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Question Asked By: Juan
Age: 19

Q:

I am 19. I've been wetting my bed for 2 weeks and how can I tell mom that I need pampers or goodnites?


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Dear Juan,

I do not know your situation but you have two things on your side. One- the fact is you are over 18 and can wear them is you want. Two-you are wetting the bed and in fact might even have a need for them. I would see if the wetting continues, if it does see a doctor to make there is nothing wrong. If you go to your Mom with facts she can't argue with that. I hope all goes well for you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tyler
Age: 14

Q:

Hi mommy I have always been wanting to get real diapers for so long and I just don't know how to. I mean I have the money to buy the diapers, and when I go into a store that holds adult diapers,  I want to buy them so bad. I just don't have enough courage to get them because I'm afraid that when I buy them the person will think I'm weird. And I have no friends that know I'm a DL so I can't get them to get them for me. And if I buy them on line in a unmarked box I won't get to the box in time, because my mom gets home 2 hours before I do. So she will look inside the box and figure out my long kept secret and I'm just dying to get diapers. So please give me some advise!   Thank you mommy.


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Dear Tyler,

You do seem to be in a pickle but I do have an idea. Your best bet would be to order online. Now my idea is this- get a friend (they would have to be over 18) to open a PO box for you. They usually cost around $30-$40 for the year depending on where you live. Some post offices sell time 6 months at a time. At least with a PO box you can get your diapers and no one will be the wiser. The only other option would be to just muster your courage and storm the store and get that diaper. :)

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tyler
Age: 14

Q:

Hi mommy I have always liked diapers all my life. And I always thought it was weird and once I found the ab/dl sites I felt alot better about my self.  Over the years I have been growing more and more like an ab/dl.  Lately I have wanted to get diapers sooo bad that I tried to make my own out of paper towels and old cloths. My interests have been growing and I'm wondering if this is normal for a DL?


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Dear Tyler,

It is perfectly normal for a DL to have increasing interests in diapers. The next step is to actually get some real diapers. You could save up some cash and either get some cloth diapers or disposables. Take your time and get your choices together. In time you'll have a fully stocked diaper station!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Hunter
Age: 11

Q:

Hi, I really like diapers, but I don't have any problems. How do I tell my mom that I want to wear diapers/Goodnites?                                        
PS. I do have a leak problem at nite


A:

Dear Hunter,

I get this question all the time and I say the same thing. I don't know your parents- only you do. Are they the type that would be accepting of this kind of information? If you know they aren't then there is nothing you could say that would change their minds. However if they are open-minded you could sit down with them and tell them all your reasons for wanting to wear and hopefully they would listen. Think it over and then decide if you still want to say anything. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Chris
Age: 14

Q:

I want to start bedwetting again uncontrollably so that I can get diapers and I got some hypnosis tapes but I'm nervous. The files are legit and stuff it's just that I used to wet and my parents got me Goodnites ( I wasn't a TB then) and they were great. That's what I want. Should I do it, it says that I will wet for 6 months. What is your opinion on this kinda thing?


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Dear Chris,

I am not a fan on anything that messes with you physically or mentally. It is not always certain that you can reverse it. There is however one method  that I do approve of and it is the one that got you potty trained. Repetition- simply if you do something over and over you can train your body to do it and when you wish to stop all you have to do is do the reverse over and over. Simple. No drugs, no hypnosis, and can be undone. The link to the program is:
http://www.deeker.com/Articles/twelve_month_diaper_training
_program.pdf  Good luck

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kelli
Age: 24

Q:

How do I become unpotty trained?


A:

Dear Kelli,

There is one method I approve of that uses no harmful items/procedures. And it is totally reversible.  The link is: http://www.deeker.com/Articles/twelve_month_diaper_
training_program.pdf Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Justin
Age: 18

Q:

Hello, I am 18 and I used to wet the bed alot when I was younger. I also used to wear Goodnites Pullups but at the age of 14 or 15 I stopped wearing them. I have wet the bed on and off over the years but it has come up alot these last couple months. Should I start wearing pullups/diapers again? How do I go about asking my mom to buy them? What should I do?


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Dear Justin,

If you have been wetting on and off for most of your life I'm sure your mother is aware of it.  Why would it be so difficult to talk to her about it now? Just sit her down and talk to her. You are older, if it an issue of expense ask her if she can help you with the cost (diapers aren't cheap) Just be honest and tell her what is on your mind. The worst she can say is no. Then your options would be to get a job or if you have a medical condition a doctor's script. I wish you luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Pamper Boy
Age: 12

Q:

Hey mommy first I wanna ask you how long will it take to answer a Q. I wrote 2 days ago and I have not gotten an answer and my number 2 Q is My real mommy gave me permission to be up past my bedtime to write and ask your opinion as to what happened to us today. You see last year I told my mommy that I had a liking for diapers. I told her that I just liked the feeling of them and they made me feel a little younger and safe. We had a very long talk and after some time she was very open and agreed at first to let me wear and bought me the diapers I wanted, but just around the house with my underpants over them. Right away she noticed I wasn't able to change my diaper properly, so being the mom that she is she changed me and has ever since then. I now get to be in my diapers all the time with the proper care like baby powder and my plastic panties, well 3 month ago we were at the store and I had wet my diaper and told mommy. Since we still had tons of shopping to do she took me to the baby changing restroom and laid me on the diaper changing station and pulled out an extra diaper she had in her purse and started to change me. In walks this woman in the bathroom and without saying anything she starts changing her baby on the other changing station and then she walked out again what do you think she was thinking.


A:

Dear Pamperboy,

To answer your first questions- these questions are answered monthly. If you want an immediate reply you need to Email me directly. To answer the last part of your letter it is hard to know what people are thinking. Just be happy that you have a understanding mom who is there for you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: TB
Age: 14

Q:

Hey mommy I wanna ask you something. How does a baby pee? Is it a constant dribble or a sudden flood and what position does a baby normally pee in? I want to know this so I can feel more like a baby when I pee.


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Dear Patrick,

A baby pees likes a regular person. They are just small adults. As to position- well they have limited control so for the most part they are usually laying down or sitting up. So to be more like a baby when you feel the urge to go- just let loose in your diaper. Be happy.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Pam
Age: 15

Q:

Hey mommy I wanna ask you how does a baby with no control over their bladder pee? Is it a day long dribble or does it come once in a while in a massive float. Please tell. 


A:

Dear Pam,

An infant is basically a little adult. They get the urge to go and they go. How much they go depends on how much they drink- same as us. They are not dribbling constantly. Like I said they are like us. They are dry until they need to go.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Pamper
Age: 19

Q:

Dear mommy, I live with my GF who is also into diapers and loves to baby me. She is pregnant and is making milk in her breasts and they are starting to hurt. The doctors said she needs to let some of it out, so one night she let me suck her breast and drink the milk. Is there anything wrong with that?


A:

Dear Pamper,

As long as your girlfriend is okay with it and her doctor is okay with it- go for it. From someone who has had children- it is helpful to have the pressure relieved in the breasts by expelling some of the milk. I wish you and your GF all the best.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Pamper
Age: 18

Q:

Hey mommy I live with my girlfriend and she also loves diapers and love to baby me. She had asked me if I want to be a baby for some time. I said yes, she said that I am gonna be treated like a baby for 7 weeks. And I am only gonna eat baby food and drink from a bottle and not go to the bathroom. I am gonna do it all in my diaper. I gotta ask you can any of these things be dangerous for me?  


A:

Dear Pamper,

There is nothing really that bad but there are a few things you need to be aware of. First off if you are going to be using formula DO NOT USE IRON ENRICHED FORMULA- it is dangerous for an adult to use. If in diapers 24/7 change frequently and use cornstarch powder to prevent rash. Try to use toddler food to get enough nutrition. Other than that- enjoy your time.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 35

Q:

Mommy looks like my diaper  change this morning is going to be a messy one. I hate changing a poopy diaper but I can't stay in this messy diaper forever. Guess I'm procrastinating a little. Thank God for changing mats. As you may have guessed I'm a little boy who messes and wets his diaper at night. Any way besides from my morning accidents I have a night time question. I usually get a small bottle of warm milk before bedtime. The milk is actually formula. Can you believe I like the taste? It promotes a good nights sleep. Any way the formula container says you need to use it within 72hrs. Is that true? Does breast milk go bad that fast? Is it even breast milk? Well should truly change my diaper. Any last words of advice for a poopy diaper? ;-)


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Dear Embarrassed,

Formula does need to be used within the stated time. It spoils rather quickly. The same can be said of breast milk. If you are using breast milk the only way to store it is to freeze it. You freeze the desired amount in the disposable bottle liners for the Playtex bottle system. When it is feeding time simply thaw. If using baby formula be sure to use regular formula. NEVER use the iron fortified type- it can cause medical problems for some adults. As for the poopy diapers- be sure to clean thoroughly and powder. Take care.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kendra
Age: 15

Q:

Dear Mommy,

I am upset and was hoping you could help. I know you don't always take sides between kids and parents, but maybe you could give some advice to my mom. She reads this column every month, well we both do. I admit lately I have not had the best grades in school and have on occasion talked back to my mom, who I love very much. But now she is using my diapers as punishment by taking them away till my grades come up. Which they will for finals. I say it's not fair. I was the one who was open and honest and didn't hide the fact that I still enjoy being in a diaper. Take my ipod or give me a grounding for a week but not my diapers. They mean more to me then anything. Please mommy tell her some other forms of punishments for misbehaved honest girls, even time outs or spankings anything. She will listen to you I promise. Please, please help. You're the best ever. Kisses and hugggs.
                                Kendrs


A:

Dear Kendra,

You are right I don't come between kids and their parents. I have 3 of my own and I dare anyone telling me how to raise them (they all turned out great by the way). You do seem to admit you did wrong and that is the first step. The only thing I would suggest is you get your grades up and then sit down with your mom and negotiate. The punishment has to fit the crime. Talk to your mom and see if there are others things she could punish you with, but do it calmly and not have it turn into a shouting match. Remember she does love you and wants only the best for you. When talking to her do remind her that you are honest and a good girl. I am sure that the two of you can come to an agreement that will be okay for both of you.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 35

Q:

Hope all is well mommy! Someday I'll need to get a real mommy so I won't have all these baby questions, but for now I have your help. Plus it may help others reading the board. As you now I'm a little boy who needs diapers at night for both wetting and messing accidents. This morning as normal I woke up with a full diaper. I sat up, got the changing mat, laid it out and started to undo my tapes. I also use baby wipes to clean myself. Before I start wiping away the poop, and if the mess didn't make it all the way up the back of the diaper, I first wipe myself with the clean back side of the diaper. I heard that was the proper technique, is that right? Also some of the poop got on the changing mat. I wiped it off with a baby wipe, but how often should you wash a changing mat, and how do you wash them?


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Dear Embarrassed,

As a rule if you do have poop it is good to wipe any extra off with the diaper. Thus keeping the majority of the mess in the diaper to be thrown out (if a disposable diaper). Then the usual clean up with wipes or a wash cloth.  It is a good idea to regularly wash your changing mat. If it does get soiled wash right away. Most changing pads can be put in a regular washer and dryer- look at the care tag on the pad. But above all keeping everything clean is the first priority. Stay clean and all will be well.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Cam
Age: 14

Q:

How can I get a diaper (not makeshift) without my parents knowing?


A:

Dear Cam,

There are only 2 options: buy at a store or order from the Internet and have it delivered. Either way to need to save up your money and decide which way would work for you. You can say you are buying for a grandparent at the store if you get embarrassed. And for the mail order have it delivered when your parents won't be home or have it sent to someone you trust.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Brian Goldman
Age: 24

Q:

Hello mommy I am a 24 year old man and I want to be a abdl. But I am embarrassed and I just want to start with diapers. Any advice for me for taking it to the next level.


A:

Dear Brian,

There are no rights or wrongs. You do as much as you are comfortable with. Some ABDL's go all the way with babyish clothing and furniture and others just do diapers. My advice is to take it slow and decide what aspects of the lifestyle you would like to dabble in. If you decide to wear the babyish clothing- check out all the sites and shop for a few key pieces to start. Build up your collection slowly. The inexpensive items such as pacifiers and bibs can be bought easily. And in time you'll be one stylin' AB!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: LUKE
Age: 13

Q:

Do you know any websites that have nanny's that diaper, feed, change etc. If you do know of any websites please!!!!! Post them in your answer no x thanks love Luke


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Dear Luke,

On our main site we have a mommy/nanny finder. There is a problem for you though- your age. Unfortunately because you are under the age of 18 the law comes into the picture. Anyone working with you could be arrested. Your best bet is to wait until you are 18 and then you can look for a mommy/nanny.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Linda
Age: 58

Q:

I would love to wear diapers like a baby. Can you tell where I can voice chat on line with others like my self and get an AB mother?


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Dear Linda,

The only site that comes to mind with voice chat is Park place crib.com. They have a wonderful site and a good friend of ours helps make their baby furniture. So check them out.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: LINDA
Age: 57

Q:

I WOULD LOVE TO WEAR diaper. But I do not know how to begin. Although born male I like to dress up as a girl, can you tell me how to begin?


A:

Dear Linda,

I always say to start slow. Some of the sissy clothes can be expensive. My suggestion is to visit the different sites and price shop for the different items you want. Perhaps start with a nice frilly dress. Now don't forget the lacy rumba panties to cover the diaper, either stockings or anklet socks with lace and/or ribbons. And to complete the outfit a pair of black satin shoes. You will be fabulous! Like I said take your time and get each item one at a time as you are able.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Pamper
Age: 14

Q:

Hey mommy I have been wearing diapers 24/7 in 11 months. One month ago I started wetting my diaper with out me knowing it. I could not feel that I was wet. It was first when my mom came in and ask if I was wet and I said no. But she stuck her finger down my diaper and it was soaked, what is going on??????


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Dear Pamper,

You have for the most part 'un-pottytrained' yourself.  Because you have been wearing 24/7 your body knows its okay to go, so why bother giving you signals to go to the bathroom. All the go to the bathroom signals have been shut down. The urge to go and even the feeling of wet (which is why you didn't realize you had gone). To undo it, if you wish it, you would need to potty train yourself again. But if not just be aware that you are now going to be wetting whenever and wherever- so be prepared and be pampered!

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Patrick
Age: 14

Q:

Hey mommy, 4 months ago my dad made me an adult size crib and I have slept in it every night. But then 1 week ago we were going on vacation and in the hotel I slept in a normal bed and every night I fell out of the bed. Some nights I fell out 2-3 times. What is going on???


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Dear Patrick,

It is really simple. You are so use to the bars of the crib keeping you in that you no longer know how to sleep in a regular bed. At least not without falling out. A few pillows on the floors around the bed will prevent any bumps or bruises. One of the hazards of crib life.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Johnny
Age: 14

Q:

How to get diapers at a store and not be embarrassed?


A:

Dear Johnny,

One of the best ways is to pretend you are buying them for your grandfather. You just purchase what you want and ask if these would be good for a 72 year old man when you get to the register. No need to feel embarrassed and you will even look like a wonderful grandson to the cashier! But I must tell you most cashiers really don't care. They are too busy. But try what I said if you need it to feel better. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Nici
Age: 12

Q:

Dear Mommy, this year I got to pick my own science project :). I managed to somehow work diapers in there, and I had to buy a whole pack. I started wearing them and I really liked it. However, I share a room with my mom (she works @ night) and she did something with the rest of them...I really want to try wearing diapers again, but I don't know where to hide anything in my room. Do you know a good way to hide them? I have a drawer where no one barely looks, but I'd prefer some kind of storage with a lock. Thank you in advance! :)


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Dear Nici,

Where to hide diapers. I have heard of many places. I don't know where your mom would look. I know one person who actually hid his in a hollowed out tree in a plastic bag. Other places include attics, under beds, old suitcases, behind headboards, behind dressers, chairs. If you have a trusted friend- perhaps keep it at their house. In a basement. I don't know if any of these help you or not. Maybe they could spark your imagination as to a spectacular hiding spot, Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Patrick
Age: 16

Q:

Hey mommy I use have used diapers 24/7 for 7 months and know I am starting to wet the bed when I am sleeping and during the day. What is going on, please help me. Last night I peed while I was watching TV and I did not notice and I could not feel that I was wet. Please help me what shall I do.


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Dear Patrick,

Because you have been wearing 24/7 for so long your body feels that it no longer needs to let you know when it needs to go. This is one of the side effects of wearing/using diapers all the time. The only way to stop it is to 'potty' train yourself again. So if you want the wetting to stop you need to start retraining yourself to live without a diaper- at least for some of the time.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Babyfloyd
Age: 45 but I feel like a 2years

Q:

Dear mommy, I want to go swimming and we got cripto in our pools.  I pee and poopy my pants like a small baby. I am small for my age. I am like a small baby, kind like a toddler or smaller. I wear size 4&5&6&7 baby diapers, like pampers cruisers, babydry luvs and Gerber 3t vinyl pants and cloth diapers. Help me email me @babyfloyd@q.com


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Dear Floyd,

If you want to go swimming by all means go swimming. You will have to do it un-diapered though. Alot of people assume that the swim diapers they have out on the market is for pee. They are meant to contain feces while a baby is swimming so as to not contaminate a pool. So if you want to cool off just jump in but you'll have to be diaper free.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tim
Age: 17

Q:

Hello Mommy:)

I'm a 17 year old boy, I'm wearing diapers only at night but sometimes during the day. It's because I wet at night. My mom takes care of the changing. My brother is 3 years old and I use his changing table. For a few days ago she asked me if I wanted to sleep in a crib and use the other things that babies do, but I'm afraid that I might lose my friends. So what do you think I should do since I want to be treated like a baby again please help.


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Dear Tim,

If you wish to have your Mom treat you like a baby by all means have her do that. Why would your friends need to know? If you keep the baby activities at home then no one else would be the wiser. You can be a normal 17 year old with your friends while out.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jake
Age: 13

Q:

Hi my name is Jake and I am 15. I wet the bed, is it wrong to wear pull ups? I am very little for my age everybody at my high school calls me adorable and "baby Jake". I just want someone to talk to. I don't want to tell my parents that I need to wear pull ups, because I wake up wet and don't want to have to wash shirts and boxers all the time. I am planning on talking to them and getting some diapers it would be so much easier I just don't know how to talk to them. Thanks for reading this. I just feel really alone and I feel that people would think its wrong because I wet myself. I kinda want a lady to talk to live. Do you know how I could get that.


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Dear Jake,

First thing I would like to say is there is nothing wrong with you. My favorite saying is this- whether you wear diapers, panties, briefs or boxers, they are all pieces of fabric around your posterior! Think about it. It's good that you are planning to talk to your parents. One good approach is to say that you are wetting and ask them to take you to see a doctor. Sometimes wetting can be triggered by an illness and sometimes something as simple as stress can do it. It's just a good idea to have it checked out. In my son's case it turned out to be a immature bladder- he had a growth spurt and his bladder didn't. By doing things this way perhaps your parents might be a little more accepting of the whole situation. As for your other request there aren't really sites that offer that service. However on our main site we have friend finder and a pen pal section, you could check it out and see if you can make some connections that way. I do wish you all the best.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 35

Q:

Mommy I'm little boy that needs disposable diapers at night for  potty problems. I need them for peeing and pooping during the night. I usually wake up wet and messy. What do I need to do to become potty trained? I don't know what to do for that? How long do will I need to wear diapers after I start potty training? Will l need training pants later in the training? Where can I get those? How many dry nights do I need to have before I know I'm ready for big boy pants?


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Dear Embarrassed,

The first thing you should do is see a doctor and make sure there is no medical reason for you wetting/pooping at night. Then the next step is for you to start waking up to use the bathroom- that is the only way you will get potty trained. To help you with that I would suggest a
wetting alarm. As far as training pants you can use them if you wish. Here is the link to get you started: http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/Bed_Wetter_Alarm_Links.html Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Aerin
Age: 13

Q:

Umm....hello. I'm 13 and my b-day is September 30. I put I am straight but I would totally be with a girl if she liked me that way. I've never had a boyfriend though because I'm not the skinniest person, though I'm not actually fat. I LOVE to read books with magic and romance. I seem like a fairly quiet person most of the time to strangers but can be loud and outgoing if I am with people who treat me as an equal, and can hold my own with an average adult in a reading contest (muahaha I read on a college level and scored the highest on a reading assessment that my school has ever seen) I want to be a TB but I know my parents (friends or and other person I know for that matter) would never understand or let me. I don't know how to go about this and it isn't and won't ever be an option of telling my parents, siblings or friends. There's no way I could get diapers for myself either. Do you have any idea what I could do? oops I just realized this is way too long. If anyone would like to contact me my e-mail address is aerinnn@hotmail.com. I would really like to get comments on my situation as long as they are positive <=)


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Dear Aerin,

You are well on your way. Posting here is a good start. We have a penpal section on our main site that might help you to meet people who have the same loves as you. As far as getting diapers you could order them online or buy them yourself. But of course you would need a good hiding place first. It can be a challenge to be a TB. Perhaps once you contact some others they can give you some of their tips. I wish you luck. Also check out our friend finder section.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 35

Q:

Dear mommy after changing my messy diaper after a good night sleep I took my shower and found out I was out of big boys underwear. Forgot to do a wash. Fortunately I'm stocked with disposable diapers. Looks like it's a diaper today. Sure I'll be paranoid that everybody will be looking at me. What makes it worse is the diapers are the AB universe ones with the cute teddy bears on them. If anybody see's that I'll be totally embarrassed! Any way it's summer and hot. Any advice for us diaper wearers in this weather?


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Dear Embarrassed,

In the heat of the summer months a diaper can break down and start to fall apart because of sweat- not just due to the usual pee and poop. So if you are out and wearing be sure to change more often than you normally would and be sure to use a cornstarch powder to help absorb any sweat. Also if you wish use a diaper rash cream as a barrier against rashes. But the most important tip is as I said to change frequently.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Molly
Age: 13

Q:

Hi mommy,

I'm molly. My mum still treats like a baby and diapers me. Since I never got potty trained I still mess myself everyday and get spanked and time out for it. I am home school by my mum, so I don't have to worry about people seeing me in diapers until we go shopping or out and about. She still check my diaper if I'm wet and takes me to the restroom and change me and spanks me for not telling her. But the thing is I want to go out and start making friends and go to a public school, but I don't want these diapers getting in the way of this. I still like to wear the diapers alone in the house and wear them to bed.
p.s. how do I potty train myself?


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Dear Molly,

I'm sorry to tell you this but you will need your Mom's help to get potty-trained. Perhaps you could talk to her and tell her that you are getting older and that you need to start using the bathroom. Because you have been wearing 24/7 for so long it would not be easy for you to get trained. You would most likely need to get a bedwetter alarm to help in the process.  But the first thing you need to do is see a doctor and make sure there is no medical reasons for you to still be going in the diaper. I wish you luck with your Mom and your potty-training. Remember you are not alone.

-Hugs Sandra