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Question Asked By: Art

Q:
        I have just returned from my Las Vegas vacation. Like I said earlier, I did notify the hotel I was staying at that I was a bedwetter and the bed was alrady made up with a plastic sheet on top of the mattress, but under the sheets. Yes, I did wet. Housekeeping said it was more common than people realize, and wish more people were up front about it, rather than "surprise" the hotel. Thanks and happy new year!


A:

      Hello Art,

      Thank you for sharing that information about the plastic sheets and the hotels. We are glad your time in Vagas went well. Take care.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: GARY COFFEY

Q:

      i had a stroke i cant pin or tape a diaper on got some pull on diapers use 2 of them they still leak need somthin that dont leak the pin on i used were thick but worked everyone nows i wear diapers well they used to stick out like a sore thump help ty


A:

         Hello GARY COFFEY,
        
         You could try pull ups with pampers size 6 diapers with cuts down the back of the diaper. And seeing as it's due to a medical reason that you are wetting, you might be able to get your doctor to write a prescription for the diapers. If you want to try disposable diapers again, we recommend using the Eurobriefs. We hope that helps.

      -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Craig

Q:
       I hvae been a bed-wetter all of my life and my mom put me back into cloth diapers and plastic pants when I was 7. Almost right away I liked the feeling of having diapers and plastic panties on. At the age of 10 or so I started to get turned on in them. Now I still get very excited about wearing my diapers and my plastic panties and I wear them all the time. Do you know why some bed-wetters actually started to like the humiliation of wearing diapers and plastic panties? I am sure many bed-wetters were put into cloth diapers and plastic panties but they did not learn to love them like it did. Thanks


A:

      Hello Craig,

      This is not the topic to be talked about on this area. We recommend you going to the Ask Mommy area. This area is for Bed Wetters to ask questions relating to bed wetting. You mention liking to wear the diapers and plastic pants. Not everyone who wears a diaper conciders it humiliation. Diferent strokes for different folks. We think this topic is for the Ask Mommy area and would be happy to discuss it further there. Sorry.

   -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tyler

Q:
       What Kind of diapers should i wear and should I tell my girl friend?


A:

       Hello Tyler,
      
       Unless you are in a serious relationship with this person, we don't think you should share your bed wetting problem with her yet. As far as diapers to wear, we stand by the Eurobriefs. We hope that helps, and good luck with your relationship with your girlfriend.

     -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: gary

Q:
      since october i have been wetting the bed on occasion. it happens for a couple time and then it dosent happen for a while but it always happens again


A:

     Hello gary,

     Could be stress in your life. You should think about what's going on when you are wetting. Take a look at what's going on because there may be something in your life that's triggering it. Keep a log to see what's different from when your wetting and when your not to see if it's something in your life that's causing it so you know to try to stay away from that situation. Hope that helps.

       -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: patty

Q:
         i have a freand and she dont have to wear diapers but she loves to wear them and her mom lets her and changes her why dose she do this.


A:

         Hello patty,

        Guess she just likes to do it. And to be honest, she could be into more serious things like drugs and drinking. Right? Try asking her why she does it. Just be upfront with her. As long as it's ok with her and her mom. We hope that helps.

  -Pam and Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jared

Q:

       I have been bed wetting for 2 years it just started up again. i hate changing my sheets and i am wondering what kind of diapers i should use. i am 120 pounds,5'7, and i wet about 14 ounces of pee. are depends good or what kind?


A:

       Hello Jared,

       I recommend using Goodnites XL. They fit up to 125lbs and should hold the 14oz you say you are putting out. The depends overnites might be ok to use. That should help you. If not please e-mail back and I will try to suggest some other products. Please keep us posted on your progress. Take care.

   -Sandra

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Question Asked By: John Doe

Q:

      do brintey spars wear diapers


A:

      Hello John Doe,

       I really can't say. There are some people who say she does. But no one can say for sure. I guess it's one of thoes mistories. But there are stars out there who do wear protection. Sorry I could not answer your question about if she does actually wear diapers.

  -Sandra.

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Question Asked By: kelvin

Q:

       After suffering with bladder incontinece for many years i finally plucked up the courage to go to the continence advisor (inthe UK), she arrainged various tests witha urologist and I have been told that I have a detrusitol bladder as well as a functional problem mwith a muscle at the base of the urethra. I also have diabetes and have been told the problem is likely to get worse and that I may end up totally uncontinent (urinary), can you offer any advice or excercises that may help,I am waitingto see a specialist nurse to help with muscle re-training but that could be 2 o3 years down the line, when the problem may well be worse Thanks in advance Kelvin


A:

       Hello kelvin,

       The only real excercises that have been proven to work is a kind called "Kegel excercises". You can look it up online. It may or may not help. But it's worth a try. As far as protection I recommend Eurobriefs. You can find them at: http://secure.uniquebrief.com/index.htm   

      We really hope that helps you. If not please e-mail us back. Take care.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Broc

Q:

     What is the bst prount I should use Im a very heavy wetter I use goodnights, pmabers,huigges, pull-ups what shoudld I use?


A:

    Hello Broc,

    With you being a heavy wetter, the best disposable we know of is Eurobriefs. They hold 96oz, almost 3 litters. That should contain what you are putting out with no leaks. And the products can hold 3-4 wettings during the night if you are the kind of person that wets more than once during the night. You can read all about the product online. The address is:

http://secure.uniquebrief.com/index.htm

      Being that the Eurobriefs are a bit expencive, the next best product is called Molicare. Molicare can hold a good amount. Molicare holds about 40oz. The next one down from Molicare would be attends. Thoes are the 3 best products I have heard about. Most places you order from can provide plain brown boxes so no one will know what products you are getting but you. I hope that helps.

-Sandra

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Q:

      How do I tell my friends I wet all day long? How do you stop wetting?

A:

    Hello Danny,

    For the friends, I probably wouldn't tell them. Kids can be pretty crule sometimes and may tease you about it. About the wetting, I would see a doctor and make sure it's nothing serious and dicuss with the doctor about different ways you can stop wetting. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra

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Q:

      Hi waht is my problem if i poop my pants and not pee and ido it a lot like every hour i dont do it alot and nobody knows and i really like wearing diapers cause i wore em wen i was little nobody belives me that i want to wear diapers so i just pee my pants or make a diaper out of a towel should i continue? how do i get people to belive i pee and poop my pants? i have been doing it all my life why dosent my mom belive me now i probably need to wear diapers soon cuase my skin stings wehn i pee? were can i get diapers with out my mom knowing and ones that i can pee and poop in.

A:

     Hello peter,

     We strongly recommend using goodnites. They are ok to use daily. The stinging is probably diaper rash, you should get a tube of a product called Balmex. It works well on diaper rash. And with the goodnites is can be worn around people without them knowing because it makes no sounds. As far as telling you mom, ask you mom to buy you the balmex and goodnites. They might get the point across and ask you mom to take you to the doctor so you can tell the doctor what's going on. Hope that helps.

   -Sandra

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Q:

     What can i do so the kids in my class won't find out that i am wearing diapers ?

A:

     Hello austin,

     I would suggest switching to wearing goodnites. They are as close to underwear as possible, but can still take an accident like a diaper can. If  you have to wear diapers in class, try wearing snug (Not tight) underwear over the diaper. It will cut down on the sound the plastic makes. Hope that helps.

  -Sandra.

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Question Asked By: Aaron

Q:

     Any new diapers for my brother who still wets his bed ??

A:

     Hello aaron,

     You can try going to http://secure.uniquebrief.com/index.htm and looking at what they have there. They are pretty new to the market that I have seen. Hope that helps.
 
   -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Bob
Age: 13

Q:

I day-dream about wearing diapers, but I not want to tell my parents I want to wear diapers what should I do?


A:

Hello Bob,

     The only way we can think of for you to make your day dream come true is to do odd jobs for money, save your allowance or recycle bottles and cans for the money you need to buy the diapers. That’s the only way we can suggest for you to get them safely and without anyone knowing. Hiding them is another problem. If you need help with hiding suggestions do write us back.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Jamie
Age:19

Q:

I just over wetting the bed and still enjoy wearing diapers and wetting myself anyway and having my mom change me still. Is this normal for me to keep doing this or do some kind of fetish for doing this.


A:

Hello Jamie,

     What is normal? What’s normal for you may not be normal for someone else. If your comfortable and your mom is comfortable with the situation then there is no reason to fix it. Like the saying goes “If it is not broke, don’t fix it”. If you and your mom are ok with it, then there is no problem. If your comfortable then it’s normal.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Zac
Age: 14

Q:

I want to wear diapers but, I can't get my hand's on any. I'm faking bed wetting to wear diapers. if I told some body they'll think I'm gay but I'm not how can get my hands on some medium size 32-44 would yall buy me some please ? If you do I live at **** walker field rd. ******** Tennessee zip code *****. I'd Appreciete it thank you
              Zachary
p.s. how do I get my mom to change me?


A:

Hello Zac,

     It sounds like you are saying your wetting to try to get your mom to put you back in diapers. First off we don’t buy diapers for anyone. If you want to wear diapers for wetting, then you can do odd jobs for money, save your allowance or recycle bottles and cans for the money you need to buy the diapers.

      As far as getting your mom to change you, that probably won’t happen. Most parents might show you how to put the first one on, but after that it would probably be on you to diaper yourself.  We wish you luck in getting the protection you are looking for. Take care.

  -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Matthew P
Age: 20

Q:

I have a question that I really need answered and I don't know who to talk to or where to get help. I am 20 years old I have been a bedwetter my whole life when I was 10 as a punishment my mom put me in diapers 24/7 as a punishment.My mom said I will be wearing them until I move out and she will do the changes.I wanted to know what can I do is this even legal is she allowed to I have try to talk to her and I get spanked and told if I want to live in her house I must live my her rules. Do you have any ideas what I can do.this has effected my whole life throughout middle and high school I was always teased I have no friends because of it or anything.Please answer me thank you very much.


A:

Hello Matthew,

     First try to talk to your mother about her easing up on you wearing diapers. Whether she is agreeable or not, the next step is to see a doctor to see if you even have bladder control at this point. You need to be weaned off the diapers if that is what you want. While it’s not against the law to diaper you it is abnormal. If it’s a punishment, it sounds like it’s gone on long enough. If she is set on keeping you in diapers while living in her house then you need to find a way to move out. Either live with another family member, find a room mate to live with…something. We wish you all the luck.

   -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Dougie
Age: 13

Q:

I'm 13 and I've been wetting my bed as long as I can remember and I've never had a dry nite so far.  I live with just my mom & she works hard to take care of us & she has always just put diapers & plastic pants on me at bedtime.  they work cause they keep my bed dry & I'm not upset in the morning when I wake up wet.  I also have asthma & my mom has always said I'll outgrow that & the bedwetting.  but like I'm 13 & I still have both. If your still like 13 & still wetting every nite how long does it take to start staying dry?  Also my mom is really nice to me & doesn't get on me cause I have to wear diapers but my grandma keeps telling me I should be ashamed that I still have to wear them.  when she takes care of me she keeps me in the diapers & plastic pants all the time saying if I'm a baby I need to wear them.  should I tell my mom to have her stop doing this?  its hard enough to still wet the bed & then get scolded for it.  thank you.


A:

Hello Dougie,

     Only a medical doctor can tell you about when you might start getting dry. I would suggest you ask your mom to make an appointment to see a doctor.

     As far as your grandma, we think you should tell your mom about what your grandma and what she is saying and making you do. There is no reason you should have to wear diapers all day long just because you wet at night. So ask your mom to ask your grandma to stop doing that to you. It’s not right. And don’t be ashamed of wetting. Stanley, the owner of this site is 24 and has been wetting since he was 13. No reason to be ashamed of wearing protection. If you need protection, there is nothing to be ashamed of. We wish you luck. Take care.

   -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Kevin Burn
Age: 19

Q:

What do you do if your sister invites a friend around and your worried that they will make fun of you?


A:

Hello Kevin,

     Talk to your sister and ask her not to tell your friends about your wetting problem. If she won’t respect that then ask your mom to speak to your sister about it. Unless your sister is under 18 your mom might not even be able to do anything about it. If your sister just won’t respect your feelings then all we can suggest is you look into finding a apartment of your own. We hope everything works out ok for you.

    -Sandra.

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Question Asked By: Becky H
Age: 16

Q:

At school my friend who is in a different lesson to me comes in half way through and everyone knows that I wear diapers but they make fun of me. How do I stop them my teacher know can she help.


A:

Hello Becky,

     Talk to your guidance counselor and they can contact the different teachers and the principle about taking care of the teasing. There is no reason you should be embarrassed while at school. It can make learning hard. We hope this helps you.

    -Sandra

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Question Asked By: Tom M.
Age: 40

Q:

I've been wearing diapers since I was 6 and when I was tested, I was told I had a weak bladder and was told I would grow out of it but still to this day, wet the bed and still have daytime accidents. Should I get rechecked or should I continue wearing diapers for protection?


A:

Hello Tom,

     First off do go and have a check up done and see if your bladder condition has changed any. If you have not grown out of it yet there might be a problem that a new check up would uncover. So do make an appointment with your doctor. Till it’s all figured out do continue using the protection you are already using.

     -Sandra

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Question Asked By: John
Age: 52

Q:

My wife to be insists, on not hiding the fact that I wear diapers saying its unhealthy to hide because of the following: diapers don't get changed as often as the should, often wet diapers don't get cared for right away like they should and I'm always terrified that some one will find out. She insisted that once I got use to everyone  knowing my secret it wont be that bad. Jokingly telling me that as long as I wet my diapers like a baby she needs to treat me like one and she has never heard of a baby getting embarrassed about having to wear diapers. I was scared out of my wits at the same time it feels so good to be under her control in this matter. I have found that she was right ( I guess mommy's are right) I would like to know your view on this matter.


A:

Hello John,

     It sounds like you are a baby in search of a mommy. If you are comfortable in having her in control of your wetting management then more power to you. What ever you feel is most helpful in you dealing with the problem. We hope everything turns out ok for you.

    -Sandra
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