ASK MOMMY ARCHIVE PAGE 1
QUESTION ASKED BY:   Matt


Q:

   What's the best disposable diaper to use? I'm willing to try any type.



A:

    Dear Matt:


     The best disposable diaper we know of is molicare. One site they can be found at is www.magicmedical.com. Hope this helps.


Pam & Sandra


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QUESTION ASKED BY: John Boy


Q:

     I always have a hard time pinning my cloth diapers on.Is there an easier way to do this.What is the best way to fold a cloth diaper Thanks John Boy


A:

    Hello John Boy:


  The best way we know is to fold the diaper into a
triangle, wrap the longest edge around your waist and
the v part that should be hanging down between your
legs. Pull that part up between your legs and pin it.
You should be able to pin all 3 corners together. Hope
this helps.


Pam & Sandra  


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QUESTION ASKED BY: 


Q:

    I wet the bed and mom diapers me 24/7 all the time how do I tell her not to?



A:

    Hello John/Jane Doe




             Without an age we can't really give you a good answer. If you are under 18 you should discuss this with your parents. Do you have a true medical need for diapers? You should see your doctor and see what options you have.


Pam & Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: JOHN BOY

Q:

    What are the best cloth diapers and plastic pants to use and what is the best way to wash them.What is the best laundry detergent to use?



A:

    Hello Johnboy:

      To answer your questions the best cloth diapers is Gauze. The best plastic pants are Comco. They have a lot of types to choose from and they wear well with time. The best laundry detergent to use is tide. But please make sure you are not allergic to it. Hope we have helped.


   -Mommy Pam & Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: XAVIER

Q:

     I recently started wearing diapers for the feel, d/l, and because I have kind of wet the bed minorly, but the problem is that I don't want my mom just to find out I want her to know why but I don't know how to tell her please help


A:

    Hello Xavier:

               If you are having a problem with leaking at night you should tell your mom about that and maybe they can help you. But if you are just wearing diapers just for the feel of it you may run into a lot of difficulty telling your mom that you like the feel of diapers. We think you should keep the fact that you like the feel of diapers to yourself. Some parents may over react and take you to see a psychiatric doctor. They may mistake your desire as a mental illness. We have known some parents to stop talking to their children and kick them out of the house.


Pam & Sandra       
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QUESTION ASKED BY:  EMILY

Q:

    I am new to being an AB and I am having a hard time finding a mommy. Any suggestions as to where I can search for someone to have a non-sexual breastfeeding, etc. relationship with?


A:

    Hello Emily:

         There are not many mommy's out there that breast feed. We don't really know for that. You can try opening some chat rooms on such places like yahoo. Maybe you might get lucky. We wish you luck. Have a good day.


  Pam & Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: ROBERT VANDENBERG


Q:

    I have to go to the hospital for surgery and I was wondering if I should tell anyone I need to wear a diaper for at least bed time What I am afraid of is the nurse would want to put a catheter in me and I hear they are real painful please help Robert


A:

    Hello Robert:

           I would discuss it with your doctor. And request that if they will not use diapers with you ask that they put a pad down. Just express to your doctor that you do not want a catheter used. Because the doctor has the final say on it. Good luck with your surgery. Love always.


    -Pam and Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: SKINNY


Q:

     I started wearing nappies about 2years ago after reading about infantilism now I found a magazine called wetset here in Australia which covers bedwetting & adult babies & nappy wearers so now I am starting to dress up like wearing a nightie to bed and sucking on my bottle but I still wake up dry what do you recommend thank you I love thick terry nappies Skinny lots of love to you to xxxxxxxxx



A:

    Hello Skinny:

       We recommend that you drink lots of fluids before bed. Maybe take some with you to bed in a bottle. Good luck on wetting. Love always.


   -Pam and Sandra       
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QUESTION ASKED BY:  BILLY


Q:

    I'm having a problem, I wear cloth an plastic pants now an then when I fill them they don't like to stay up, can u suggest a better diaper or what am I doing wrong. ty


A:

    Hello Billy:

          You need a more absorbent diaper. With cloth and plastic pants are not going to work. Maybe part of the problem is you are not changing often enough and the diaper is to heavy to stay up. Maybe try changing a little more often. This will also prevent leaks and diaper rash. Good luck and lots of love.


   -Pam and Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: ERIK 


Q:

    Should I wear diapers to bed? I still wet the bed but I don't want mom to diaper me like a baby. Should I use something else heavy wetter or should I have her diaper me before bed?


A:

    Hello Erik:

        Well first off we hope that you have some kind of protection on your bed like a water proof sheet. As far as for wetting the bed, goodnites are a good product and you can put them on yourself. They are like pull ups for big kids. If you want to learn a little more about them you can go to www.goodnites.com. They have a lot of information about their product as well as information about bed wetting. Hope we helped and good luck and we hope everything works out.


   -Pam and Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: LEE


Q:

    How do you make diapers and plastic pants? And I wanna know how to tell my mom I wanna wear diapers.



A:

    Hello Lee:

           We don't know your age and we don't know your sewing skills. I would suggest you go store bought with both of those. If you need to find out how to fold a cloth diaper, we can help you with that. You may want to have a seamstress.

       As far as telling your mom you want to wear diapers, it depends on your age and if you really need them or not. We could better advise you.


    -Pam and Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: WILD BABY


Q:

    looking for a mommy/playmate in Georgia,new to this I am a AB/dl, not sure where to look,thanx



A:

    Hello Wild Baby:

           You can try DPF or on this site you can look through the adult AB/DL roster for someone to meet. Also you can look into the ABDL room in the yahoo chat rooms. That is all we really know about.


  -Pam and Sandra 
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QUESTION ASKED BY: JOHNBOY


Q:

    Where is the best place to find a mommy.I heard escort services are good,Is that true?What are the best questions to ask? 


A:

    Hello JohnBoy:

     First off escort services are not a good source to look for a mommy. There is a risk of getting arrested with a escort service to find a mommy. You can look on this site in the Babies Looking For Mommy's link on the main page found at:

http:///bedwettingabdl.homestead.com/stanley.html

    Just scroll to the bottom and click on the link. We want you to be very careful of who you choice. We don't want you to get hurt. We wish you all the luck.


   -Pam and Sandra       
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QUESTION ASKED BY: CLEMENT LEO


Q:

    Is there a lot of plastic pants companies of adults out there?




A:

    Hello Clement Leo:

     Yes, there is. There is plastic-pants.com is one. And you can also use yahoo search and type in "Plastic Pants" and look at the results. There are lots of styles and colors. We wish you luck in your search.

  -Pam and Sandra 
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QUESTION ASKED BY: JOE


Q:

    how can I buy diapers without my parents knowing?




A:

    Hello Joe:

            You should express this feeling of wanting to wear diapers with your parents if you feel they will understand. Or wait till you are 18 to buy the diapers. We are sorry we can't help any more than this.

  -Pam and Sandra       
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QUESTION ASKED BY: BABY CONWAY


Q:

      hi mommy I am just wondering what is the most absorbent diaper out their my mommy wants to know. and second how do you know when it is time to replace the nipple on the baby bottle




A:

       Hello Conway:

        We as far as the most absorbent diapers, that would be the molicare line of diapers. They hold the most as far as disposables go. Next absorbent would be cloth diapers. As far as the nipples, the time to replace them is when the holes become too large and too much liquid comes through, when it becomes too dry and cracks, or the seal around the nipple collar leaks. Hope this helps.


  -Pam and Sandra       
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QUESTION ASKED BY: VAUGHN


Q:

    How can I find a mommie to take care have me?


A:

         Hello Vaughn:

     Please go to my page on Stanley's site and fill out the questionnaire. I know the page I am sending you to is for baby sitting, but I sometimes use it for basic information. In the comments box at the bottom, type in "Attention Mommy Pam I am looking for a mommy" and I will get back to you to try to point you in the right direction to find a mommy that will take care of you. The address to that page is:

http://bedwettingabdl.homestead.com/AB_Baby_Sitting.html

  After I receive it I will e-mail you back on the address you left on the form. If I need to speak with you I will e-mail you a phone number you can contact me at.


  -Mommy Pam
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QUESTION ASKED BY: BRAXTON WEBB


Q:

         HOW CAN I LOSE CONTROL OF MY BLADDER WHIT OUT USEING DIAPERS?


A:

         Hello Braxton:

         How are you be a lesbian if you are a male? As far as loosing your bladder control, the best way we can suggest it is to drink lots of liquids and listing to rain recordings or dripping water.

   We do not approve of anything artificial means to make yourself go because they are dangerous and possible life threatening. So the best thing we recommend is what we stated above. Good luck.


  -Pam & Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: DOUG IN DIAPERS


Q:

         Dear Mommy,
         I have been wearing diapers secretly for about 2 years now, and I fantasize about being changed by someone else, how would I go about doing this?


A:

         Hello Doug in Diapers:

       Legally you have to be 18 to be changed by a "mommy". The only one that can legally change you is your parents or if you are in a hospital. Once you are 18 there are places that you can locate a mommy at. We want to stress that with the fact that you are diabetic that you should be extremely careful,
because you can develop other conditions which can be
worse than just wetting. To prevent these conditions make sure you clean yourself EXTREMELY WELL. Good luck on finding a mommy in the future.


  -Pam & Sandra
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QUESTION ASKED BY: LIL JEFF


Q:

     How do I find a place to rent that has other AB/DL's living there?


A:
     
   Lil Jeff:

   Honestly finding a AB/DL room mate situation is somewhat like looking for a needle in a haystack. You didn't mention the city you live in. But the bigger the city the more the odds are in your favor. Try leaving messages in the DPF.com message forum. Don't give up trying. The room mate situation is out there for you.


  Take Care, Mommy Stephanie

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QUESTION ASKED BY: BABY JOHN


Q:

   Hi Mommy I'm a bed wetter here in the UK I've been wetting the bed for three years. But not told anyone about this I'm out of work and its very hard to buy my nappies. Will I be able to get my nappies from my doctor and how do I go about it all. Please help as I'm on low income need you help. Thanks Mommy.
Love Johnxxx


A:
 
  Baby John:

  Go to your general doctor, Tell him you have been incontinent for 3 years and you can't control it at night only. Ask the doctor if there is a medication you can take or if he could write a prescription for diapers (nappies).

  If the doctor won't write a prescription for nappies, get some bath towels and some diaper pins. Place the 2 upper pins at your waist and the other 2 pins a little ways down. Get plastic or rubber pants
from a medical warehouse.

   You can also use gauze diapers from the medical
warehouse.

  If you have a problem with the above please send your problem to Stanley_thornton1980@yahoo.com and it will be forwarded to mommy Pam and mommy Sandra.

  -Mommy Pam & Mommy Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: GARY


  Q:

       How common is it for children to wet themselves either while being spanked or when about to be spanked? I used to do this. I even did it when I was caught committing a minor offence by a policewoman when I was 22. I think this response deterred me from doing things that might get me spanked because it really
added to my embarrassment. But now I think about and
fantasize about being spanked and wetting and having to be put back in diapers, especially when I am stressed. What do you recommend?


  A:

   Gary:

   This is a normal response in some people. Since you crave this I recommend you go back into diapers to relive the stress and to avoid accidents.

    Wearing the diapers may give you a sense of security and comfort. Fantasize away :)

  -Mommy Pam & Mommy Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Justin


  Q:

          hi mommy,

       I have been wearing diapers for two weeks straight 24/7 in
hopes of getting my muscles to relax so I can be come incontinent....so far it isn't working any ideas of what for example you would do for your baby to make him/her incontinent????
thanks for reading this

  A:                             

           Drink plenty of liquids. And order a running water CD. It's just a recording of running water. And play it all night. If that does not work get back to us.

  -Mommy Pam and mommy Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: BILL IN DIAPERS


Q:

      I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. My question " what is the quietest plastic pants and where are they available?"


A:

      Hello,

            The quietist plastic pants are rubber. Comco sells them the cheapest. Your best bet would be to buy plastic pants made from rubber. They are very quiet. If Comco does not carry them you can try other dealers that sell plastic pants.

   -Mommy Pam & Mommy Sandra

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BELOW QUESTION ASKED BY LEO.....

Q:

        It might sound strange for asking this kind of question  but here it goes, I have been a bedwetter for ever since I could remember 1, 2, 4, a week even now. My question is that when I put on a brief at night I always wonder what is the best way for a man to position his u know what. The reason I ask is that I usually wake up to find out that if I sleep on the side well the not the stomach or back well the bed will get wet . So I try as much to sleep on my back. what is the best way to put a brief on?

Thank you


A:

      Hmmm, after thinking about this..and I'm a female..I would probably have to advise 1 to place it to where it was most comfortable for him to sleep. I would instead...place a plastic or something of sorts mattress cover over the top mattress..and then a sheet...under myself I'd then place a pad so if by chance you do leak...it wouldn't get on anything but the pad. I cant tell you how to place the penis..for I don't have that...but I can only suggest what I have above.
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QUESTION ASKED BY JESS.........

Q:

      I am a 16 female and I'm kind of new at this, and I was wondering if you could tell me where I could find a mommy in my area and how I would get diapers with out anyone finding out.


A:

       Jess, I am sorry to say that Mommy cannot answer your question. Your asking her to help you do something behind you parent back and she can't do that. She says she is very sorry she cannot help you. Hope you understand.

   -Stanley and Mommy
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QUESTION ASKED BY: JASON S.

  Q:

         What diapers are for me?


  A:

         Hello Jason, Mommy does not know how to answer your question. You did not enter your age so she can't guess your size. That is a hard question to ask a mommy. But I (Stanley) am a bed wetter and I use large attends myself. The best on the market I have heard of are Molicare. But they are a little over a dollar each. The attends are about 60 cents each. It's up to you to choose but I have tried both and I am very happy with both. The only difference that really matters to me is how much they hold. A Molicare will hold 4 times what a attends can. But I prefer to change a little more often so I use attends. Hope this has been helpful to you Jason.

   Stanley & Mommy Pam
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QUESTION ASKED BY: WHIP

Q:

        I'm looking for the thickest and most babyish disposable diapers on the market. Can you please recommend some?


A:

         Hello Whip:

        The mommy I send this to could not answer your question so I am going to try to answer it for you since I am a bed wetter and wear diapers.

     First of all he thickest disposable diaper on the market that I have tried was the molicare super plus. They are purple in color and are almost a inch thick. They are the best diaper available that I know of. The molicare super plus are about $1.25 each.

       As for the most babyish diaper, If you are small enough you can fit into depends. They new kind. They are white in color and have the leak guard inside like baby diapers. I think attends are a lot like pampers but without the leak guards and the attends have plastic type material inside. But the attends hold about 2-3 times as much as depends and the molicare hold about 3-4 times as much as a attends.

   Well I hope I have answered your question. If not you can e-mail me at stanley_thornton1980@yahoo.com and I will try to help more. Take Care.

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QUESTION ASKED BY: MATT


Q:


    Does Mommie know of any Australian Adult Babies sites or   Where I mite find them, I'm a diaper wearer who needs changing.




A:


       Hello Matt:


      I don't know of any off hand. I know there are some from other AB's I have heard from. And they said they heard of them from DPF. So you may want to check out DPF or Deekers. Both can be found by typing in either DPF or Deekers into the yahoo search engine. I will keep my ears open and if I hear of any I will
post them in Stanley's links page for AB/DL sites.


  -Mommy Pam and Sandra


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QUESTION ASKED BY:  bob

Q:

my question is what do you think of all those hypnotic tapes and cd's that are being offered by different companies. Do you really think that they work and you do which ones? I want to experience being a baby as much as possible and as real as possible. also due you have any suggestions? I already wear diapers and drink out of a bottle. thanks for your help


A:

Hello Bob:

      We really don't think the hypnotic tapes work on everyone. Not worth it to spend the money for. If you want to feel like a baby then maybe find someone who can do it with you. Maybe a mommy type person to baby you a bit.

Mommy Pam & Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY:  Helen

Q:

How can I start wetting my pants and bed naturally without losing total control of my bladder and keeping it hidden from others?


A:

Hello Helen:

     We were wondering why you would want to lose control of your bladder. It is very hard or impossible depending on what you did to lose control in the first to get it back. We suggest if you want to wet your diaper, just go in your diaper instead of the bathroom.

   -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Gil

Q:

I would like to know of a different way to be incontinent beside catheters they work very well but after 2 weeks in your hold is down to a thimble full


A:

Hello Gil:

  We really think you should see your doctor as soon as possible. You may have caused serious damage to your bladder. That is what it sounds to us. But please be aware we are not doctors. We do not recommend ways that make you go artificially.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Scott

Q:

My girlfriend use cloth diapers on me now, and wants to switch over to the disposable diapers. Should she continue using plastic pants over my diaper. I'm trying to get use to the fact that sometimes I get embarrassed that my girlfriend will ask one of her female friends to change my diaper at first it bothered me but I'm getting use to it should I feel this way when some one else changes me.


A:

Hello Scott:

     We don't see the need for the plastic pants with the disposable diapers. It traps heat and causes diaper rash. And as far as letting others change you, that is really your choice. You need to express to your girlfriend that you don't want to be changed by anyone else.

  -Mommy Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Alex

Q:

     Dear Mommy: I travel through London with work every other month or so and I wanted to find a sitter for me this time in. I need Her between the Dates of April 18-24 2003 and she should be near the airports or not too far away. Only for a night or two or a short visit one evening. Do you have any friend's there? can you send's me some information? Friends would be nice too!


A:

     Dear Alex:

      We don’t know how to help you there. We don’t know any mommy’s or babysitters there. Sorry.

   -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Scott

Q:

     I'm a new adult baby and getting use to this life style. My girlfriend is 15 yrs older than me. I'm given infant type care all the time. I have a nursery and sleep in a crib. I'm on formula and around 8 at night I have my last bottle. every night about 3am wanting a bottle, because she started this about 1 month ago coming in at that time and waking me up and giving me a night time feeding, is this normal waking up at that time. Sometimes my diaper is not that wet but i'm changed after my feeding. Can she wait until morning to change me. On of her girlfriends that is going to be watching me has mentioned that having a pacifier all the time is no good, I love my pacifier, what is your out look on this. Since I wet a lot, her friend has mentioned putting the pampers diaper inside on of my diapers and using it as a soaker and maybe this might help on excessive diaper changes. Will this help.


A:
 
    Dear Scott:

    As for waking you up at 3AM for a feeding, the night time feedings really very from baby to baby. There is no set feeding time for real babies. We feel that maybe she is wanting this. We think she loves being a mommy. And there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are comfortable with it.

     Is it normal to be changed right after a feeding if you are wet or not? We say yes. It is better to be changed more often. We suggest changing every 2 hours if you have the diapers to do that.

    As far as having your pacifier all the time, it is not a good idea. It can cause dental problems. We think maybe a hour or two a day would be ok. Any more can cause dental problems like we said above.

      You would still need to be changed just as often. It would just hold more. No matter how much the baby diaper soaks up, you still would need to be changed just as often. Diaper rash is the worst thing to have. If you do happen to get diaper rash, and we hope you never do, we like to recommend Balmex.

       We wish you luck with your girlfriend and you new baby life.

   -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Scott

Q:

         I'm a new adult baby and live with my girlfriend. She wants to start putting me in crib, and is there a lot of adult babies who have nurseries set up and how would we go about finding what we need for it. I have been on formula for 2 months now, about once a week I get sick, but most of the time i am fine I am on the similac. With the hot weather soon getting here what would be the best clothing for her to dress me in, and should she keep me in disposable or cloth diapers. Do they make car seats and strollers for adult babies I am not that big and weigh around 100 lbs. I just got over a bad diaper rash, should she continue to use the cream on me during each change. Sometimes I want a bottle in the middle of the night, should I have my diaper changed then, sometimes I am not that wet. I stay at my girlfriends sisters house during the day, and I use a pacifier, her sister said it is not good for me to have a pacifier all the time is this true.


A:

     Dear Scott:

       Yes there are adult babies with nursery’s. There are a few. (Pam) my AB sleeps in a crib. As far as cribs and changing tables and that sort of thing, you can search it on the internet. My AB sells plans to build a crib for $20.00. If you want to e-mail him you can do so at Stanley_19802@yahoo.com

       Baby formula is fine as a adult. We want to warn you not to ever use any formulas with iron in it. It can cause a lot of problems for adults. We also want to stress formula is ok, but we want to make sure you also eat adult food too. Formula is made for babies, not adults. You can also take adult food and put it in the blender. It will come out like baby food.

       As far as the clothing, we think maybe shorts and a shirt. Or if you are at home, just a T-shirt. You may be able to use a baby gown. As far as the diapers it is a personal choice. During the summer we recommend changing as often as possible. If you normally wear plastic pants over disposables, we recommend not doing it in the summer.

       We have not seen any made for adult babies. But maybe you can find one for a toddler that can hold you. It is made for toddlers for up to 100lbs. As for the stroller, you can get one from a medical store for handicap people. But they don’t hold more than about 100lbs.

       We don’t know which diaper rash cream you are using. If you use Balmex, use it for 3 days after the rash is gone. Also we think you should clean well at each diaper change. Change more often as well, and if you get the diaper rash back, start back with the Balmex.

        As far as changing after a feeding, we think that is a good idea. Changing is also good. With the pacifier, we feel one to two hours a day is about all we think is ok. Any more gives a high risk for dental problems.

  -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: timokeefe

Q:

      I was wondering if I should wear diapers all of the time or just when I am at home?I also had a woman come and take care of me for one hour and she changed me but she did not use baby powered


A:

     Dear Tim:

     As far as wearing diapers all the time, that is up to you. We can’t make that choice for you. As far as the changing the diaper without powder, we think you should use baby powder with every change. But we don’t know what she used to change you if anything. you didn’t really say. We hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: tom

Q:

    I was just wondering when you were going to start babysitting again. Thank you.


A:

    Dear Tom:

    We refer you to www.babycareservices.com. That should answer your questions.

  -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Patrick

Q:

      I was just wondering what I could do, to try and find someone who is interesting in diapers who is a female, because my family doesn't like the idea of me wearing diapers, actually they hate it. And think it's sick and messed up. I was wondering if I could get to understand, because I really want to wear them, but I'm not sure what to do. And also is there any place wear I can get some free samples or be a diaper model to make some extra money, I would love to do it. I hope you can help and thank you very much


A:

       Dear Patrick:

        As far as finding a female that likes men in diapers, we recommend posting in message boards or on rosters. That is the best we can do with that.

       As far as getting your family to understand your want to wear diapers, they may never understand. We think just give them space, and maybe in time they will learn to understand it and maybe accept it.

        Free samples, Can search “Free Diaper Samples” on the net. Or “Freebies” on the net. We have extra large diapers we are selling for only $20.00 plus shipping for 56 diapers in a case. As far as modeling for diapers, we don’t really know anywhere.

   -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Richard

Q:

        I would like to meet a female that likes beeing a baby and someone who will look after me.


A:

     Dear Richard:

     We really don’t know how to help you other than posting in message boards or rosters. Can even post in the singles in your local new paper. You can also go to yahoo chat or yahoo personals. That is the best we can do. Hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: pat

Q:

      I am a t/b and my mommy keeps me in only didee's and a white shirt at home. I am not allowed to use the bathroom at my house(I use the didee's)and it really hard for me to poop them. is there any advise you can give my to help me poopy my didees easier? I also have occasional constipation what is the best method for curing this with a didee in?


A:

     Dear Pat:

    We recommend eating more fiber such as (Lettuce, and other green vegetables). This will not only make it easier to poop, but your constipation will be gone and you will poop more often. Happy pooping. :)

  -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Mary

Q:

       Dear Mommy how can I start to poop my diaper without straining and should I go out in public with my boyfriend in my stroller?


A:

       Dear Mary:

       We really don’t have any good idea’s about how to help you poop without straining. If you are set on trying to poop in your diaper without straining, you could use prune juice. But we don’t recommend making yourself lose control of your bladder or bowl control.

        As far as the stroller, it depends on where you live. Each state and area is different and has different laws. We recommend if you want to do that, to probably do it in a private area away from people.

      -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Allan

Q:

        Well, I am kind of looking a good psychologist. My mother requested I find one, due to my infantilism. She is convinced it is simply a behavioral addiction and I could just "kick the habit" if I tried. I have tried. Besides, when you can't talk to anyone about a problem, it is VERY hard to get support. What I really need is an article or paper on infantilism by a professional. If it was written well enough, I might get the point across. I love my family a lot, more than my adult side can ever show, but my child side cannot come out around them to show it.


A:

        Dear Allan:

            We have a link to another site where a paper is done about infantilism that you are looking for and may help. The link to the page is:
http://babytalk.abyclub.com/WebX.cgi?13@82.gyUTaQ0kgX6^4@.ee6ce4b

    Hope that site is what you are looking for. And please be careful what you tell therapists. Sometimes they take the wrong way and can react harshly.

    -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: bob

Q:

          how can I get my wife to diaper and treat me like a baby?


A:

      Dear Bob:

      There is so much we don’t really know about the situation. We think that you should not try to force your wife to baby you. It may be something she might come around to later? And even some have been knowing to use removing the diaper as a form of foreplay before making love. We think just be honest with how you feel and let her make the decision if she want’s to play mommy/baby or not. We really don’t recommend forcing your wife to play mommy to you, because it can cause a lot of problems with your relationship and can possibly cause a divorce in the end. Hope all works out.

    -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Mark

Q:

        What kind of diaper would be good for me. I am a dl, and want a diaper to go poo and pee in. My only resources are a drugstore, and medical, handicap store which carry's diapers.


A:

       Dear Mark:

        We are not sure what you want in a diaper exactly. There are so many brands out there it is not possible for me to tell you exactly what brand will work for you. We recommend when you go, take down how much you weigh, and your waist size. You can find your waist size, by taking a tape measure and wrapping it around your waist till it touches the other end of the tape. After you have your weight and waist size you can go to the store and look at the many different types of diapers.

   Some are bulky, some make noise, some have leaking problems when you pee too much. But each one is made different for different people. You will just have to try a few kinds before you find what works for you. You can also if you want go online and go to www.HDIS.com and get their phone number and call or e-mail them requesting samples. Just keep in mind that they will arrive in the mail box. So please keep that in mind when you order them. And the package will say HDIS on it. We hope this helps you.

     -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Caleb

Q:

      Why are the chances of finding a REAL, not paid, diaper lover girl so dire and dismal? I would search the world for such a girl if only I thought the odds of success where greater than that of winning the lottery. Am I, an college bound DL male doomed to life of searching for mere acceptance of my fetish by my partner, never to find one who shares my interest? Thank you.


A:

      Dear Caleb:

        To meet a girlfriend who will enjoy doing this with you, you have to drop little hints and see how she reacts. Such as “Hay, I saw this guy on TV that likes to wear diapers for fun. what do you think about that?” See how she reacts. If she reacts well to it, then you know how she might react to you. That is the best way to judge. Don’t just drop it on the person. But just keep looking for that special person.

   -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: Clare

Q:
      Hi My name is Clare and I would like a mommy to change my disposable diapers and would like to know how to get a mommy to do that I have had no luck I live in England Staffordshire could you help me please.


A:

        Dear Clare:

        In England there are many mommy’s out there, but most charge per the hour. If you want, you can either post on the “Babies looking for mommy’s” section on this site, or you can go to yahoo chat in the evenings and go to Adult, Romance, Fetishes, user rooms and then look for the AB/DL playpen room. There are a lot of people in there at night, and early in the morning. That is your best bet.. Hope this helps you.

   -Pam and Sandra

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QUESTION ASKED BY: CHAD

Q:

          I HAVE BEEN WEARING DIAPERS FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS NOW AND WANT TO STOP. HOW DO I ASK FOR HELP POTTY TRAINING


A:

       Dear Chad:

       This is a hard question. It is much easier to potty train children. As the child gets older they become harder and harder to potty train. But there are a few things you can try. Such as looking on yahoo search and typing in “Bed Wetting Alarms”. Those seems to be effective, even for adults.  Hope this helps you Chad.

   -Pam and Sandra
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