapers anymore (mostly the former). Is this possible? Or will I eventually become diaper-dependent?


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Dear Anon,

You have asked a very good question. You can wear diapers and still be continent. the secret is to not wear 24/7. If you only wear say only on weekends you will be fine. It is when you wear all the time your mind knows it and decides to not alert you that you need to go- you have protection on after all. As long as you have out of diaper time you are in no danger of becoming incontinent. Just be sure that you are out of diapers MORE than you are in them.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Johnny
Age: 29

Q:

I'm looking for a mommy to care for me. If you know of one. I'm so lonely.


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Dear Johnny,

On our main site we have a mommy finder section.  It is a good starting place to search for a mommy. Find one and start emailing each other, if the connection is there just let the magic happen. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Billy420
Age: 40

Q:

I have found that filling my bladder with air causes a temporary loss of bladder control. With continued practice could this make me permanently incontinent? And what are the medical consequences?


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Dear Billy,

I am opposed to any method that causes harm. What you are doing could make you incontinent. Not only can you ruin your bladder it could damage other systems. It is very dangerous. Why do you have to artificially make yourself incontinent - just wear and when you have to go use the diaper. No harm. I wish you luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jeremy
Age: 22

Q:

Hi mommy for starters I have egsiaty, so mom does not want me living alone. But I just love wearing diapers but she keeps calling me weird and sick and it really hurts when she tells me that. And that's why I want to find a mommy who is understanding for what I want, but I live in Toronto Canada and just because of my egsiaty disability it's hard for me to travel what should I do?


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Dear Jeremy,

I am so sorry that your mother isn't more supportive. I'm sure she loves you and is just unsure of how to handle the situation. We do have a 'mommy finder' section on our main site- and yes we do have some listings for Canada. We even have Toronto on the list. So here is the link: http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/Canada.html I wish you luck in your search.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kendra
Age: 14

Q:

Dear Mommy,

Last time I wrote you I was telling you about how my friend Jillian now likes diapers but can only really wear them when shes at my house. Cuz of course my mom has known for sometime about my diaper and not only fully supports me wearing them but changes me as well. Well I made the decision for Jillian and I would sit down and ask my mom if she would do the same with her when she comes over. My mom told her that she was welcome to wear diapers at our house however with out permission from her parents it just didn't seem right for her to change her diaper and that she should just be honest with her parents like I was with her. Well Jillian did just that she told her parents about her liking to wear a diaper but she went one step further and told them about me and my mom. They hit the roof!! And called my mom. They started telling her that what she was doing wasn't right and bla bla bla. My mom told them to mind their own buisness and said she wouldn't discuss our personal lives with them or anyone! Well of course now Jillian is not allowed to hang out with me at all which is a total bummer. All this trauma has had a huge effect on my wetting patterns. I now am starting to wet uncontrolably. I mean I wet in my diaper and don't even know when its coming. At nite I used to be at least semi awake when I would have to wet. Now I just wake up with a soaked diaper. My mom say's after reading some of your answers to others that this is normal from being in a diaper 24/7 and it is called reverse potty training. She say's it has nothing to do with what has happened with my friend Jillian. So I thought I'd ask you???? By the way this is not a problem and I kinda like it!!
                hugs,
                  Kendra


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Dear Kendra,

No teen wants to hear these words but your Mom is right. When you wear a diaper all the time, your body gets used to the idea that it can go anytime without having to alert you. And it does just that. Now the fact that you are wetting more is probably because of the problems with your friend Jillian. Stress related. I am so sorry that has happened to both you and your friend. It just doesn't seem right for the two of you to be seperated. Jillian's parents just don't understand. At least you have your mom in your corner. You are lucky. I hope that one day you and Jillian can talk again.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jeff
Age: 50

Q:

Hi mommy, Baby Jeffrey here and I want to know if it's ok to have breast milk? I'm new at being a abdl and sissy.


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Dear Jeff,

There is nothing wrong with breast milk. Just be sure you are eating a normal well-balanced diet. Other than that, enjoy. And welcome to the ABDL community.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: John
Age: 16

Q:

I was just curious since you know things about changing diapers of children. Do most parents rub diaper rash cream or anything else on their sons and daughters genitals when they change their diapers from infancy to toddlerhood? Would you also believe this is a good idea?


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Dear John,

Diaper rash can be very painful. It is actually an acid burn. Most parents have different routines. There are quite a few who use a cream at every diaper change. I used one. When i changed y children I would rub a small amount into the skin as a protective barrier. I am happy to say my kids never had diaper rash. Of course thorough washing and drying is important as well. But I did continue this until they were potty trained.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Todd
Age: 19

Q:

I have a two part question. First of all how do I get over my hangup that other people poop and it's not just me that does poop? The other part to the question is how do I get over the hangup that I have about sometimes wearing diapers and both peeing and pooping in them?


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Dear Todd

I can't help you with your hangups. Why does it bother you to know other people poop? It is a normal body function. And if it bothers you to poop and pee in your diaper, why don't you just wear the diaper and not necessarily use it. But you need to examine why it bothers you so much. You should just let everyone do their own thing- and that goes for you too. Just be happy in your life.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jim
Age: 16

Q:

Dear mommy, I am 16 and my mom makes me wear diapers during the day and even to school. But in gym my diaper shows whenever we do activties. But I have never wet my diaper in gym. So should I have the nurse change me out of my diaper before gym or just get smaller diapers? And how do I get help from the nurse from changing my diapers, without being afriad to ask for help? I just don't know how to ask the nurse to change my diapers. Please help


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Dear Jim,

We have many members, some very young. We do have members who go to school. In each of their cases they had the school nurse changing them. For a few reasons 1) the nurse has the diapers in her office, so no hidden diapers to be found in your locker  2) nurse changing/overseeing you makes sure that you are being cleaned well and properly dried and diapered. All you would need to do is to get your parents to contact the school. Each school has different requirements so they would let your parents know what steps they would have to take to get this set up. There is hope and maybe one day soon you won't have to worry anymore.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kelli
Age: 25

Q:

How do I make it easier to poop in my diapers?


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Dear Kelli,

The easiest way is to get more fiber into your system. Eat more beans. Everyone usually has that one food item that makes them go- find yours. Don't forget about the usual suspects- licorice, milk, broccoli and for some chocolate. Experiment and see what works for you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Micke
Age: 40

Q:

Hello!

My name is Micke and I live in Sweden. I have a 10 years old daughter who is a really smart and healthy girl. One day after Christmas she and her boyfriend fooling around just like they always do. Later my daughter and her cute boy came out hand in hand and jumped up in my knee. They have always love playing baby together and wants to wear diapers. What do you think about two naked children together with diapers?


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Dear Micke

There is nothing wrong with two kids wanting to play together. About the diapers, as long as it is their idea it's okay. My only concern is that at 10 they are getting a little too old to be naked together. At that age usually a child is starting to develop a sense of self and wants privacy. But that is just my opinion. I know you love your daughter and will do what is best for her.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: James
Age: 15

Q:

I'm having trouble wetting my diapers. I don't know why but even though I have one on and I've taken measure to protect my sheets from leaks I'm still too nervous to wet. I really want to and I finally found a source of disposables but every time I'm just about to wet I get nervous and pull back. Any tips on how to relax into doing this?


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Dear James,

First off you are fighting against all you have been taught. So give yourself a break. The next time you are wearing and feel the need just let go----the worst that could happen is you wet. Just relax and take a few deep breaths and release. It might take a few tries but you will get it.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Mgirl:
Age: Unknowen

Q:

A friend told me about  incontinence, How long would it take someone to repottytrain if they wanted to? And how hard would it be.


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Dear mgirl,

You can unpotty-train yourself and become incontinent. In the same way you can then repotty-train yourself and get control again. The program I use is nonharmful and totally reversible. As to how long it takes depends on the person- I have known some to take only two weeks and others months. It all depends on the person.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tim Hewitt
Age: 41

Q:

What's the best way for me to find a nice loving woman who would be a mommy to me and would diaper and baby bottle feed me, as well as give me the real mommy to baby kind of love I feel I need?


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Dear Tim,

It is not easy to find a mommy. We do have a 'mommy finder' on our main site. The link is http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/Mommys.html Go through the list and see who is a good fit for you. It might take a few tries to find the right one, but anything good is worth the work. So good luck in your search.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Babyfloyd
Age: 46

Q:

Dear Mommy I am a ab. I went through the Olkahoma bombing and now I have to wear baby diapers 24/7 because it messed up my bladder. I cannot hold my pee or poopy. I went to Dr.  Dr told me to wear baby diapers: pampers, luvs babydry size 6 because adult diapers I am allergic to.  My question is what would you do if I was your son and I peed and poopy my pants in the public. Would you put me back in a diapers for it?


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Dear Babyfloyd,

If you were my son and were peeing and pooping I would probably put you back in diapers. But only after discussing it with his doctor. My son did have a wetting problem as a child and it was handled without the use of diapers. In that instance his doctor and I talked about what to do and developed a game plan. My son is doing well. I hope things go well for you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarassed
Age: 35

Q:

Dear mommy I've started to sleep the night without anything over my posterior for protection. I still use plastic sheets though even though they were used when my diaper would leak from flooding. It's still funny to say 'my diaper' as I yet to escape baby things. Anyway the last few nights I've been dreaming about wetting the bed. I'm afraid my body may start following suit. Usually where the mind goes the body starts to follow.  I don't have any spare sheets so wetting the bed can be an issue. The plastic sheet will protect the matress at least.  Maybe I not ready to sleep like a big boy? With the dreams comming ever so close and frequent maybe my body is trying to tell me something? Just like a toddler maybe I'm not ready? Am I pushing too much and in too much if a hurry. If you shouldn't push a child to get out of diapers maybe the same should be said for us. Is my subconcious trying to tell me I'm not ready.  Mommy from the facts above and using your nurturing instincts do I need to be put back into diapers at night?


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Dear Embarrassed,

The mind is willing but the body is weak. You might be ready in your mind but maybe your body isn't quite there yet.What you could try is maybe wear a diaper every other night, try going 'diaperless' the other nights. The message should get to your mind to start trying to hold it at night. And if you have a wet night, don't get down on yourself. Just be patient. As the saying goes 'Rome wasn't built in a day'.

-Hugs Sandra