ASK MOMMY ANSWERS ARCHIVE                     PAGE 10
Question Asked By: Alex
Age: 13
I AM A BOY

Q:

Dear Mom,

     I want to wet the bed can you tell me how please!!! And I want to wear diapers.


A:

Dear Alex,  If you really want to wet the bed all you need to do is drink alot of fluids and don't go to the bathroom when you feel the urge.  Of course your Mom won't be too happy come laundry day.  You are still very young and should think over this decision .  I only say this because you are still at home.  It can become a bad situation with your parents reaction to you wetting and wanting diapers. Most parents are not understanding and usually don't take it well.  Do you really want all that drama in your life?  If you do then drink away.  And if you don't wait until you are older (18) and can purchase your own diapers without them having to know.  Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Alex
Age: 13
I AM A BOY

Q:

I Don't Wet The Bed I Wont To Can You Tell Me How?


A:

See above question- same answer

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Question Asked By: Carl
Age: 50
I AM A BOY

Q:

I want to say thank you for your answers to my other questions and I wanted to let you also know I just got onesies and I love them they are just what I wanted and I wear them all the time now hugs and kisses


A:

Dear Carl,  Thank you for writing back.  I am glad I was of some help to you. If you ever have any other questions in the future you know where to come.   :)  Enjoy your onesies!
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Unknown
Age: 12
I AM A BOY

Q:

I LOVE DIAPERS iM 12 YEAR OLD


A:

Dear Unknown,  Diapers lovers of the world unite! Be happy.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Trevor B
Age: 13
I AM A BOY

Q:

Is it wrong to want to wear diapers? I Have another question, is it wrong to pretend to wet the bed just to wear diapers?


A:

Dear Trevor,  I don't think its wrong to want to wear diapers.  A child has his favorite stuffed animal, a baby has his pacifier and for some of us we need the feel of diapers to feel comfortable.  In a nutshell- it's all bout feeling safe and comfy. Now you tell me- is it wrong to want to feel safe and snug?  Of course not- so be happy and snuggle in that diaper.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jon
Age: 41
I AM A BOY

Q:

Hello, My question is this, I have just started to get into the AB/DL thing and would like to have a female friend of mine take my temperature rectally. What is the best type of thermometer to use, the best lube to use and the best position for me and is it safe? How should she go about doing this for me?
  Thanks so much, Jon


A:

Dear Jon,  To take a rectal temperature you need a rectal thermometer.  Any drug store or pharmacy will have one.  There are all kinds of lube- vaseline being one.  The procedure should go something like this.  You can lay on your stomach but for a grown man on your side is better.  She should put a dab of vaseline or other lubricant on the tip after shaking down the thermometer and insert gently.  Don't force it just glide it in following the natural curves .  Hold it there for a few minutes and then remove.  It's rather easy.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kendra
Age: 44
I AM A GIRL

Q:

Dear mommy,

Do you know anything about spankings? I have a mommy that I see about once a month. Well she is more of a sitter than a mommy. And sometimes Kendra is a naughty toddler and deserves to be spanked. Mostly by the hand, but sometimes she spanks Kendra’s bottom with her hair brush which gets her point across very well. I noticed that after a few day's my bottom that’s still sore is itchy. Is this because it is healing? What happens when a good old fashioned over the knee spanking occurs?? I think maybe the skin just gets a little irritated. I hope you have an answer. My bottom feels better after I apply lotion or cream, but it does itch for quite awhile. I do enjoy this punishment I receive.
             Sissy Kendra


A:

Dear Kendra,  You are correct the itching is from the healing process.  If I might make a suggestion- the next time you are naughty and get a spanking use Balmex on the area.  Even if you were a 'very' bad toddler and got a really bad spanking the balmex takes away the sting and redness and helps the area to heal quicker.  I know of other bad toddlers that actually had welts and couldn't sit down that used the balmex and were healed in 3 days.  Maybe you could try it and see if it works for you.  You try to be a good toddler okay.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Damie H
Age: 16
I AM A GIRL

Q:

Dear Mommy,

    I am a TB and have been for a few years now. Only a couple of
people know about my loving to wear diapers. I am also blind. I would
like to know if there are any other blind AB/TB/DLS. Are there deaf ones? If so, how and where would I find them? Thank you for listening


A:

Dear Damie,  I personally don't know of any blind/deaf AB's/TB's/DL's.  We might have some in our members- we don't ask if a person has any ailments in our profile.  Perhaps you can post in one of the pen pal sections.  You might be surprised by the response.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrased
Age: 31
I AM A BOY

Q:

Good morning mommy I have a few questions. First off I am a boy ab/dl. I wear disposable diapers at night for wetting and messing accidents. Mainly wetting right now, but I'm known to have some pooping accidents. Waking up in my wet diaper this morning I was wandering about something I noticed allot. Not sure if you will know the answers to these questions. You see just about every day when I wake up in my diaper I notice my pee pee is almost always, to put it delicately, stiff. I would say this is common, around 90% of the time. My questions are: Is it diaper related? How common is this in boys in diapers? How often should I expect this? Is it just me? Well time to have my diaper changed since I just got up, and am wet. Thank you in advance.


A:

Dear Embarrassed,  There could be a number of reasons for your 'condition'.  All of them normal.  You are a grown man (physically no offense to the little boy in you) and to be polite you could be in need of companionship.  It is also a natural response to get aroused urinating.  Infant boys do it all the time.  That's how my husband got christened by our son while changing his diaper.  So it's not just you and as to how often -only your body knows that.  You can relax there is nothing wrong with you.  So sit back and snuggle into your diaper- you're okay.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jennifer
Age: 11
I AM A GIRL

Q:

I love diapers and stuff but I don’t know how to tell also when
I wear diapers it gives "me" a weird feeling


A:

Dear Jennifer,  As far as telling goes- only you know how accepting your parents are about things like this.  You might want to wait until you are much older (18) to say anything.  Some parents get a little weird over stuff like this. Is that weird feeling a good one?  If something feels good to you then it probably is okay.  Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra 

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Question Asked By: Kyle
Age: 16
I AM A BOY
I LIVE AT HOME
I AM STRIGHT

I’m new at this. I've been into diapers for as long as I can remember. I need a mommy that can take care of me. Someone that can change my diapers. I am young and need some help to get started.


A:

Dear Kyle,  You need to look through some 'find a mommy' posts.  I will be honest- because of your age you might only be able to get a phone mom till you are 18.  It has to do with laws  and stuff.  But if you can find an on-line or phone mom when you turn 18 it can perhaps turn into more. So start looking through the posts and good luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ryan
Age: 14
I AM A BOY

Q:

ok I want to wear diapers but I don’t know how to get my
parents to diaper me? any suggestions?


A:

Dear Ryan,  Only you know if they will accept you in diapers.  No one can talk them into it.  It might be better to wait until you are 18 and do it on your own.  We have quite a few members who told their parents and ended up in therapy.  So only mention it to them if you know they will be okay with it.  I wish you luck.

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Question Asked By: PHIL
Age: 54
I AM A BOY

Q:

Dear Mommy,

Being an old time AB/DL (over 20 years) I reached a point where I cannot help wearing diapers every night and very often during the day. I have tried using hypnotic tapes, to no avail (but I was nor very perseverant).I am determined to become a natural bed wetter but have not succeeded so far, except occasionally. I tried to quit wearing diapers but it lasted only 2 weeks and my addiction came back even stronger. What would your recommendation be? I'm dying to become enuresic?


A:

Dear Phil,  Why not just enjoy where you are?  You have been an AB/DL for over 20 years, you wear diapers whenever you want- why try to change now.  Hypnosis tapes only work on some people.  It is not in your body design to be incontinent. Any thing else you might try could be harmful to your health.  We have had members who have taken extreme measures only to regret the outcome- the result not being worth the pain.  All i can say is drink a lot of water and float to sleep- maybe hopefully you'll wake up wet in the morning.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Gary Lapierre
Age: 39
I AM A BOY

Q:

I’m not sure if this section is where I want to be. Please don’t be offended. I am a 39 year old male, with a diaper fetish, I heard about retraining your self TO wet the bed. Is this true? And if so how can I become a full time bed wetter?


A:

Dear Lapierre,  My medical trianing tells me first do no harm.  I don't believe in extreme measures to make one self incontinent.  There is nothing wrong with having adiaper fetish. You can wet the bed by simply drinking alot of fluids and resisting the urge to go to the bathroom.  I dont recommend anything that causes harm to the body.  Some members use hypnosis tapes- they work on some people and not on others.  So drink up and let the flood gates open.  :)
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jasin
Age: 23
I AM A BOY

Q:

Hi I’m Jaisn I am 23 and started wetting the bed on a nightly bases. And have some dl and ab stuff going on in my mind I fell that I am sick for having the thoughts. And don’t know where to get some help for this stuff. I think that I have these problems because I was robbed from my childhood. And one more is there a store like say Wallmart. where I can find some plastic pants. One a web site that is willing to send me a free pair thank you hope you can help.


A:

Dear Jasin,  There is nothing wrong with you.  I know of a few cases of people turning to AB/DL to recapture a lost childhood.  What is so wrong with that?  You are not sick for having those thoughts.  There are many excellent diaper sites in our links page that offer plastic pants as well as all varieties of diapers.  You should check them out.  I wish you much luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Aloveone that care
Age: 31
I AM A GIRL

Q:

I have a boyfriend that looks at women with diaper on and I think he likes it. I love him very much and I don't what to loss him. Is it wrong for him to look at the wet set for adult in diapers and how can I get him attached to me sexually again we are having problems with our sex life. I don’t know what to do. Is it wrong for him to want to wear diapers and role play with diaper. I would really like to hear from you on this PLEASE SO I CAN UNDRESTAND MORE ABOUAT THIS


A:

Dear Aloveone that care,  Most people don't understand the whole AB/DL scene.  They all have misconceptions about it.  I like to sum it up like this.  Today's world is harsh.  We are over worked, under paid and have way too much stress in our lives.  We all need to de-stress. Find a way to relax.  Some do yoga, some do drugs or alcohol, and some do diapers.  The one time in your life when you were accepted just for being you- no boss to impress, no family to take care off-just to be breathing air was enough to be loved.  Why wouldn't you want to go back to that?  In your boyfriends case it seems he is deep into it even to the point of enjoying seeing other people in diapers.  As for your relationship- that is osmething the two of you need to discuss.  What are the particular problems?  Does he want you to participate in his lifestyle?  Do you even want to be involved? How serious are you about this relationship.  Your boyufriend is not a nutjob- he is just someone who found a way to deal with his stressful life.  Talk to each other and see if you can work it out.  Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra 

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Question Asked By: David
Age: 35
I AM A BOY

Q:

Why is it so hard to find women that are into the ab/dl fetish?
dlab8@yahoo.com  how and where to I get to meet women whom are into ab/dl?


A:

Dear David,  Unfortunately David it is hard to find others into the same fetish.  There is so much misunderstanding about the AB/DL lifestyle that most keep their participation hidden.  The only way is to continue going onto AB/DL sites and posting your desire.  The search could be long but if you persist when you do find someone it will be worth the wait.  I wish you luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Daddy Dan
Age: 35
I AM A BOY

Q:

I recently became a daddy to a cute little AB toddler boy. We
have gotten together for Daddy/AB play several times, but have run out of creative things to do. I don't think my little boy is ready to go
out in public diapered yet, but I'm working on that. What sort of
activities can an AB and his daddy do at home? We've already done changing (obviously) as well as bath time, some potty training, and just watching movies and cuddling. I don't have a lot of money to go out and buy lots of baby toys and things, and I can't think of other activities that we can do to have fun. Please help a new Daddy.


A:

Dear Daddy Dan,  Congrats on becoming a new Dad!  To be a AB dad is not all that different from being a dad to a 2 year old. Watching movies can be fun.  You can play ball, can even do hide and seek games- hide a stuffed animal and give clues to where it is hidden.  Simple crafts- take yarn and macaroni and make a necklace- painting macaroni optional. You can make drums- take a can with a plastic lid, put items like pennies or dried beans inside and decorate the outside.  The list goes on.  My suggestion- go to the library and get a book on toddler activities and copy the ones that look good to you.  Have fun playing with your 'little one'.  I hope this helps.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Johnathan
Age: 15
I AM A BOY

Q:

How can I tell my mom that I want to wear diapers?


A:

Dear Jonathan,  I get this question many times every month.  My answer is always the same.  I don't know your Mom so I can't tell you.  Only you know if she has an open mind and might be accepting of the idea of you wearing a diaper.  I have talked to members who have had it go both ways- some end up with Mom on their side and Mom is willing to give it a try and then there are the others who end up in psychiatric therapy because Mom is convinced they are mentally unbalanced.  I usually advise to wait until you are 18.  At that age you are an adult and can live and wear as you please- younger than that Mom or Dad can have you committed.  So you need to think long and hard as to whether you really want to tell your mother about this.  If you decide to do so- get as much informnation as you can from the internet and be prepared for all the questions.  I wish you luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ronnie
Age: 15

Q:

Dear Mommy, I have wrote you before and I am a DL.


A:

Dear Ronnie,

You didn't ask a question.  What is it you need to know what to do about?  If it is about being a DL- you can't help what you like and dislike.  You either like peas or not, sushi or not, or diapers or not.  It is all the same.  Please write me back and let me know what your question is.  I look forward to hearing from you.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ronnie
Age: 15

Q:

Dear Mommy, I have wrote you before and I am a DL. What should I do. I love the feel of pooping in my pants and pee pee in them can you tell me if that's right


A:

Dear Ronnie,

There is nothing wrong with what you like to do.  If it makes you happy continue doing it.  You hurt no one and it is not illegal (well not the last time I checked)  :)  I know some people won't understand-
most people are afraid of what they don't understand. Just always remember that everyone here at this site cares about you and is on your side! So keep your chin up- somebody cares!
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jim
Age: 13

Q:

Okay here's the thing, I love to wear disposable diapers but I can't tell anyone. Do you know a nursery that will do TB in the U.K or will I have to wait till I'm 18?


A:

Dear Jim,

Unfortunately what you assume is correct. Because you are under the legal age there are laws on the books which could get one in serious trouble.  It seems silly but if for instance your parents found out about you visiting a nursery they could actually have the person picked up for delinquency of a minor. Keep the faith though your time will come!
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jack
Age: 57

Q:

I will be having total knee joint replacement. After about 4 days in the hospital, I will be going to a rehab nursing home for about 2 weeks. I have legitimate incontinence, due to nerve damage; but also have ABDL feelings. Despite this, I will feel greatly embarrassed to have nursing staff changing my diapers. How can I face/get over the embarrassment? Also, I am afraid I may get an erection during my diaper changes (I may not be able to prevent it/help but have one); which I would feel very embarrassed about! I don't want the nurses to know that I may be enjoying having then change my diapers. What can I do about this?


A:

Dear Jack,

As a former nurse- have no fears!  First off since you do have actual incontinence the nurses are used to changing diapers and it would just be routine to them.  Most males get erections while being changed- my infant son did it. I am sure he was only fantasizing
about his next bottle.  So again even if it were to happen the nurses are used to that also.  Please don't concern your self about these things- nurses have seen it all.  Just concentrate on your recovery and get back to your old self. You need to focus on getting well.  You have nothing to feel embarrassed about.  I wish you luck on your surgery.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ha LE
Age: 14

Q:

Is it ok to poop my panties? I love to poop my panties and then pee in them. Sometime I eat poop and is a toilet slave. Panty pooping in public is the best.


A:

Dear Ha Le,

If you like to poop and wet yourself and enjoy doing it then there should be no reason for you to stop.  My only concern is of you eating it. Poop is after all a waste product from your body.  But that being said- if you are happy then continue being happy.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Anon
Age: 13

Q:

How do you make a disposable diaper using stuff at home? How do you fold a cloth diaper?


A:

Dear Anon,

You can't really duplicate a disposable diaper using items at your home.  You can make a cloth diaper out of regular household items like a towel or part of a sheet for instance.  If you have no sewing skills it might be better just to purchase some. As to how to fold a diaper- there are as many ways as there are people.  The most popular is to fold it in thirds and open out the top and bottom so you end up with a hour glass shape. Another top choice is to fold into a triangle shape- bring one end between legs and the other two around the sides and join in the middle of the front.  Just two suggestions.  Hope this
helps.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Miguel
Age: 16

Q:

¿como hacer que me traten como bebe?


A:

Dear Miguel,

I cannot answer your question because I don't speak Spanish.  Please can you ask it again in English? Look forward to hearing from you.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Miguel
Age: Unknown

¿como podria hacer que mis padres me traten como bebe?


A:

Dear Miguel,

Please re-ask your questions in English so I can answer them.  Thanks.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Asd
Age: 19

Q:

How do you diaper yourself?


A:

Dear asd,

Most diaper packaging gives directions for diapering. The best method for you will probably take some trial and error. Use a changing pad of some sort. You clean yourself and powder as usual. Lay down on pad and slip back end of diapers under your rear by lifting rear up
off of pad.  When diaper is far enough up then loser your rear end and fasten or pin each side snug.  You will need to pull tight because when you stand your rear is no longer spread out on the pad and could loosen somewhat. Like I said it will take some trial and error but you will be able to do it yourself in no time!  Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Ronnie
Age: 15

Q:

Dear mommy,

I would like to now where I can get diapers without anyone finding out. My mommy is getting suspicious about me because she does not know.  Can you please tell me were to get diapers at with out anyone
finding out?

Thank you mommy


A:

Dear Ronnie,

You do have choices. You could go to a store you don't normally use and buy some.  Another option is to order over the internet- most companies deliver in unmarked boxes.  As to where to have them delivered- maybe have them sent to someone's house that you trust or to your home when only you will be home. Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: D
Age: 16

Q:

I just want to do you know any sites that I can get disposable diapers from and at a good price, and also I only have a cash card do you know if there any sites that will accept a solo cash card and are there any where I can set the time and date of delivery


A:

Dear D,

There are many on-line sites that sell diapers. I would like to recommend http://www.diaperconnection.com/?BedWettingABDL They are affiliated with us and have good products. You can contact them about delivery times and what kind of cash card they accept. Happy diapering!
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kendra
Age: 44

Q:

I just absolutely love your site especially ask mommy. I am a sissy AB/dl and might add get into trouble quite often, so I know I deserve the punishments I get. They are mostly spankings and timeouts. Did you know that I recently purchased attends diapers #10 with waistband, and mommy they are the most real feeling and looking baby diaper I have ever worn. They only have attends name on the tapes, and there is no wetness indicator. So they look like a baby disposable. I just wish they had baby print or cartoon print on them, and I would be in heaven. And I might add they hardly ever leak especially with my plastic panties on. What is mommies favorite form of discipline for naughty toddler sissies.
Kendra

p.s
uh oh I'm not suppose to be on the computer now and my mommy is coming I think I'm in big trouble.


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Dear Kendra,

I am so glad you like coming here.  I enjoy hearing from my on-line babies!  I am glad you like the attends- but if you want a real baby looking diaper we sell diaper tapes on our main site.  They are diaper
stickers that you put on the front of your diaper just like the designs on baby brand diapers.  We have baby blocks and ducks and all kinds of designs.  Check them out.  http://tapes.homestead.com/index.html We even do custom designs too.  As for the discipline a mild spanking with "Mommy still loves you she just angry at what you did."
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Embarrassed
Age: 31

Q:

Dear Mommy I have written to you a couple months ago about an experiment about wearing diapers nightly whether I want to or not. This effort is to see how I feel about diapers after year.  I failed to keep to it, and have restarted. After soaking my diaper twice this morning I thought to myself if I am acting like a baby then I need to wear diapers regardless. Right now I still have control but as punishment for acting like a baby boy I will continue to wear diapers at night.  As this journey to un-potty train myself at night continues I will keep you updated. My question is what should I do during the day to take care of my skin? Sometimes it feels itchy.  I do protect the skin from diaper rash, but after my changing, and after my shower in the morning, how should I treat my diaper area? Should I use baby oil or something?  Please instruct me on this.  Well I need to get diapered and ready for bed.  Thanks in advance.


A:

Dear embarrassed,

I am glad to hear from you again. I do have some suggestions for you.  Most adult diaper sites sell some form of wash.  I personally like 'Carezz' line of products.  Their link is http://www.fncmedical.com/index.htm They have a no rinse wash and cream.  They not only cleanse and deodorize the skin.  They protect it from the urine by-products.  It is an excellent skin care cream my doctor recommended it for my wound care from my car accident to help heal my scar  The wash can also be used in the laundry to sanitize cloth diapers or clothing and bedding. Continue using what you are but perhaps supplement with one of these products to help get rid of that itch. Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Matthew
Age: 19

Q:

Where can I buy diaper tapes with prints on it instead of your
site I wear diaper 24/7 where can by cheap case of diaper in small
adult.


A:

Dear Matthew,

I don't know of any other site that has diaper tapes. If there is a certain design you are looking for let us know- we can't do licensed logos though like Disney and so on.  As for the cheapest diapers that is something you need to look into near where you live. You might be able to get a good deal at a local store or a on-line company. Good luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Dan
Age: 15

Q:

Is it right and good for a 15 year old boy to wear diapers? Is it ok, and how can i tell my parents I like diapers i mean its a hard topic.


A:

Dear Dan,

If wearing diapers makes you happy then it is alright. You hurt no one.  As to telling your parents- I always ask one question.  Is this something you really believe they will understand?  Are they open-minded and accepting.  If you have even a little doubt I would not mention it as much as you would like to.  If they are 'understanding' get as much information as you can and go to them in a factual way- ask questions and you answer them.  I wish you luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Cody
Age: 15

Q:

Hello mommies. I live in the Dallas, Texas area and I have had
trouble looking for stuff for bigger kids. I mean I can find diapers no
problem, but do they make the little swimmers for big kids? and any
ideas on where I can find baby clthes like plastic pants, onsies etc. Any help you can give me would be much appreciated.


A:

Dear Cody,

It can be difficult to find larger size clothing.  On our main site we have a links page with quite a few companies that offer larger sizes- you should check it out.  In the mean time- here is one that does offer
onesies:  http://www.ab-outfitter.com/home.html You could visit and see if they have anything you like.  Happy shopping,
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Cheryl
Age: 18

Q:

Dear mom,

I would love to wear diapers and be a little toddler all over again.
However I have no idea how to bring this up with my parents. Looking at the other replies you seem to be of the opinion that being 18 is a good time to bring it up with parents but my I'm still in school and have no means to financially support myself if my parents don't accept it. also would be very embarresed. reason i don't wear diapers is i don't want to think of consequence if parents find out. please help


A:

Dear Cheryl,

It is true I talk about the age of 18 alot.  That is because you are of legal age and are considered an adult.  Most parents are not accepting of the whole concept and can have you committed to a mental hospital- if you are under 18.  They have the legal right to do so. I only say age 18 because at that point if they find out and don't like it- at least they can't hospiotalize you.

If you know your parents won't be accepting of this lifestyle and you are still dependant on them for support I would not mention it to them. They might not be able to put you in a facility but they can cut off all ties with you including asking you to move out and support yourself.  In your case you might have to wait until you are out of their home to live as you want to. Good luck.

-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: TOPHER
Age: 37

Q:

Dear mommy,

I have been a diaper lover , since  i was about 11, now that im older I have shifted more into the adult baby side of this wonderful fetish. I have started a collection of "baby" clothes, bottles, pacifiers etc... now I would really like to have my own baby bed, do you know where I could possibly get plans to build one?  Thanks


A:

Dear Topher,

Funny you should ask--- our main site builder Stanley not only sells plans he sleeps in a full size adult crib of his own design!  It is built around a twin size mattress.  To see it go here:
http://www.bedwettingabdl.com/CRIB.html

Send him a line if you are interested.  It is very easy to make you would only need a drill and screws. He had Home Depot cut all the pieces to size. He loves it! I hope you get the plans.
-Hugs Sandra 

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Question Asked By: David
Age: 35

Q:

How and where do I begain to find women that are into the ab/dl
fetish?


A:

Dear David,

I would like to be able to help you but to find another person that is into being AB/DL takes some work and a little luck.  I would suggest that you look into posting on some 'Penpal", "Meet someone in my
area' type of posts. If you can develop a penpal relationship with someone maybe it can turn into romance later on down the road.  I wish you luck.
-Hugs Sandra

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Question Asked By: Luc Martin
Age: 78

Q:

Ever since I was 6 I loved rubber sheets. I did not wet the bed. Around 18 after an evening of school work I would purposedly wet my bed. I got  married very young. My wife was quite understanding of
my love of rubber sheet. We had many children. She did not want
to have rubber sheet in their bed. Internet made me discover DL. Now I am a widower. Once a week I soak the bed (I love the feel of the urine on the legs). 3 or 4 times a week (day or night) I wear TENA pants or Tena Flex. My desire for diapers increase month after month. It is difficult to refrain it. What can I do ?


A:

Dear LucMartin,

You have been wetting for over 60 years- why stop now? It is such a simple pleasure why deny yourself.  You were fortunate in that your wife was accepting of the lifestyle.  Now as you enter your golden years continue to live out your fantasy.  Of course if you really want to stop it might be difficult since your body has been 'trained' (so to speak) to be the way it is.  You would have to wean yourself off of the
diapers.  It could be a difficult road to travel but it could be done if you really wanted to.  My advice though is to enjoy life- we only get one shot at it!
-Hugs Sandra
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