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Question Asked By: Morgan

Q:

        Hello,

       My name is Morgan and I live in Sweden.First I must thank you for your information and you seems so kind so I feel welcome here. I live alone with my daughter who is 8-years old. I have a little incontinence so I wear diapers and I also love the feeling when I feel the diaper so I am also DL. I don't like to have any secrets to my daughter so I have told her that I need diaper sometimes because I have to but I have not told her that I love it to. Now I have seen that she also wear diapers sometimes and the diapers is from when she was small. I think she had always love it to because many times she want to be a baby and ask me if I could put on her a diaper and I can see that she enjoy it but now she wear diapers mostly of the time. I can feel her diaper when she sit on my knee and I remembered that she had ask me if there is diapers for older children. Also I have seen when she looked at TV she put her hand to the diaper and feel it and sometimes she stand to the mirror and feel her diaper. She also wear diaper when her friends comes and when they play outside. I do also those kind of things with my diaper, I feel it to and enjoy it. Last week when I wrote with my computer she jump up to my knee and she had only a T-shirt and diaper and she said to me that she want to be a baby all night and sleep with the diaper on. You know, diapers is not danger, guns and drugs is and because I love diapers myself I cant blame her that she want it also. I believe she want to ask me if I could get her diapers for older children/youth but she don't know how. She is like any eight-years old girl except the diapers. I want to tell her that if she want diapers for older children it is okay with me because I think she is trapped to love diapers for the rest of her live, just like me but I don't know how I shall begin and then I found you and think you can help me. So please send me a e-mail so I know how I shall begin. Thanks again for a wonderful web site and it was so nice to reed about the questions that you have answered. You really care! Many thanks!!!

A:

     Hello Morgan,

     First off take her to the doctors to make sure that there are no physical problems. After that, sit down and be direct with her. Ask her if she wants to wear diapers directly. Be open. And be supportive. We suggest her wearing pull ups because it would be easier for her to change herself.

      We also feel that you should encourage her to only wear them while in the house. Kids can be cruel about that type of thing and I am sure you know about that. Let her be herself at home. I am sure you wouldn't go to work in a diaper and T-shirt. And also we don't think you should change her. She should explore this on her own. Just make sure she has diapers so she does not try to get them some other way like stealing them. If you have any other questions about this please feel free to write us back and we will try to help further. Please let us know how it works out. We wish you all the luck. You are loved.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Barbara dear

Q:

       What is a remedy for "shortness of breath?"

A:

      Hello Barbara,

       First off we think you should see your doctor to get that checked. There are so many conditions that can cause that symptom of shortness of breath. We wish you the best and hope all turns out ok. Take care of yourself

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Steven

Q:

        Hello I am a adult baby/diaper lover/nappy lover and have been for over 3 years now. I don't wear a nappy/diaper all the time just at night in bed and always enjoy a drink before bed. In the morning I wake up and can feel my bladder is full I then enjoy relaxing and wetting in my diaper/nappy like a real baby. I enjoy the wetness and warm filling up my diaper/nappy. Am I sad to love wetting myself? I live alone and so have to change myself but I want to find a mummy to do this for me. I live in the UK do you know anywhere I can find a mummy or perhaps web sites? Steven

A:

       Hello Steven,

       There is a list on http://www.babycareservices.com and there is a message board there to post on looking for a Mommy and Daddy. It's very hard to find AB mommy and daddy's and it's even harder to find throes who will change an AB. However we wish you all the luck in your search for one. Take care.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Patrick

Q:

      How can I get my wife to change me when I'm wet she wants nothing to do with this

A:
 
        Hello Patrick,

        Sorry to say Patrick, it's her choice. If you force her she will resent you for it. Best you can do is track down some information about AB and give it to her. But in the end it's her choice on if she wants to do it or not. We wish you all the luck.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: mark

Q:

      I wear terry cloth nappies/diapers as you call them. I often mess them and could you give me any tips on how to get them white again and hon to get the stains out the plastic pants too. many thanks mummy

A:

        Hello mark,

        With the cloth diapers, rinse out the diapers as best you can and then soak the diapers in one part water with one part bleach till you are ready to wash the diapers. That should help keep them white. Can also use the stain stick made by "Spray and Wash" just before you put the diapers in the wash. We also recommend washing the diapers twice just to make sure all the bleach is out of the diapers. If you don't all the bleach might not all be out and it can cause a skin burn. So just to be safe double wash them. Then hang them on a line or pin them on hangers in your closet to air dry them.

       With the plastic pants use the stain stick on the plastic pants and soak them in the sink and wash them in the washing machine with a product called "Delft". It's made especially for plastic pants and baby clothes. We hope this helps.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: clement

Q:

     Do you know that plastic pants are hot to have on what could I do to make them more comfortable to wear, do I need baby powder or do I need to have lose pairs what should I do.

A:

        Hello clement,

       We are going to break this down for you since you don't tell us how you are wearing them. The first one we will cover is if you are wearing plastic pants over a disposable diaper. In this case you should wear a plastic pants a extra size larger. First they don't really give you too much more protection. And it's like wearing 2 pairs of plastic pants. It's going to be pretty hot.

      If you are wearing plastic pants over a cloth diaper, you should try getting breathable plastic pants. If you can't get them, trying using corn starch baby powder on yourself and using a little between the diaper and plastic pants. Make sure the plastic pants are not tight, but not too loose either.

      If you are wearing plastic pants without a diaper on, you should use a lot of powder. Of course it won't hold much because they are made to be worn over a diaper. And don't sit in it long because you will get a rash. Hope that helps.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Brue

Q:

       Hi, I am a DL I have been diapered for 5 years now I am married again, and my wife is ok with this but we have been trying to get her pregnant and nothing now its been 2 years and nothing. Could the diaper wear could be my problem? Could this be killing my sperm? I have been to the doctor for a check up and he could not find nothing wrong. He did not do a Sperm count due to my own fault I have not gave him any yet. But he did a check up with my stuff. And could not find a problem. I am just wondering if the diapers could be this cause? I do not think so but who knows hopefully you can answer me. Thanks Diaper_guy77, Baby Bruce

A:

      Hello Brue,

      We have heard rumors from some people that wearing diapers so close to the body it doesn't let the sperm produce the way it should. However it may not be true. Like we said it's only rumors. But we do think you should get that sperm count done to really be sure. Could be a problem your wife doesn't know of and it may not be you at all. It may not even be a problem with either one of you. Won't know till you have it all checked out. We wish you all the luck, and please keep us posted on your progress. We hope this helps you.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: John Doe

Q:

       Hi I like diapers but I`am afraid to ask my parents to buy them.

A:

        Hello John Doe,

        You really didn't give any information. You didn't give your age or much background of the situation you are in. So we really can't comment on that with so little information. Please contact us back with more information about yourself and what's going on with those living with you so we can make a better suggestion to you.

      We need to know how open your parents are to new things, we need to know your age and if you have a wetting problem of some kind. We really don't want to give you the wrong kind of advice. Sorry we couldn't help more at this time. Please take care.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Dan

Q:

      I want to were diapers, but I am too shy to buy them myself but I

A:

     Hello Dan,

     If your parents are not buying them for you that means you are the only other one. There is no way to make you unshy. We wish we could help you with that. Maybe ask a friend you trust to buy them for you or buy them on the Internet. Hope that helps.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Dan

Q:

      Is wearing diapers wrong? I like diapers because I like the feel of them. Right now I am wearing a diaper from Tranquility and I don't know where to find more. please help.

A:

    Hello Dan,

    There is nothing wrong with wearing diapers. If it makes you feel good then do it. Can try going to www.homecaredelivered.com or www.hdis.com. We hope that helps you.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: jenny

Q:

     how come I love diapers so much especially when they are really wet. I love to put lots of baby cream in them and it makes it so smushy and squishy and I can't get enough of it. I would like to wear them overnight but I have trouble sleeping in them because I am so excited that I'm in a diaper can you give me any advice so I can sleep better in my squishy diaper

A:

         Hello Jenny

         We really don't know how to help you with that. Maybe put a bit less baby cream in it to make it more comfortable while sleeping. Other than that we really don't have any idea's for that. Hope that helps you.

      -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Morgan

Q:

Hello again,it is Morgan from Sweden who write to you about me and my daughter.Thanks a lot for your kindness and understanding.I have take her to a doctor before and there is nothing wrong with her.But thank you for you said that.After I looked of your answer I talked to her and everything is okay so thank you very much.

A:

Hello Morgan,

     We are glad everything worked out. Please continue to visit our site. And if you have any questions feel free to contact us. We hope everything goes well.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jeff

Q:

dear mommy, is it ok to wear just a diaper when I go to the beach, or the shopping mall ?

A:

Hello Jeff,

     I don't know the local laws for your area about wearing diapers in public. But I am sure people will be very interested in what you are wearing. Maybe check with local law enforcement.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Andy

Q:

I have heard many stories about women producing milk without giving birth, and wonder if there is any truth to it??

A:

Hello Andy,

     It is possible. It's better to not create that situation.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Lauren

Q:

How can I wear diapers to school??

A:

Hello Lauren,

     Because you wear cloth diapers, it would not be a good idea to wear to school. You being 15 also makes it hard. This is because cloth diapers tend to be very thick and noticeable. If you were wearing disposable diapers that would be a different story. But wearing diapers to school, you will mostly likely be found out.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra   
 
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Question Asked By: Sally

Q:

How many people become gay 

A:

Hello Sally,
     We really don't know the answer to that. We don't have any information on that subject. We wish we could help more with that.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Clement Leo

Q:

I there mommies who can be live in babysitters,by the week or month, I wear diapers and plastic pants all the time, is there adult baby women too. thank you clement

A:

Hello Clement Leo,

     Most AB mommy's would most likely have you move to their location. There are very few mommy's that will relocate to the babies location. It's really hit and miss. We wish we could help with more information on where to find one, but we just don't know. Can try going to www.babycareservices.com and looking through the list of mommy's there. But other than that, we really don't know what else to suggest.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Dana

Q:

Is there anyone that I can talk to that could possibly help me to find a mommy so she could change me. I am from Missouri and I haven't been able to find anyone in my area. So if you could send me some info I would be very thankful.

A:

Hello Dana,

     We have 2 places for you to look into at this time. One is a list of mommy's/babysitter's at www.babycareservices.com and check there. The other location is you can post on the message board on this site for babies looking for mommy's. And also while you are there, there are some mommy's looking for babies.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ian

Q:

I would really like to meet a girl who shares the same desire to wear diapers, and change me, can you help?

A:

Hello Ian,

     We recommend going to the message board on this site and posting on the AB/DL forum for Pen Pal's. That the best suggestion we have for you at the moment.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Baby Girl

Q:

Hello! My problem is that I want to find a stroller for a big baby.. Is there somewhere on the Internet where it might be a possibility to by one?? Hope you can help me.. Bye!

A:

Hello Babygirl,

     There are some places online that sell AB furniture, but we have yet to find anyone who sells those. Your best bed would be to look into a medical supply store for something like that. Sorry we could not be of more help.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: mm

Q:

     my name is jmm between tranquility and molicare which is better

A:

     Hello jmm,

     Molicare without a doubt. We have seen it talked about the most on the net. The only one better than Molicare is Eurobriefs. But Molicare is one of the best. Hope that helps.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Q:

    I hade such a great response I was wondering how I could get changed at school or at home

A:

      Hello Lauren,

      We have heard this request many times. It's just not best to have your diaper changed by your parents or at school unless you have a medical problem relating to wetting or messing. And unless you are unable to change yourself. Some of the problems is you might get sent by your parents to see a therapist, your might get laughed at by your brothers or sisters which you say you have. With you getting changed at home, your brothers and sisters might spread it around school causing you problems there. It's just not worth it. You only have 3 more years till you are an adult. The best advice we can give is just to wait for now. We hope that helps.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Leonard

Q:

      hello I am a new member here. just a few questions. I've been reading your questions and answers. and im just woundering why do people what too do stuff like that to them self? 1 I read that a person want to poo but needs help. and you said eat lots of fiber. for one thing they should take 4 exlax pills and a big swig of mineral oil. that will make them go no problem. that's what I do because I have a medial problem that prevents me from going number 2. I only get to go once or twice a month. I have a tumor on my bladder the doc cant op on it because if they do they will make it worse.I wear diapers 24/7 this is what I use. pampers size 6 luvs size 6 huggies convertibles size 5 huggies training pants size 4t5t girls. boy pants don't seem to work as well as the girls do.and all fit me just fine.the other person wanted to know if he can fit in to a baby diaper size 6 his waist size was 27inch and you said no. well I have news for you. you can there a trick to it that's for him and you to figure out. my other question is I have a friend that loves to wear used baby diapers size 6 he dost care if there's number 1 or number 2 in it. he likes the smell the fell of the diaper. he said he cant get enough. he likes to go on a diaper hunt. what is wrong with that picture? can you please tell me? also I cant find a printed vinele pants in a youth size. im using a Gerber toddler pant and its just a touch to tight. I need a one size up from a toddler. back to my friend. the used diapers he find and wears he will wear them all day long. I have to wear diapers do to my medial problems and that's ok. besides I like to. now I've been diapers since I was 16 years old. my other question is that a person e-mail you about a binky to use and you said its not good for your teeth well that's wrong too. my dentist wants me you use a binky because I grind and clinch my teeth. and he said that's ok. my other question is were can I find a disposable swim diaper. huggies are to small. I need at least a 4t5t. luvs are to small to. I also suck on my binky and I like a baby bottle every now and then. the only reason I do this is because I was traumatized when I was a child. thank you for your time. and please e-mail me back ASAP. thanks Leonard.

A:

        Hello Leonard,

        You have several questions, so let us answer one at a time. Your first one was why do people want help to poop? The responses to that question was from people who have control of pooping, but want to poop without control. We suggested the fiber because it's the safest way to do it. 4 exlax pills and mineral oil might work for you because of your condition, but would be bad for the average person just trying to lose control.

     You mentioned we answered a person who had a 27inch waist and told him he could not wear baby diapers. We said no you can't wear a baby diaper "as it is". There are tricks to extending the sides and such true. But he asked if he could wear baby diapers. He didn't ask if their were ways of altering it to fit an adult with a 27 inch waist.

      About your friend who prefers wearing used baby diapers, we recommend he really not do that. If a baby has an infection, or something that can be transferred through body fluids such as aids or something similar, he could get it by wearing the babies diaper after the baby used it. It's just really not sanitary at all. We recommend just buying a pack of diapers at the dollar store. At least you know they will be sanitary.

    Your next question was about printed vinal plastic pants in youth size. But you wanted one up from toddler. We don't know what to recommend you there. The ones we have seen in a larger size than toddler are plane colors. Not designs or anything. Sorry.

     Your mentioned you felt we gave bad advice on the use of a pacifier with adults. We suggested it not be used for long periods due to it can cause teeth damage over time. However, number one we are not doctors, we only suggest based on what we know. We can be wrong. Your doctor recommended it for you. You have a condition that he feels a pacifier will help. For a normal adult with no problems just wanting to suck on a pacifier it's not a good idea to do it for long periods of time. The teeth start to shift from the constant pressure of the pacifier.

    As far as swim diapers, the only ones we know of that are larger than toddler size, are cloth swim diapers and they can be found on many online stores. We hope that we were able to answer all your questions. Hope that helps.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra             

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Q:

      JUST WONDERING WHAT A TRUE DEFINITION OF A DIAPER LOVER IS,I BELIEVE I FIT IN THAT CATERGORY.I WEAR BABY DIAPERS,AND SILK PANTIES. I WOULD LOVE A 24.7 SCENIARIO,WITH A MOMMY,BUT THIS IS GOOD FOR NOW.ALTHOUGH I WOULD LOVE TO SEE MORE PLASTIC COVERED DIAPERS.LATELY I HAVE STARTED WITH A BOTTLE,AND BABY FOOD,WHEN ALONE. THANK YOU.

A:

      Hello BILL,

      To the best of our knowledge, a diaper lover is a person who likes the look and feel of wearing a diaper. A DL does not use bottles, pacifies, sleep in cribs or wear babyish clothing. It's just diapers. But you mention you like bottles now and then your AB. Hope that helps you.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Haylee

Q:

     Is there any tips for me to get potty trained?? I have been trying, but I never notice when I go in my diaper. What are sum tips?? Please help me here!!

A:

      Hello Haylee,

      Well first off make an appointment to see your doctor to run some tests. We really can't think of anything else to suggest at this time. Sorry we could not be of more help.

      -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: bob

Q:


       have you ever worn a diaper?

A:

      Hello bob,

      Pam has never worn a diaper other than when she was a baby. But myself (Sandra) is another story. I had to wear diapers for awhile due to medical problems. So I can relate to many stories about having to wear diapers.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: David

Q:

       I am a TB. but sometimes I also wet the bed. I was wondering how I could get diapers. I was thinking that I could go to cvs but I don't want to get caught. the only way I have been getting them is through my friend but he moved.can you help me ?

A:

       Hello David,

       The only suggestion we have is to buy the diapers at a 99 cent store. They are sold normally 4 in a pack. This way you don't have to hide the whole pack of say pampers. You only have to hide 3 diapers.

         -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Willem

Q:

     Since my wife discovered that I like to wear diapers she dominantly put me into diapers. I am 24/7 in diapers now being fed by bottles. But I am starting afraid as she introduced a girlfriend last week being prepared of breastfeeding. Do I become infantile now and can I reverse?

A:

       Hello Willem,

       If you want to stop, yes you can. Weather or not you are diaper dependant by the time you stop is another story. You might have to continue using diapers for a time till you regain control again. But other than that, we don't see any reason why you can't not be AB when you are ready to stop. Hope that answers your question.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Eric

Q:

        I have been a DL for over 35 years and I have decided that I would like to become incontinent as I am fed up living a lie I know I would feel more comfortable if I was incontinent rather than pretending all the time . I am not interested in hypnotic tapes however is it possible you could recommend a hypnotherapist to help me I am asking this now as I sought advice from a psychologist about stopping my desire to wear nappies , he said there was nothing he could do please help

A:

      Hello Eric,

      We don't know what to tell you. We know of no hypnotherapist to suggest to you. But you can try drinking a lot of liquids right before bed. But that's the best we can suggest. Sorry we could not help you more.

       -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Brad

Q:

      hi am am 14 and have liked diapers for a few years. I've worn a couple times but never get the chance to go out and buy them alone. I want to tell my parents how do I do so? mommy please help

A:

     Hello brad,

     It is strongly recommended you not tell your parents until you are an adult. There are so many things that can go wrong. Some of the problems is you might get sent by your parents to see a therapist, your might get laughed at by your brothers or sisters which you say you have. With you getting changed at home, your brothers and sisters might spread it around school causing you problems there. It's just not worth it. You only have 3 more years till you are an adult. The best advice we can give is just to wait for now. We hope that helps.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Alex

Q:

       I am trying to become a bed wetter and have had no success I've tried hypnotic tapes for 3 months, I've tried using sleeping pills to knock me out after I drink at least 2 liters of water. Please assist me. thanks, Alex

A:

      Hello Alex,

      Body's trying to tell you something Alex. Sometimes no matter how much you try, it just does not happen for them. There is really nothing we can suggest that you have not already tried. Sorry we could not help more.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra
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