ASK MOMMY ANSWERS ARCHIVE                     PAGE 2
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     Hi , I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. I was just wondering if you have any suggestions regarding how best to keep them hidden when out in public. With it being winter its not currently a problem, so I guess I'm really looking for suggestions for when the weather is nicer. Thanks Jeff.


A:

      Hello Jeff:

       Disposable diapers are easyer to hide than cloth. We are now recommending the Eurobriefs alot these days. There is little to no noice from them, and they are pretty absorbant for thier thickness. They are not as noticeable. If you insist on using cloth, you may want to go out and buy some clothes that are baggy on you. Hope that helps you.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

    dear mommy, hello i have a question concerning me you see i have a 1 year old brother who is still in diapers i am starting to wet the bed and my mom said that she was going to diaper me tonightafter i get out the bath, well she said she wont do it for me if i can do it myself can you tell me how to diaper myself Thank You


A:

      Hello Sam

      Lay down on the bed, powder yourself were the diaper will be on you. Lift up your bottom, slide diaper under your butt. Pull the front up between your legs. Pull each side of the back of the diaper up to the front and tape to the front of the diaper. That's about it. That's if you are using a disposable diaper. Which I am assuming you are. Hope that helps you out, good luck.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

     How can I make diapers from scratch? WAAAAAHHHH I do poopi in diaper!:(( CHANGE ME! WAHHHH WWWAAAAAHHHHH :((.little help, what can I do, there is no one to change me, and I need milk from momi! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! WWWWAAAAAAA HHHHHH!!!!!!


A:

     Hello Angel:

        We recommend you go out and buy a diaper making book. I recommend using disposables because the poop is hard to get out of them. The milk and changing part, you should post on the roster listings for a baby looking for mommy. Hope that helps you.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

        mommy i have been in to diapers now for many years and i feel so dirty becuase of it my parents dont know thats why i didnt leave an email adress please try to answer on the site, what should i do im lost


A:


     Hello Mike:

     We don't recommend telling parents about this type of thing till you have your own place. Just too many bad things can go wrong. In the meantime, you can ask as many questions as you want. We will try to answer them best we can. Hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

      i am not in diapers yet and i was just wandering when the best time to start would be.


A:

      Hello Matt:

      We don't quiet understand the question you are asking. We think you need to think about your question a little more. It don't really make too much sence. If you are asking when would be the best time to start wearing diapers as a AB or DL, everyone starts at different times. No one person is the same. You will do it if and when you want, not when we tell you. Hope that helps. 

   -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

         i am a aduit baby and I like it and I have had a few women in my life but they left me when they found out that I was an adult baby how can I keep a wome that will except me for who I an


A:

        Hello John Doe:

        You should go into a AB or DL chat room and look for woman there. It would be best to meet someone who is also into what you are into. If you have a woman, you can bring her home, but leave diapers around the house and other baby stuff and see how she reacts. She may question it, she may not. If she don't freak, maybe mention about how your friends is AB and see how she takes that. If all is good, then you can try to tell her about you. Happy girl hunting.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

         Hi Mommy, I wonder if you can give me any advice. I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants, but I'm looking for any suggestions on keeping them well hidden under my outside clothes. Thank you.


A:

      Hello Jeff:

       Like we said above Disposable diapers are easyer to hide than cloth. We are now recommending the Eurobriefs alot these days. There is little to no noice from them, and they are pretty absorbant for thier thickness. They are not as noticeable. If you insist on using cloth, you may want to go out and buy some clothes that are baggy on you. Hope that helps you.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

        mom looking for a mom care like ababy in diapers eugene wearing diapers like to a baby 01 old 43 1626.3376064 ca covina


A:

      Hello Eugene:

      we recommend you go into the message board on this site, and post in the "Babies looking for Mommy's and Daddy's" forum. Then you can go and look in "Mommy's and Daddy's Looking For Babies" and e-mail one of them and see if they can help you. Hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

         What do i do if i want to be a teen baby?


A:

       Hello Nathaniel:

       We are not sure how to answer that questions Nathaniel. Basically either you are or aren't. It's really that simple. It's your choice what you want to do. Wish we could help more.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

            Mommy, i see alot of people that are looking for babies or mommies and daddies, i want to be cared for by a mommy, but i cant find anyone in the area where i live. (Dallas, Tx.) and also i live with my grandma and she told me that noone under her roof was going to wear diapers and act like a baby. what should i do?


A:

           Hello Cody:

       We really suggest you wait till 18 on this. This way if you still want to be a baby, you will have your own place and can do what you want without anyone's say so. It's just so hard to be AB when you still live at home. So much can go wrong. If you still want to be a TB, try limiting it to only online to be safe. This site has a message board and chat room you can use here till then if that is what you want to do. But don't press beinging a AB at home right now. Doesn't seem like a good idea by your grandma's reaction. You have to respect her wishes while you are in her home. Hope that helps. Untill you are older, check out this and other sites and make sure this is something you really want to get into.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

        is it ok to love diaper even if you dont have anything wong with you???????


A:

      Hello Kacy:

      Yea. There is nothing wrong with you. If it makes you feel good, then we don't see a problem with it.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

        I realy want to be put into diapers. My parents know I have tride on diapers before and that I crossdress sometimes but they never get the hint that I want to be put in dapers. They know I like to wear them but they dont put me in them. How can I get my parents to put me in diapers?


A:

       Hello Zach:

       We recommend you not getting into this while you are living at home. This is something that if you feel this way when you are old enough to have your own place, that you look into. Most parents won't diaper you, even at any age over around 3 years old. Unless of course you are unable to diaper yourself for a medical or mental reason, and you have a actual need for them, such as wetting the bed and that sort. Other than that, you will probably never get your parents to diaper you. Sorry. If you push them to diapering you, they may have you see a therapist or addmitted to a hospital for it. Just don't pursue this with them.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

          can you diaper me?my number is 321-597-0576


A:

       Hello Luke:

       We recommend that you look up Mommy Pam at www.babycareservices.com and e-mail her. Hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

           Dear Mommy, I am not quite an AB, and I am not lesbian, but I have an issue. Whenever I meet a female between the ages of 16 and 26, I almost immediately want to be cuddled and caressed by them. I can never recieve enough motherly love from them. Sometimes I cannot find anyone to give me this kind of love, and I become depressed and suicidal. I don't know what to do when I cannot recieve this love from people!


A:

         Hello Natya:

          We are not sure how to answer this question. But we will talk to you if you want to. You can e-mail either of us at:

Sandra - Gypsy12143@webtv.net
Pam- mamalilones@yahoo.com

   Just put in the subject line, "Need Help". Hope that helps you. Keep in touch, and don't hurt yourself. It's not worth dieing over.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

         Will a size 6 baby diaper still fit me i have a 27 inch waist


A:

          Hello Marcos:

       You will not fit into baby diapers of any size or brand. Baby diapers are not designed to be worn by adults. They will not hold what you put out, and they will not come close to fitting around you. You would need something in the adult diapers in a small size. I know everyone wishes they could fit into baby diapers, but it's just not going to happen. Sorry.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

          I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND ME A MOMMIE IN MY AREA. I LIVE IN MANCHESTER, NEW HAMPSHIRE. CAN YOU HELP ME LOCATE A MOMMIE FOR ME? I AM A MALE BUT MY RECORDS SAY FEMALE SO I LIVE AS A GIRL. AT NIGHT I AM A TOTAL INFANT AND MISS SLEEPING IN BABY CRIBS. THANK YOU, MICHELE


A:

      Hello Michele:

      You can post in the message board on this site under the "Babies Looking for Mommy's and Daddy's" forum. That way mommy's and daddy's here can find you. As far as the crib, you can build or buy your own online. That's the best we can do. This site sells crib plans for $20.00 per copy. www.bedwettingabdl.com/CRIB.html. Hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra  

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Q:

            WOULD LIKE TO FIND SOMEONE IN KENTUCKY WHO WEARS DIAPERS AND OR RUBBER PANTS.WOULD LIKE TO FIND A PLAYMATE ,OR A BABY SITTER WHO COULD HELP ME FULLFILL MY FANTASIES. I LIVE IN THE CENTRAL KENTUCKY AREA.


A:

         Hello George:

         You can either post on "AB/DL Adult roster" or the "Babies looking for mommy's and daddy's" forums on the message board on this site to look for someone you would like to meet. Hope that helps you out.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Q:

           I was a bed-wetter until I was 16 years old and my mother put me in cloth diapers and plastic panties every night. Somewhere around the age of 10 or so I really liked it when "diaper time" came around and she would pin my diapers on for me and pull up my plastic panties. I liked it so much that quite often I was aroused when she pinned my diapers on me and when I went to bed I would masturabte in my diapers and plastic panties. I still get very aroused by my diapers and plastic panties and I wear them all the time now. And I still masturbate with my diapers and plastic panties on. Is this common for a guy to masturbate in his bed-wetting diapers and plastic panties?


A:

       Hello Craig:

       Yes, there are quiet a few AB/DL's that get aroused by wearing thier diapers and plastic pants. If it feels good to you then do it BUT, if you have a mommy, she may not want you to do it. And if you do it you will have to stay in it all night because a baby doesn't cum.
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Q:

     hi mama i have a question. i live with my friend and his moms makeing me wear diapers for no reason, should i let her diaper me and treat me like a baby or should i hide and not get diapered. if i do get diapered she's going to always diaper me, feed me baby food, make me sleep in a crib,put an suppository up my bum and every thing else .i i don't get diapered and get away she'll just keep on trying on catching me and make me in to a baby. what should i do?


A:

      Hello Jin:

      First of all we can't see how your parents let you live with your friends house. If what you say is going on, and it's not something you want, then we suggest you tell your parents, as well as your school. Explain to them that you want out of the situation. The school will for sure help you. Hope this helps.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Q:

      I have used diapers for about 35 years. My wife is aware of this and participates to a certain degree (putting diapers on me). I would like to get her more "involved" with this as far as the AB side. I have provided her reading material on infantilism, but this seems to have made her a little "scared" of this getting out of control. Due to the fact we have already raised two children, I think she has had enough of diapers! Is there anything I can do to change her attitude?? Seems like I'm running out of options. Things have progressed a little, but when I mention the use of "baby things" like bottles, pacifers, etc.she says that this is too much. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks


A:
     Hello Halsey:

     We understand you would like to have your wife involved. But look at it from her side too. What if you she was into bondage and getting beaten, and she wanted to beat you up with whips and stuff?  Would you want to be involved in that? She is uncomfertable with the whole AB thing it seems. We think you should let her decide how much she wants to be involved and not push it. Pushing her into it, may turn it all off to her and she may not want to do anything with it. Enjoy what interaction she gives you with it now. Better than nothing.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Q:

       hey alright i like being 12 but im definattly and abdl for sure (or should i say tb) well... my brothers 4 and he still wears pullups at night so i take like 12 of them and use tehm... my parents dont no anything about this and i dont want to tell them... i read your thing and it said to wait and thats exactly wat im doin and i do stuff on internet and read storys... also sometimes i just wanna forget about being a baby and sometimes its wat i want... im very confuesd and i cant wait till im 18 so i dont hav to do it in private... and can buy my own stuff... well my main point is am i supposed to feel like i wanna be a baby and if i am is it ok to like it and then sometimes y do i want to forget about it and think about well wat teenagers think about?


A:

     Hello Matt:

     It is ok to want to feel like a baby. But not every AB wants to be a baby all the time. Alot of AB's have "Baby Time" at night to relax and they do adult things during the day. I think in your case, the point is proven. You have Baby Time, and you have time you want to do things teens do. Don't rush it. You are able to have both. And it's important to have both. You can't be a baby all the time. It just don't work.Hope that helps.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Q:

       what made u wanna become an adult baby


A:

     Hello Danny:

     We are not adult babies. We are both mommy's. We have a baby we take care of. But we are not babies. Maybe explain what you mean a bit more, and we can better answer your questions. Like who exactly are you asking your question to? Hope to hear from you soon.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra
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Question Asked By: joshuahennen

Q:
         HEY WHAT UP I STAY WITH MY MOTHER AND I AM 27YEARS OLD. WHEN I WAS A TEEN I HAD A WETTING THE BED PROBLEM AND THE DOCTORS SAID THAT IT IS LONG TERM. SO MY MOM TO THIS DAY STILL TREATS ME LIKE A BABY AND PUTS ME IN DIAPERS 24/7 DAYS A WEEK AND A YEAR. WE GO TO CHURCH AND THAT IS BAD BECAUSE I GET PUT IN THE NURSERIES WITH THE BABIES AND EVEN GET TREATED LIKE ONE THERE TO. SHE GOES TO ALL THINGS BOTTELS PACIFFER DIAPERS CRIB PLAYPEN RUBBER PANTS ONEIES ECT. THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR RESPONSE. JOSHUA HENNEN


A:
         First off we would really like to know what church you go to. We have never heard of anything like this to happen. We find this situation very hard to belive. If it's true we are sorry. Be we doubt it is. It seems like every AB's fantisy. And on top of it you did not ask a question. You told us a story. We are not sure what kind of responce you were looking for. Sorry we couldn't help more.

-Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Lynden

Q:
       Hi i'm 14 and i want to tell my mom that i want to wear diapers when ever i want. but i dont know how to tell her. she currently is working a s a pilot truck driver. and one night she found one of my diaper and i told her i wet the bed and she believed me and so she thinks now i wet the bed. but about a week ago i told her i stopped and i want to keep wearing diapers. my question to you is how do i tell my mom that i like to wear diapers?if you need any information just ask


A:
         She already knows about your wetting problem. We are not sure how to recommend handling this. Our best suggestion would be to tell your mom that you are wetting again. It seems like the best way to handle the situation. Telling your mom that you want to wear diapers for fun might be harder for her to accept than you needing to wear them for a wetting problem. Hope this helps.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By:  masood

Q:
       you sexi?


A:
        We think we are.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Crikette

Q:
            What do you do for swimmer's ear/earache?


A:
            First off, this area of the site is for questions relating to being AB or DL. We are not medical doctors. We feel for your situation you need to contact your medical doctor. We are not the ER. Sorry we cannot help.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By:  Tommy

Q:
               Dear Mommy, I found the impossible; my girlfriend is not only OK with me wearing (and using) diapers, but she encourages me to wear them. I was honest with her early on in the relationship and gradually over time gave her more info and explained this part of my life. Now I no longer need to live in secrecy and/or shame with my fetish! It’s wonderfully liberating! I have been wearing diapers to bed each night, and she even likes to put them on me! I wet my diaper each night as well and she hugs me and kisses me and tells me that she is so proud of me and how courageous I am to have shared this with her. She has no problems with me wetting, and she has even told me that if I want to mess in my diaper, she has no problems with that either! She really loves me! Sounds great right? Well, the only problem is that I want to be “forced” to wear diapers and “forced” to mess in my diapers as well! My fetish/fantasy has always included some domination, control and “playful” humiliation, i.e. forcing me to drink a lot of liquids, and taking laxatives and then taking me “out” and NOT allowing me to use the toilet. Then coaxing me to just go in my pants! I have acted this scenario out MANY times with professional Doms, which I have also shared with her. However, my girlfriend refuses to do anything that would humiliate me! As I said, she really loves and cares about me and does not want to support any negative associations with my fetish or hurt me in any way. What are your thoughts on this? On one hand I agree with her, but I have been secretly going to AB websites looking for stories and photos of my fantasy scenario. I’ve even let her read some of the stories, but I must admit it does make me feel embarrassed somewhat. And, to further my dilemma, I am not sure if mixing my desire to be forced to mess in my pants and be humiliated with my loving relationship with my girlfriend (who I want to marry some day!) is going to work! I extremely grateful to have found such a wonderful woman in my life who accepts me and loves ME just the way I am, but sometimes I feel hopelessly compartmentalized and confused with my fantasy world! What should I do? Tommy


A:
             We are happy you found such a wonderfull woman. We don't feel you should have your new partner involved in your fantisy. We feel you should discuss with her about you using a professional to fulfill your fantisy. Then keep the loving the baby thing with your girlfriend. That way you are both happy. Make sure she is ok though with you using a dominatrix first. There are also online Doms that give you directions over the net for you to follow. Maybe that will work. One such site that does it is

Http://www.RedAss.homestead.com/index.html

          The person also uses Yahoo Messenger. The screen name is "mombreelyn". She is mostly on at night from around 10PM-2AM Pacific Standard Time. Don't go behind her back. Keep her involved at some level. No secrets. Hope this helps you.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra
         

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Question Asked By: kristian

Q:
          I have always wanted to be a baby so i told my real mum and she said ok that was 3 years ago she used to breastfeed me and change my nappy now she says i have to be a big boy again what can i do to change her mind thanks mommy


A:
          We can't change someone's mind. Best suggestion would be to sit down and discuss with her why she want's to stop. If she won't do it anymore, maybe seek a AB mommy. Hope this helps.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: kristian


Q:

        why do i want to wear nappies again im 23 i must be sick in the head to want to be a baby please help. thank you mommy


A:

         If you really don't want this feeling, we recommend you see a therapist. But there are several thousand people out there that want to wear diapers. People of all ages. Your not nuts. But if you don't want the feeling, we recommend seeing a therapist. If you want the feelings, that's fine too.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra



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Question Asked By: kristian

Q:
        how do i tell my real mom that i want to wear nappies at night again


A:
        Sence she did it in the past. Maybe tell your mom that you want to wear diapers again at night. We are not sure what other advice to give here. Sorry.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra


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Question Asked By: diaperboy

Q:
        I have been diaper for 5 yrs and also i have been diabetic for all my life and also im hard of hearing but the only plm is that im a very heavy wetter can i cant tell if i need to go the rstrm but that why i have to buy depends but they r ok on me even i have to wear 3 depend on me to make the leak stop on me is there any best way to get!


A:
        We think you are asking about the best diaper to use. We strongly recommend Eurobriefs. The web site for this is at:

http://eurobrief.securesites.com/

       They work the best. We also recommend you also talk to your doctor if you haven't already about your wetting. Hope this helps you.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ron

Q:
        I would like to know how i can get in touch with more woman with dpf.its so hard to regester online please get back with me


A:
         We are not with DPF. You would have to ask Tommy. We don't have his e-mail address. We do have a roster on this site that you are welcome to use. Just go to the Message board. It handles the rosters. Hope this helps.

-Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: david rengifo

Q:
       i think wearing diapers is good but embarrising what should i do wear them or not?


A:
       That is a choice only you can make. That's the only advice we can give. Sorry we couldn't be of more help.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: alan

Q:
      do you make the babies stay in there poopy dipers


A:
        No, never. It's not healty and it's not right. It damages the skin. It's neglect. Every baby, either real or an AB should be changed as often as needed. No baby should be left in a wet or poopy diaper.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: weefella

Q:
            Dear mommy i am a dl that would love to wet & mess my nappy but i dont know of any mommys or ab dl services in the northeast of scotland,do you know of any servces in scotland? thanks, i bought a hypnotic incontinence cd wetting & messing while diapered, but i'am scared to use it cos iam unsure if i was to think i had a diaper on or thought about wearing one would i go potty just thinkng about it? the cd says while iam diapered i wont know iam wetting or messing myself, please can you guide me in the right direction do i lisen to it or not? thanks a very worried boy. :-)


A:
             Hello Weefella,

                      There are alot of downs to using a tape. One if you want to stop doing it, you have to pay a professional to reverse it. If you do think about wearing a diaper or something of that sort, you could actually wet or mess yourself without a diaper. We really don't recommend you doing this. Just keep wetting or messing on purpose if that's what you are into. We want you do be doing this with control. Once you lose control it's hard to get it back.

       -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: adam

Q:
          What should my mom do i am very confused some people say they should nurture thier child and allow them to procide being a baby and others say seek profestional help but I dont know what she should do.

A:
             Hello Adam,

                      We are not sure how to answer this. What do you want her to do? In the end she is going to do what she thinks is best. We really can't answer this questions for you. Sorry.

         -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: ricky steamboat

Q:
           Hi mommy how do i get a mommy here in england it is so hard having to diaper myself and sort my own feeds out


A:
           Hello Ricky,

                   A search for a mommy is normally never ending. It's rare to find a in person mommy. All we can suggest is to keep looking. Post where you can asking to find one. The best you might end up finding is a baby sitter. There is one place we know of where you can look, there is a links page on Baby Care Services. The address is http://www.babycareservices.com/. Look under the "Mommy and Babysitters" links. Hope that helps.

        -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: nick

Q:
          I love to wear diapers when ever I can but my mom would kill me if she found out, but I want a girl or guy to love me and change me. Do you know where I can find someone to just do that pertend im their son and diaper me. Diapers make me aroused what would u do if your son asked you to diaper him and he was 18?


A:
           Hello Nick,

               For finding someone to diaper you, we recommend you going to the following address: http://www.babycareservices.com/ and either you can contact me of the site. Or you can choose someone off the "Mommy's and Babysitters" page. The link is there on the left hand side of each page. There are several people to contact on that links page. And Mommy Pam does several types of sessions which you can view at that site.

              As far as diapering you if you were my son, No. There is a saying, "You don't play in your own backyard". We would be ok with him being into that, but we would not do the diapering and such for him. He would have to look into someone else for that. The only way we would diaper our children at your age is if they were handicap and unable to do it themselves. Hope that helps you.

          -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Craig

Q:
             I have to wear diapers for wetting and pooping all the time. I have so much troubles changing my own poopy diaper that I need my binkie to stop from crying. I am a pretty baby girl whoms looking for a mommy to feed me lots of babas and change me. Pwease help me, hugs and kisses mommy wuv from baby michelle


A:
              Hello Craig,

                It is hard to find a mommy as it is, not to mention one that will change messy diapers. There are a few out there, most charge. There is a list of mommy's you can view at http://www.babycareservices.com/ and just click on the link "Mommy's and Babysitters". The list has several mommy's and babysitters in different area's of the world. Hope some are in your area and can do what you are looking for. We can't think of any that are looking for a full time AB. Hope this helps you.

         -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Matt

Q:
            Hello Mommy. I am starting to become a serious AB, buying diapers and other AB activities. But Im missing one very important thing, I havent got a loving mommy :( Id love to find a sweet mommy but I wanted to ask you about it. Should I try dating normally and see if any of the girls want to try it? Or should I try looking around on the net to meet someone who alreadys into it? If I should look on the net could you please give me some places to look? Luv, Baby Matt


A:
          Hello Matt,

                  Your going to have a hard time online looking for a mommy in your area. They are so far spread out all over the world. You can try dating and see if you can find someone that's into it. But if you look online, you won't find any mommy's online that will do anyone under the age of 21. There is no AB mommy that will do minors. So the best idea would be to try dating. But you will have to be ready to deal with the person you meet  to date to tell everyone you wear diapers and what you are into, will tease you or laugh in your face. Or you will find the woman of your dreams and have alot of diapered fun. Hope that helps.

          -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jay

Q:
      I,m 40 years old,but still like to wear diapers. Why? How can I tell my girlfriend that I want her to diaper me?


A:
       Hello Jay,

              Can be alot of reasons you like diapers. Many wear it because it helps them deal with stress, others enjoy the feeling, others think it's just plain fun. You are the only one that really knows why you like it.

           As far as your girlfriend goes, you can try leaving diapers out in the open, like leaving one on the dresser in your room and see how she reacts. But keep in mind she may not react well and can leave you if she gets too freaked out. But if she's open minded, try doing the leave a diaper out on the dresser sort of approach. And if she seems ok about it and asks you why the diaper is there, explain to her what you are into and if she would like to take part in your diaper fun. If she does not want to take part in it, leave it at that. Don't force the issue. It's not worth breaking up over.

        -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: allyson

Q:
      my boyfriend wants me to were diapers outside with no clothes on what should i do?


A:
       Hello Allyson,

                Tell him no. That is something we really don't think you should do. You can be arrested for doing that. Indecent Exposure is the name of the charge. Tell him no.

      -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Eliza

Q:
       I am 17 and i am a bedwetter.my mother put me diaper and i ashamed of from my family and my friends . is this normal ? pleas help me


A:
       Hello Eliza,

              We would like to know why your mother is putting you in diapers. That should be your choice at your age. If it's your choice to wear diapers, then you should not feel ashamed of having to use diapers to control your bed wetting. But we do think you should see a doctor to make sure it's nothing more serious. Please let us know a bit more about your situation so we can better help with your question.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Billy

Q:
         Dear Mommy, I love to wear dirty diapers. The drawback is the cleanup. It's so messy and uses such toilet papaer or wipes and takes twenty minutes. What do you recomend for someone who doesn't have someone to change themselves?


A:
          Hello Billy,

                 Don't poop! If you really want to poop, you will have to clean it up. There really are no shortcuts to the cleanup of poopy diapers.

         -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: TJ

Q:
       Hi am i normal when i steal my cousins pullup's tj


A:
        Hello TJ,

              If you are stealing the pull ups to wear yourself, you may be a AB or DL. You don't say  if you use them for pee, poop or both. Really there is no normal. We do recommend you buying your own diapers though. It really would reduce the chance of you getting caught. Unless you want to get caught that is. But really there is no normal to us.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: matt

Q:
 
  i what to know if you kwon of any adult disposable diaper with baby prints on it on the market

A:

  Hello Matt,

  A web site called Diaper Station sells some. The web address for the page is http://www.diaperstation.com/disposablediapers.html and the diaper is the fourth one down from the top of the page. Hope this helps.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: T F

Q:

   i have an odd question, I'm 19 have liked wearing diapers for 4 years. most of the time i dont go in them but i will fill them up with water and put them on. i enjoy the feeiling of the wet diapers touching my ... (privates). i feel embarased about asking but why do i enjoy this? i feel that's it wrong!. but everytime i try to go for a time w/o wearing wet diapers. but soon or later i crack and soak them in water and masturbate in them.. what should i do (btw my family does not know this and i fear if i tell them, they will freak out)

A:

   Hello TF,

   This is quite normal. Everyone your age masterbates. It's just part of growing up. And everyone has thier own way of doing it. This is yours. But we don't recommend telling your family. They may not understand. Take care. Hope this helps.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: samantha

Q:

   i want to be a little girl again, what daipers do you recommned

A:

   Hello Samantha,

  Any diaper will work. However, wearing diapers don't really make you a little girl. It's a inner need you need to fulfill. You can wear frilly type things and that can help. But you can also look for mommy's that can help you feel more babyish. You can also look at a site called Baby Care Services. If you are not local to the California are, she does phone sessions over the phone within the United States. The site if you are intrested is http://www.babycareservices.com. Hope this helps.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: adam pamper

Q:

   mommy, i love to wear and wet diapers and i want my girlfriend to know........but im scared to tell her because i love her and i dont want her to leave me. what should i do?

A:

   Hello Adam,

   It's great you wish to share this with your girlfriend. But only you are able to know if your relationship is strong enough to handle her knowing. Not everyone is understanding about this type of thing. Maybe test her by saying "You know, I saw this guy on the internet last night that likes to wear and wet adult diapers. What do you think abou that?" And then based on her reaction is how you find out if she can handle it. But in the end it's on you.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Nicole

Q:

   HI im 16 and i started wetting the bed because of stress related issues with my bio mom and my step mom ( who i consider my real mom) has found out and started diapering me before i go to bed ... and i like the feeling of being helpless ... is that unusual???

A:

   Hello Nicole,

   If you and your step mom are ok with the situation, we don't see anything wrong with it. It's not unusual at all. Many people wish for that situation. Live it up! :)

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: clement leo in plastic pants

Q:

   Hello in wear comco plastic pants 24-7 large size what is the amount of vinyl pants I need to use,I have almost 64 pairs of vinyl pants (comco vinyl pants) is that to many. They get hot when I on what can I use like baby powder,or baby oil,lotion what? just want to feel comfortable in my plastic pants thank you plastic pants wearer.

A:

   Hello Clement Leo,

   The good side of plastic pants is they keep leaks from happening. The downside is if you are active they teen to be on the hot side. We recommend using disposables instead. If you need something for heavy wetting we recommend the Eurobriefs. They are great and hold alot and rarely leak. The address for a free sample is https://eurobrief.securesites.com/free.htm  Hope this helps.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Billy

Q:

   I am very scared right now, because i have just realized that i want to be forced to wear diapers, and become dependant on them. but i have no one to help me realize this dream so i resort to using towels or putting a bunch of underwear on to simulate it. but it is not the same. i want to buy diapers and use them, but i cannot tell anbody, and i am afraid someone will find out. what should i do?

A:

   Hello Billy,

   Well if you really want diapers, try doing odd jobs for friends and family to make some money to buy them. Maybe babysit, was cars, recycle cans and plastic bottles or walk dogs. All kinds of things. Hope this helps.

    -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: c.w.

Q:

   i am living in boston and am looking for a mommy or for a place where i can go to be a big baby and be babysat some place near the city. i am willin to pay. do u have any advice on where i could find a place or a mommy around here that would pamper me.

A:

   Hello CW,

   Best thing we can suggest is to post a ad on Bed Wetting AB/DL's message board. The address is http://p206.ezboard.com/fbedwettingabdlfrm9 and post a message. You can also try http://www.babycareservices.com/MommysAndBabysitters.html and look and see if any are near by. Hope this helps.

     -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Carlos

Q:

   Hi is baby formula like similac advance safe for adults to drink

A:

   Hello Carlos,

   No. Baby formula is made for babies. And adults drinking it can cause harm to an adults body and can make you sick. Stick to regular milk you buy in a store. It's better for ya anyway.

      -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Carl

Q:

   Dear Madam… “ Have faith in God” Jesus answered. “ I tell you the truth, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea, and does not doubt in his or her heart but believe that what he says will happen, it will be done for him. Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. As I am looking for a woman how will have me as what I am and be a mother to me as one of her own. I am a real big baby boy but I don’t cry when I need feeding or when I need a nappy change. I wear nappies 24/7 I eat and drink baby things 24/7 I sleep like a baby plus I have naps like a baby I am 6 ft 7 in tall I am medium build I weigh 76.2kg My D.O.B is 11/09/76 My baby name is Thomas If you now of someone how is looking for a baby can you inform them as a baby is looking for a mother that will take care of him 24/7. They must treat him as a real baby and do baby things to him.

A:

   Hello Carl,

  We are located in the United States. You can try http://www.babycareservices.com/MommysAndBabysitters.html and look through the listings there. Or you can go to http://p206.ezboard.com/fbedwettingabdlfrm9 and post a message for the kind of mommy you are looking for. Hope this helps.

      -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: clement Leo Plastic pants man

Q:

   what is the best adult plastic pants I wear comco vinyl pants

A:

   Hello Clement Leo,

   There are so many out there. Best thing you can do is try a few and see what works. Everyone is different. Hope this helps.

      -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: cw

Q:

   i want to find a place to go to be treated like an Ab i am living in boston and want to find some one wo shars the same interest as me preferible a girl. change each other's messy or wet diapers ect. How do i find some one.

A:

   Hello CW,

   Best thing we can suggest is to post a ad on Bed Wetting AB/DL's message board. The address is http://p206.ezboard.com/fbedwettingabdlfrm9 and post a message. Hope this helps.

        -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Babymark

Q:

   I am a 34 year old adult baby boy. I am married, but my wife doesn't, and refuses to understand me. She hates my diapers, she hates me wearing diapers. Once in a while, early in our marriage she would allow me to wear one when we made love, now she can't even do that. I have tried so hard not to be pushy about them, but I feel like I am being asked to choose between my baby life and my wife. I love each VERY much, and don't want to give up either. I have tried giving diapers up for her several times, but each time the pull of the diaper is stronger than me, and I start wearing them again, and I have to wear diapers behind her back to keep the peace. I also hate doing that. What should I do? How should I deal with this? Please help me. I trust you mommies. I have seen you give very good advice, hopefully you can help me.

A:

   Hello Babymark,

   We don't recommend forcing your wife to accept it. Not everyone will understand. Maybe ask your wife if she would mind you wearing diapers when not around her. That way you can wear and not be having to hide it from her. Or ask her what she thinks would work. Such as the best way for you both to have what you want without the other being upset. Like a special time for you to wear diapers. Let us know if this helps.

    -Mommy Pam
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